I was feeling alone, so I decide to show affection to my friend and asked her maybe for a date? She said no but we continued to IM each other. Than because I hounder her to much she broke it off with me. Haven't been able to talk with her a week, less sleep, stomach problems, I missed a half a day of because of this. Now I talked to her last night she forgave me in sense like it wasn't meant to be forgiven, it was like a nothing.
So we talked for about 45min and than in order to be completely honest with myself and her, I told her I had talked to her about me confronting someone we both know and trust each other with our personal problems and told her a secret to another to clear my head to get over her. He understood that this was to remain between us. I trust him on that, I believe she would to. But I told her that I did that. She is mad at me, understandably. I told her I would give her my heart to let her know how I feel. Will she forgive me? And when should I talk with her again?
2007-11-03 06:32:27 · 6 answers · asked by rsjackdupp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is yes. But I still want my friend back. She knows how I feel and doesn't quite know why but knows some.
2007-11-03 06:52:03 · update #1
She is not that type, to get flowers or notes. I trust her and if that happened to me, I would be mad yes, but I would realized how others have treated me and forgive and ask her to explain the circumstances. Our last convorsation I said " I guess good-bye forever' cause I know she horbor it against me " Till you can forgive me"
2007-11-03 07:05:07 · update #2
You said you hounded her too much,, just give her space, let her know you love her (either as a friend or more) and you're ready to talk when she is. No pressure on her. Just give it time, take it easy and relax. she'll come when she is ready for it. good luck
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2007-11-03 19:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ уσυ вєℓσηg ωιтн мє ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you're in love with her, I would give her a day or two and then call her ,or send her some flowers with a note.
Good Luck
2007-11-03 13:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by Red M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am no psychic or anything..
but I don't think that's the whole picture...I think she may have used it as a gateway...
there is nothing to forgive really. she is being childish.. dont mess with girls like that she will use you every chance she gets. trust me...I had many friends like that growing up.
2007-11-03 13:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by ✿❃❀❁✾ Stef ♐ ✿❃❀❁✾ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She broke things off because in your words "You hounded her too much." Leave her alone already. Hopefully she will start calling you one day, but it has to be her decision.
2007-11-03 17:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you betray her trust and confidence???? Especially if you care so much about her - how could you??? If I were her, I would NEVER speak to you again. EVER.
NOT EVER!
Stop hounding her (that is stalking) and leave her alone. Get therapy!
2007-11-03 13:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dina K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, E-mail her of how you feel.
Say "What did I do?"
She will most likely say her answer and what you did wrong, fix it to feel better, and feel happy.
Don't be to harsh on her or anything just be you.
She will like you for who you are................
2007-11-03 14:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by ღαlyȿȿαღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋