almost 1 year I don't make love to my wife. she always gives an excuse.What could I do?

Answer 1

take her on a really nice foreign holiday and get her drunk making sur she enjoys herself and gets plenty of attention . spoil her rotton and have music on in the bedroom............
and .... well it worked for me and im the wife!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Have you asked her why? If the two of you can have a calm and mature discussion about it, maybe you can work it out.

She may just hate sex, or she might have a physical problem. She may not find you attractive anymore (heaven forbid), if that is the case, what can you do to get her attraction back?

Is there any indication that she is seeing someone else?

Answer 3

U need 2 seriously sit her down "calmly" and talk to her. Find out whats going on. LISTEN to what she has 2 say 1st. And then respond from there. Ask her if there is n e thing u could do differently 2 make things better? Remeber if u please ur wife then u'll get pleased even better!! Good luck!!

Answer 4

Sometimes you have to spice things up a lil. Go away for weekend. Or sometimes you just need to talk and find out why ! Maybe theres been something bothering her, let her know you still find her attractive woman sometimes need to be reassured that u still want them. Good Luck !!

Answer 5

make a romantic dinner, with lobster and so on....prepare a bath full of roses and essences, light candles all through your house and bedroom, tell her how much you love her, make her feel sexy, buy some massage exotic oil and learn how to give her a massage that will reach the skies....buy her flowers and a big ring, renew your marriage vows in your knees and tell her how wonderfull she is!
after all this in one night she shall fall for you as never did before.!!!!
but if she still gives you "the excuse" then there is some big problem in it.... then prepare to the big conversation....if it won't work...... return the ring!! and get another lady that deserves all this....
GOOD LUCK AND GOD SPEED!
(oh don't forget to shave, go get a hair cut, get parfumed and what so ever!)

Answer 6

talk with her and find out why and what the deal is and what you have to do to change that situation ...... might need to spice it up a bit change things around diferent positions , diferent places , try new things , maybe even kiss her *** a little with a back rub slow grinding music with candles or something of that sort ....... maybe its a respect thing or the way you treat her or something of that sort ........ good luck and hopefully happy pumping

Answer 7

Maybe you aren't any good, but she won't tell you because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
I quit having sex with my X long before we divorced simply because he only cared about getting his nut. He didn't care whether I enjoyed it or not. Sex is about two people, if you feel otherwise then you should just jack off.

Answer 8

Divorce her. Go find a woman who accepts this as part of a normal relationship. She`s cheating on you.

Answer 9

something fishy! next time when she gives excuse, ask her direct what's wrong, tell her if she not going to fulfil the duty of a wife than you will get someone else!

Answer 10

You can tell her that you are running out of patience and you feel that your relationship is going to slowly disappearing. If something is bothering her then she needs to tell you so both of you can fix the problem.

Answer 11

ok.. first off is your wife a mail order bride??
is she alive?? like a real person???
because if i had a wife and she don't wanna sleep with me after 2 weeks im at her sisters house :P
dude a WHOLE YEAR man you better check your mrs champ she's probably getting the deed from someone else.. and if she don't go no where you better what the milkman/postman/gardner/houseguest/ pets????