It's like this this girl pretends to be really friendly but I know she is faking it. Also when she is around no one talks to me and then when she isn't around I get a tepid hello from people I first thought were really intresting. (I live in a shared house by the way) She dominates every part of the house her stuff is all over (I haven't done the same, I'm scared someone will 'accidently' break them) The reason I ask girls is because they are wiser about undercover b*tchy attacks why boys seem oblivious. I don't want to play any games I actually just want to live in harmony but that seems impossible as she won't stop until I leave which I was considering. Why do you think I've been singled out? What would you do personally?
2007-11-03 01:24:19 · 18 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's not even worth the battle...honestly.
If I was in your position I would give my 30 days to the landlord or whatever and start packing my stuff. Then I would just sit down with everyone in the house and just tell them that you don't feel comfortable living there anymore and you've decided it would be best if you just moved out.
Don't point fingers and say it's because of that girl, and that is why you want to leave...just say you have your own reasons...and to avoid any potential drama, you'd rather not share those reasons. You would just prefer to move out and leave it at that.
Confronting her isn't going to do any good, she's "one of those" girls. Hard headed...anything you say to her is going to go in one ear and out the other, no doubt.
I would just try your best to ignore her and get along, be the bigger person until you get out of there.
Kill her with kindness....those types of girls hate...when they make you smile :) So smile big and bite your tongue, remember she's on Karma's TO DO list....she'll get hers in due time...don't worry.
.........good luck.
2007-11-03 01:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation where my ex-roomy domintated the living situation not just with her own things but with her loser boyfriends.
People would be short with me and standoffish for the longest time. I was competely miserable and felt really alone and tormented.
Well she lost her job and moved home to her parents then the real truth came out.
Seemingly she had told people Id not paid bills, not split food bills, had men over all the time and a bunch of other garbage.
Yet once I was able to prove things and let people see that it was in fact she who'd been doing all these things, everything changed.
Those same people now show me the respect now they know the truth.
The best thing I ever did was to move on my own, you never have to answer to anyone but yourself. Find the strength and move on by yourself.
2007-11-03 04:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by xfylz69@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would one day get everyone in your shared house in the one room tell all of them how your feling (If it is just you and this woman then get your two in the one room) and tell it like it is if that doesent work and you are going to leave i would break all her things lying aroung and toss it in the toilet pan and leev without notice. Show them who the ***** it ha ha ha 9 This might not be your style although if i was you this is what i would do while scratching the girls eyes out at the same time. . .
2007-11-03 04:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I come home it is to relax and enjoy myself. If I couldn't do that, then I would find some where else to go. Start looking for a place, if you can afford it even if it is a one room with kitchen, and bath. When you find it I would gather up my things and be gone. I wouldn't say a word unless I had to give notice, and then only to the person I was giving notice to. Stop being a door mat for people like this.
2007-11-03 01:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always make sure you are recording the dates of each and every harassment dates so that when t gets to a point you can't take it any longer, report her to the police and make it legal but you don't have to wait to that time before you do what you've got to do. make Sure you have enough evidence and proof. don't threaten her please don't have been through almost same thing but the police sorted it out for me now I'm a free lady GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-11-03 02:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by Supergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get your question but what i did for bullying continuously was practiced some karate excercise vids that u can get online or on ondemand if u have comcast. then i practice and if she does it again. sock her one in the nose and she might swing back and just do it again repidiately then when shes down walk away....
2007-11-03 02:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new place ....This girl sounds very catty and you don't need that childish bull crap... Get your new place and then tell the rest of them how you feel about the way they treated you.....Then tell Miss ego to f*&^ off...
2007-11-03 01:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by diva102288 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation. i personally try my best to ignore. she says something... u say nothing! if u share a room just be out of it as much as u can!
I know your pain!
2007-11-03 01:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by madelynjohnson97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just emotional. Or she hates you. Most of the time it is because they are jealous of you. If you are prettier than her or have something she doesn't she will probably be moody
2007-11-03 04:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her to be more friendly and quit dominating then if she doesn't do that and contribute then you should ask her to move out.
2007-11-03 01:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋