Do you think he isn't so much into me?Ok,here's the story,i've dated this guy for 3 weeks now but i knew him

Question

from before.When we are out together he's very carrying,gentle etc.The problem is that he isn't so steady in his promises,2 times so far we made some plans but the last moment he cancelled by telling me he was tired and he wanted to relax in his house.I'm not a pressing type but i'm surprised as he was the one to propose all these things.We're both 26 and we didn't have sex yet.how you see this situation?

Answer 1

He's tired. Your not that high on his list. Just chill. He'll come around.

Answer 2

Well, I have 2 daughters, my ex-husband's mother would do that with my girls. She also has another granddaughter from her own daughter. She had made plans to keep all three one night. She'd had her other granddaughter all week. That Friday she called at the last minute to cancel plans. My girls were very hurt. She never calls them on their birthdays or always calls to make an excuse as to why she can't attend their Christmas programs, etc. Needless to say, she no longer has my current phone number. I will not allow her to do that to my daughters. I know it is different with your situation. (Assuming you do not have kids.) But, the point is, you do have a choice in the matter. If he continues to let you down, either vow not to get your hopes up about it, or refuse to accept plans from him from now on AND don't be afraid to be honest about it. A person can only allow for someone else to hurt/let them down so much before they put their foot down. And I definitely would not sleep with him.

Answer 3

You've only been going out for 3 weeks and the man is obviously busy and trying to make time for you. Get over it. This isn't an instant relationship, it's just dating.

Answer 4

You obviously are not his #1 priority. Move on.

Answer 5

He doesn't sound like he's that interested in you, or else he might be seeing someone else also. Move on and date someone else.

Answer 6

You need to talk to him.