Heres the deal, in grade 5 I was a little innocent kid who didnt have a lot of friends...I was picked on by some grade 8. Then he left the school and so did I cause I moved to a different place. Now, I'm in grade 9, and he is in grade 12! I never thought of him doing anything now beacuse I've grown alot and I'm much more confident and have alot of friends.
I recognized him straight away, and tried not to look him in the eyes. So now I'm 2 months into the school, this was yesterday on friday, I'm showing this book to my friend in the hall beside my locker and he gives me a push and by book hits the locker and I hear laughing...my friend didn't say anything, it was like he didnt even notice...I don't know what to do, it happend so fast.
What if he does it again? I mean, hes pretty strong, on the football team, but I'm his height. He thinks he's a bigshot, yeah one of those cockheads.
For the first time since grade 5 I remembered how it felt to be bullied. It sucks.
Advice?
2007-11-03 02:20:40 · 4 answers · asked by brendan_7210 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go about your life as normal...but keep a discrete eye on him. If you ignore him and his stupid behavior, it's possible that he'll lose interest in bothering you. If he keeps it up, consider talking to other people about it (friends, teachers, etc.).
2007-11-03 02:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by sci55 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal. That guy think he's ALL THAT: strong and ****. But if you out-strong him or something, then he might give up...y'know, if he does the same thing again, prepare for a brawl and show him what you've got. Of course you need to learn how first. Try to self-train by working out, borrowing martial arts tutorial dvds or something, or simply train karate/muay-thai/kick-boxing/taekwondo/shaolin kung fu.
BUT the best thing to do is to have a good support system. It runs with your family and most especially your PEERS. Enroll in a martial arts school/club and make new friends. Because not only you gain friends, you gain a lot back-ups from all ranges of height/weight/age.
That bully will think twice of hitting you again. Hope this helps. I know 'coz I do martial arts and it's really effective in terms of defending yourself.
2007-11-03 10:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you have to go through this AGAIN, tell the school counselor, and then I would suggest taking some self defense classes, like karate, they will give you the tools to take care of this creap!!! They will teach you how to defend yourself and recognize when he is going to start his stuff with you again, and then after you recognize that, you will be ready to defend yourself!!!!!!
With everything going on in our schools these days, you have to have the tools to be aware of what is going on around you and how to defend yourself when situations get out of hand, so take a class, a self-defense class, and keep your eyes and ears open for this bully, and if you hear him talking about doing stuff to other kids, or wanting to hurt other people, do not take it lightly, report him to anyone ASAP, that way, you can stop a potential school situation again, and stop him from doing harm to you or to other kids.
God Forbid!
2007-11-03 09:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a number of ways to handle this. tell someone in the school and say if nothing is done you file harassment charges. That will make the school take this seriously. and follow through with that if this continues. Fight as a last resort.
2007-11-03 09:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by radman2035 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋