Ok i been on off with my BF for a year but we got back together and has been 2 months it is going great....he is super-sweet...but he had me on his number one on his myspace, and he change it and now i am his number 8 he got his good guy friends first than me, i called him today and we talk nothin unsual and he told me he loves me and i did too...but i don't he confuses me ALOT sometimes and i just don't know what to think...sometimes i think he loves me but then sometimes i don't think he doesn't...somebody help me...what should i do...what should i tell him...last thing that i want is to happen for me to loose him :(
2007-11-03 16:37:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have patience. You have only been back together for a couple months. Continue to show him how much you care. Accept the fact that you are starting over. Things are not the same as before you broke up. Take it slow and let your hearts grow together again. Remember the things that caused the breakup and avoid them. Soon you will be back at #1.
2007-11-03 16:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After I year of being off, and 2 months of been back together, you are already confused.You need to ask him the following question:1)why did you demote me on your myspacefrom number I to number 82)ask him if he truly loves you and want to be with you.3)rediscover one another again-----such as likes and dislikes, goals , dreams, the qualities you want in a partner and anything else you want to talk about that you feel will make yout romance better.I hope things will work out the way you want them to .Good luck.
2007-11-04 00:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to trust him. The reason you split in the first place could possibly have been your lack of confidence in the relationship. I'm not sure, because your not specific as to who finished with who. If you let minor things like where you are on his my space worry you, then what are you going to be like when you have a real problem in the relationship? Honestly, it sounds to me like you could be the type of person who makes mountains out of molehills, and that isn't a very attractive trait in a person. If you want to be his number one again, start being a fun girl to be around, instead of a girl who makes everything into a drama unecessarily. Nothing personal, just my opinion.
2007-11-03 23:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That same thing happened to me, except i was taken out of my BF's top 8 totally! I immediatly sent him a message and asked him why. Turns out there was somekind of weird bug going on with myspace. Maybe its that, but again you'll never know till you ask, so i think you should.
If you're feeling confused, talk to him and unconfuse yourself!
A word of advise, don't get stressed and jump to conclusions, it will just drive you nuts.
2007-11-03 23:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by maki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, to me it sounds like you may be confusing yourself. honestly, if he tells you he loves you, the best thing you can do is believe him. it's natural that he'd put his close guy friends first on his top, and also do NOT get worked up over myspace top friends. it's so not worth it! i'm sure he doesn't think he's being confusing, so don't take it that way. you'll get youself confused and upset when there's no reason to be, and that will confuse and upset HIM. don't create problems! good luck.
2007-11-03 23:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by shannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should talk to him and ask him y his friend on top b4 u .. but if his the type of guy that would argue over stupid things like that.. then dont bother to ask cause that would probably mess up the relationship.. juz be happy that its a guy friend not a chick friend... and be happy that ur still on his top.=p
2007-11-03 23:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by jalisa marie perez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋