My dad told me he was going to get remarried within a month. It came as a shock to me, and I don't know if I should feel happy or sad. My mom and dad have been divorced for about 10 years, and I'm 16 years old. He asked me to come to his wedding, and I don't know how to react. I'm wondering how other people on yahooanswers dealth with anything similiar to this.
2007-11-03 18:20:23 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know how u feel. My parents got divorced 2 years ago. 3 months after the divorced my dad was engaged. I was sad. I cried a lot. He regrets marrying her now. :( I feel for u.
2007-11-03 18:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents have been divorced since i was about 15 years old...they are BOTH now remarried and both now happy...it turned out to be a good thing in the end for everyone....its better if your parents are happy you know? they need happyness in their lives. you should go to the wedding and get to know this new member of your family...maybe you can get close to her? but at least be there for your dad...he will always be your dad.
2007-11-04 01:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mom remarried three times yep and my dad remarried once been married for 25 yrs and moms had three husbands in 25 yrs well acutally four counting my dad. If your dad is happy and you like his fiance then id say go to the wedding. my mom always got hitched and told us after the fact. but who would want to see there mom marry three timesafter my dad??? thats another story butbe happy for him.
he is human he still desires woman i know its hard to accept another woamn but your almost a grown man so yeh go to the wedding. you should be the best man if your the only son
2007-11-04 01:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by laylajai74 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my parents have been divorced since I was like 3, and my dad basically left us. my mother was forced to work and raise me on minimum wage. then when I was 10, she met this guy, and he was rich. so she married him in russia (whcih is where we lived) and we moved in with him and stuff. well, I was really young back then, and I liked him and stuff, even though he's kind of heartless and hated kids. then we moved to america, and he was really mean to me and stuff. then, it turned around and me an dmy mom started retaliating to him. now, he's totally nice to us because both of us got a back bone. right now, they're about to divorce, but we also realized that he truly has a heart. hahah. well my mom is about to remarry, but this guy is the definition of amazing. i love him and his family, and his family loves us. so I would say, in your situation, it kind of seems like your dad isn't giving you a choice. so i would say, just see how his new spouse treats you. if she's fake or mean, don't feel like you have to like her either. but she could be really nice, and you could have a great relationship! so just see how it turns out!
best of luck
2007-11-04 01:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you feel it would work out? There is no sense in acting married and not being it. I hope it works out. The big time gap may reveal some maturing
2007-11-04 01:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-11-04 01:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've not experienced such. In fact my father was a horrid abuser, and I wished him dead on a regular basis. He left and married another. But she died waiting for him to return.
If this is what they BOTH want, then good for them.
For yourself, do whatever is in your heart.....which says whatever YOU are comfortable with. You dont need to PLEASE anyone.
2007-11-04 01:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋