i am in in loe in my cousen what can i do?

Answer 1

What the hell are you trying to say? If it is "in love with your cousin" then please see a counselor because that is your cousin and we are in the modern world!

I personally think you need to improve your grammar before you post a question.

Answer 2

The first step in dealing with this dilemma, is to clear up any misconceptions regarding having relationships with cousins.

Although cousin-to-cousin relationships were once considered taboo, due to the possibility of passing along genetic-based illnesses, it is now considered perfectly OK to have an intimate relationship with a cousin. In fact, cousins can even marry.

As far as actually having a relationship with a cousin goes, it can be complicated for a host of reasons. For one thing, your cousin will remain within the family fold for the rest of his, and your, days. Therefore, if things were to go sour, you and he would still have to deal with each other on an ongoing basis. In other words, there's no escape.

You also might have to bear in mind how your family are going to react. They may not have a problem with the relationship but it's something that you need to talk and think about before letting everyone know your feelings.

If, however, the possibility of enduring a few awkward, uncomfortable moments doesn't faze you, by all means pursue a relationship with your cousin. If you think it might be too much to cope with then there's nothing wrong with remaining close friends.

Good Luck

xx


And lets clear something up - ITS NOT INCEST !!!!!!!!

Answer 3

the best thing to do, is to let her know about it, and then., after you know what she thinks about your feelings, you'll be clear to take the next step, if she says that it can't be , then you should avoid her on any way is possible.
But if she says something like "oh ! really I feel the same" that means that you two can try to get a relationship, but always keep on mind that she is your cousin, and your parents won't be too happy about it.

Answer 4

ummmmm i hope loe is a different language and you didnt meen love lol
step
#1 turn around
#2 look in a mirror
#3 take a goooooood long look
#4 raise you hand (fingers all extended)
#5 make a swift movement and slap the s*** out of yourself
#6 tell yourself " BAD (insert your name here)...BAD!"
#5 refer to nnumber 4 and repeat in needed

Answer 5

in in loe i never heard anything like that before. try to improve ur language first thats why u r dumped by others.

Answer 6

Wow... well listen, first of all if you are young, like around 13 or younger, don't listen to the people that may insult you, you are just confused, you need to know, that no matter what, developing those kinds of feelings for a family member is just wrong, and you never should, it's called incest, and it's very sickning, so you need to find a girl that isn't related to you and like her...

Answer 7

hmmm, well i mean love is blind sometimes right?

but just remember that you two are family, and that in the end of the line, if you dont have anyone else to be with, its never true because you have family that never goes away. if you were to get hitched with your cousin, wouldn't you think that it can risk breaking up your family. society frowns upon these things nowadays which is a shame.

Answer 8

You may just like your cousin b/c they have attributes similar to those that you have. It will most likely wear off, and you will find someone else of the opposite sex to idolize. Truly loving someone is alot more difficult than just seeing and knowing.

Answer 9

Move to West Virginia...LOL! (just kidding) You know this isn't right. There are many people out there you can find that posses the qualities your cousin has that have attracted you. Find them, you have to look.

Answer 10

Nothing and its not wrong lots of people even married thier cousin like edgar allen poe