and by one of the guys i mean someone who makes lewd jokes and can hang with the boys.
2007-11-03 18:12:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it is how you really are I find it attractive if your just doing it to be cool it's not attractive...Just be yourself.....
2007-11-03 18:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No its not attractive for a girl to be 'one of the guys'.
I shy away from any girl like that. Because there is always one of her friends that is in love with her and will give you a hard time. Then you have to deal with all the other friends who are either over-protective, or slept with her at some point and still have feelings and will make passive agressive comments.
2007-11-03 18:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Paul B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
depends on the guy, not bad i dont particularly like the lewd joke part gotta draw the line somewhere. watching sports and putting up with their shiiit is what they mean.
2007-11-03 18:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by Brockdaddy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am constantly considered "one of the guys". my husband liked me BECAUSE i was never a "girly girl". he loves it when i dress up, but he also loves me in jeans and a t-shirt. i think my language is worse than his, most of the time, but i'm not a crude joke type of person. i also don't get along too well with females. never did. i feel more comfortable hanging around with the guys. females get too jealous and weird.
2007-11-03 18:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I want a woman to be feminine, not just "one of the guys".
In fact, women who try to be "one of the guys" are a big turn off for me.
2007-11-03 18:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by nachtmann2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah, a guy wants a girl who is fun and fits in with his friends. but is different from them. Shrewd jokes are kinda butchy, leave that to the guys.
2007-11-03 18:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by smerta13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In some situations is sexy to be "one of the guys." For example, if you can drink a beer and watch football with your boyfriend/husband and his friends, that's an attractive quality - it lets him know you share his interests.
2007-11-03 18:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by felonius_monkey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah it is, there is one girl that me and my friends hang out with a lot, and she makes jokes and everything. actually all of the guys that she hangs with except me have dated her, but i have a huge crush on her best friend.
2007-11-03 18:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by .......... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a girl, and I've always been referred to as "one of the guys". Guys tend to want to phuck you more than they want to date you for whatever reason. However I've found someone who is just as lude as I am, and we have a blast together! Only took 22 years :)
2007-11-03 18:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by daitheflu99 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No.
I admit double standards. Tanya used to come to my parties, slam a beer and make ahuge belch. I always told her how disgusting it was to the guys (who would belch and fart too), but she would just laugh it off. She thought that she was funny. We thought that she was gross.
2007-11-03 18:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by William A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for approval from another guy. Seriously, if you think it's cool and attractive that she can hang and your buddies like her who gives a flying f@!k what anyone else thinks. It's frickin awesome.......
2007-11-03 18:17:20 · answer #11 · answered by smb 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋