Situation 1 :
A boy and a girl are in love with each other. The girl here is casual and outspoken. The boy here is very possessive with the girl. So he doesn’t want the girl to talk or move freely with anyone. The boy expresses his dislike and anger to the girl if she moves closely with others – even with her brother like relations and also with his friends. In this case, sometimes the girl feels like ending their relationship. But at that time the boy feels sorry for what he has done and expresses his apology for what he has done. He says he does all these things out of deep love with her. In a later situation the boy does the same thing again.
Situation 2 :
A boy and a girl are in love with each other. The girl here is very free with others and outspoken. She moves closely with others boys (friends). The guy here takes things openly. He accepts the girl as she is. He says I love only your heart(soul). Kindly cast your vote for anyone of the above to help me take decision..
2007-11-03 00:11:44 · 11 answers · asked by nethra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Situation 1: Girl should dump the boy. Relationship is not about bondage. If u cant be yourself around the person you love, whats the point, one of you will always be unhappy.
This is taking into account the boy doesnt change his attitude.
Situation 2: Great situation as long as girl realises how precious the boy is.
2007-11-03 00:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by lead_viper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy there has to stop being narrow minded and let the poor girl to be free. Love doesn't mean you have to be slave to one you love. both the lovers should be understanding and respect each others feeling. most importantly the boy in the above story looks like psychic. he hurts her and beg for sorry. asking sorry is not the big thing. you should not do mistakes in first place. the girl has no future with this boy. there are lot more fishes in sea girl. just fish the good, understanding, caring and respecting one.
BEST OF LUCK
2007-11-03 00:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! i would go with situation 2 as the guy likes this girl for who and what she is and wont like to change her! if the guy in situation 1 does this sort of stuff now what will it be like to live with him in a married relationship, i think it would be hell, definatley go with the nice guy.
I was told once that if there is anything you would change in your man then you are with the wrong man, the person you love should be flawless in every way to you.
2007-11-03 00:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tina-Louise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the boy in situation 2 is far better than the boy in situation 1 . i'll cast my vote for boy 2 .
2007-11-03 00:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by nattkkattraja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Trust Anybody
Love Hurts
2007-11-03 00:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Maha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Situation No. 2 is better. Relationship without trust will not last long.
2007-11-03 00:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st situation show a weakness in relation and dominant charachter of guy and ehat ever he do is coreect
2 ssitutaion is good trustable and both sexes feel good and they never have any boundries but at sametime they know their limitaion so i will go for 2nd 1
2007-11-03 00:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by Fadoo Reply 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
# 2, He loves her, #1 only says he loves her, and wants to control her every waking moment. Run away from that one. Love is never having to say your sorry.
2007-11-03 00:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what decision
in the first scenario the boy will lose the girl - he needs to grow up and she needs to be less selfish/understanding
in the second, she'll play around and will end up hurting him (and herself)
what's the ?
2007-11-03 00:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by tinny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think #2 is better than #1....but I think most of the guys will come under #1........
2007-11-03 21:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋