2007-11-03 16:19:20 · 26 answers · asked by piscesbabyblue24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you were coming to me for advice, my advice would be to stay far away. Porn in any form can lead to acts outside of your vows. Take good care of your marriage. Chaplain Debby
2007-11-03 17:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
It's never okay to go to strip clubs, especially when you're married. Whether you want to admit it or not, it's a form of cheating. You're looking at another person and your mind is running wild with thoughts. Those thoughts will follow you too and no matter how much you think you aren't hurting your spouse, the truth is that you are selfish for going somewhere else for what you want and think you need.
2007-11-04 09:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rockit 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That depends entirely on you and your spouse. Some people find it terrible if their spouse wants to go to a strip club and end up resenting them if they continue to do it. In other relationships, spouses go to these types of clubs to "spice" things up. There is no right and wrong that someone can answer. It is up to the two of you to determine; not anyone else.
2007-11-03 23:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by littleone 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
"You know the next commandment pretty well, too: 'Don't go to bed with another's spouse.' But don't think you've preserved your virtue simply by staying out of bed. Your heart can be corrupted by lust even quicker than your body. Those leering looks you think nobody notices--they also corrupt.
(Mat 5:27-28 MSG)
Don't do around admiring other women when you're married. Besides those strippers, sooner or later (or already), are other people's wives. Imagine 100 guys drooling at your wife just waiting for an opportunity to fulfill their pleasures on her...
2007-11-04 04:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by denny-n-mandy 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure I'll get thumbs down, but no, it isn't. Once you are married, you are committed to that person. You should save all your love and passion for that person. Otherwise, your mind is going to be filled with lustful thoughts about the stripper, which will eventually cause problems in your marriage. Resist the temptation, and be thankful for what you have. If it isn't the best marriage, you can try counseling to help you get past a rough patch you may be having. Also, you can try new things to spice up your relationship. Just be faithful!
"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." - Matthew 5:28
2007-11-03 23:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by JenAg06 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
It should be between you and your spouse. If (i'm assuming its your wife) she isn't comfortable with it, find out why. If she's insecure, talk to her. Otherwise, if she doesn't want you to- its not worth the fight or the days of silence following your visit. Personally, it doesn't bother me when/if my hubby goes. He may have a good time, but I know its really about "male bonding".
2007-11-03 23:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sue A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How strong is your relationship? Some guys who are married that go to strip clubs go to be one of the boys but others go for more obvious reasons. So which reason is it? Because remember half the fun is seeing and the mind can do wonderful things once you get back home to your wife.
2007-11-03 23:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
This is something that you would need to discuss with your spouse or fiance as you would need to set boundaries first before doing anything that would upset both or one of you.
once you agree to what you both will enjoy and what you wont then you can go from there.
Some spouses enjoy going together and some enjoy going separately
the choice is yours
Good Luck
2007-11-03 23:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
that is more of a moral issue what ur principles are and how your spouse feels about it pesonally i wouldnt do it when i get married to my boyfriend i wont club anymore
2007-11-03 23:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but there is a catch. Your wife needs to be okay with the idea in the first place. Sometimes bringing them along convinces them-other times it results in a big argument.
Bottom line- it's about the agreement between you and your spouse. (I solved my FH's quandary by telling him if he went, he'd better bring me back a job application to work there.)
2007-11-03 23:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by Spider2006 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think the answer to this question comes from your spouse
2007-11-03 23:30:24 · answer #11 · answered by ... 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋