fights with her cos' he thinks she should pay for them too as they are so expensive
2007-11-03 17:58:56 · 24 answers · asked by PurpleUmbrella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should dump him. If he's that big of a jerk about a silly thing like condoms, it's not too far fetched that he might be out there screwing around lord knows how many other girls unprotected, and could pass nasties along to you (even with a condom). There are several STD's that can be passed along regardless of whether you use a condom or not. Just something to think about.
2007-11-03 18:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, of course she should buy some too and have them on hand in case he forgets. It's only fair, she's using them too and it's for her protection also. It doesn't matter if he's loaded or not if she thinks of it that way, it sounds like she's using him for his money.
It's selfish to expect him to buy them all the time just because he's loaded. If he offered everytime that would be different. I don't think it's because he's cheap, but that he sees it as her responsibility too.
2007-11-04 01:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Short Shot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if I think he's cheap or dumb. On one hand,he's right, they are expensive and it should be the responsibility of both partners. But, would he pay for her to be on the pill?
Also, men and women, both, should take responsibility to protect themselves. Who cares who buys what? If he doesn't want children or a STD then he should buy his own protection.
Bottom line... he should worry about his future instead of his wallet.
2007-11-04 01:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by peanutrocks92078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor and ask for birth control, He'll usually hand it out for free, either way, should be cheaper then condoms if your burnin' rubber on the regular.
2007-11-04 01:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's sick of paying for all of her stuff. Things in a relationship should be 50/50, no matter how much cash one of you might have.
2007-11-04 01:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by daitheflu99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably uses him for his cash and it's his way of telling her to just pay for something. Condoms are not that expensive.
2007-11-04 01:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by smb 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being that both parties are wanting to have sex, My opinion it should alternate. Both taking responsibility is better that have an 18 year one.
2007-11-04 01:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by melissa_soleil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the should split the bill...after all...the responsibility to be safe belongs to BOTH of them..not just 1 person...
2007-11-04 01:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Jara-Lee♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look, the girl has to help out. the guy may be loaded but he is probaly thinking the girl expects him to buy everything.
2007-11-04 01:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by Your A DWARF ON STILTS!!! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i think in a relationship both of them should spend their money to buy condoms cause its only both of you that are going to use it not me or somebody else.and yes they're expensive.
2007-11-04 01:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by juliepark12345 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋