Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

"you're just a flirt", while trying to get to know me better and im just taking it real slow while i figure out whether to trust him or not, does that mean he thinks im a tease or what?

2007-10-17 19:37:15 · 6 answers · asked by Azul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what are the possible reasons a guy would stay with his gf, and not pursue the one he loves?

2007-10-17 19:36:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi, im 27 and work better when im around women, unfortunately im an IT tech!!! dammit!! wht am i supose to do as its very easy for me to whoo women when im around them at work etc. whats a good career i can change 2? ps...i havnt had a gf in 7yrs thanks to IT, please help

2007-10-17 19:35:43 · 2 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 28 years old and for a long time I never wanted to have kids. However, I have been lucky enough to find the man I have been looking for....finally. I know he wants to have a baby with me. But, I have a brain tumor that is causing my pcos to get worse...to the point Im not ovulating. I have been to numerous doctors and they all say the same thing...I shouldnt do this to my body. I know he wont leave me because he loves me, plus he has kids from his prior marriage. But I badly want to share this with him. Do you think I am taking anything from him?

2007-10-17 19:34:39 · 13 answers · asked by specialpromise 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok first things first, I know this is the wrong catergory to post this under. But I need some solutions ASAP and I know this is where the question answering people are.
Ok... My girlfriend just moved from the O.C. to SD, and it has taken her longer to find a job then she had expected. All her bills are stacked to the brim...
She now has three jobs, One she started a week ago (unfortunatly part time and bi-weekly) the second is also part time and she only started yesterday, with the third being a full time that she starts on friday. Having read all that i'm sure that explains the just of the situation. As much as I would love to help I am completely strapped myself. Can any of you money savey people give her any ideas on what she can do before she is burried with bad credit & late fee's etc. etc. etc.

Thank you
When it rains it pours

2007-10-17 19:32:07 · 5 answers · asked by canwedothisdaily 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 19:28:01 · 3 answers · asked by bonnie h 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay well my older brother is dating my best friend. and i my mom hates it. so i dont wanna it to ruin my friendship w/ my best friend. i think they should hide it. but they dont want too. they really do love each other. and i know they do. they wanna be able to be open w/ it in the family. like we can all go on family trips together w/ my other brother is girlfriend and me and my boyfriend. and my mom and dad.so he dont wanna hide. but my brother is a momma boy. and stuff. so he cant lie.but my mom is all mad when my best friend comes over and dont wnat her over all the time. but my mom loves her. till her and my brother fell in love.

we really need ur ideas and ur help. thank you so much!!

2007-10-17 19:27:50 · 14 answers · asked by loveyalots_2010 1 in Friends

tell me. I called his job because the toilet overflowed. I called twice and spoke to two diff people. One took a message as if he was there. I told the man to tell him to call home. Then I had my mom call. Finally, she was told he wasn't scheduled for the day. He left the house at 3:30pm. Said he had to work at 4pm. He had his cell phone off until 9pm. Then I called and he said he went over his brother house. And he was scheduled but someone asked for his hours. So, basically he saying he was out having fun w/ his brother.

2007-10-17 19:25:50 · 18 answers · asked by sexyascanbe! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 4 months pregnant by my bf & unhappy in the relationship.I feel as if he is seeing other people.He spends no time with me & I rarely hear from him.When I try to break up with him he begs for me back.He has an ex gf he talks to all the time.She says he promises her they will be 2gether, he doesnt deny it.They havent seen each other in a year.He is going 2 Iraq in Dec for 15 months.What should i do now?I really dont want to be with him.He tells me we are getting married before he leaves but i dont believe anything he says cause he proved to me once he is a player.I also think he uses me for money because he is flat broke and i have a good amount of money invested.He doesnt know that but he sees how i am living and knows i am well off.I have plans to give up the baby for adoption and never talk to him again.I shouldnt be here when he returns.My feelings are so hurt and want to leave him now.My question,is it a good idea to leave him like that and give up the baby & is he cheating.

2007-10-17 19:24:36 · 25 answers · asked by Blessed21 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Earlier this week I asked was I wrong for taking my kids from my step father while he babysitted with his new girlfriend over. My mom had only been dead 3 weeks. Ok today 10-18 will make 4 weeks since my mom passing. My step father has went and bought a excalaid and traded my mom's suv. On top of that he picked his lady frind up from work which is next door to my job. Why isn't he giving me any respect? I am an only child, so I have no one beside my husband and 2 yound daughter to talk with about this situation. Can anyone shed some light. I am very very torn apart. Now I begin to wonder about this preacher.

2007-10-17 19:20:41 · 5 answers · asked by tyte31 1 in Family

The last month or so, my 'bestfriend' who ive been bestfriends with for the past 6 years has been getting so ugh.
if i post a bulletin on myspace or something saying im upset or mad or not in a good mood or something she finds a way to make my life even worse!! Even if shes not intentionally doing it! Like okay im like overly stressed and i posted a bulletin about it and i cursed a few times and explained people only to hit me up to cheer me up. So then like 5 minutes later i get a aim from her saying "You curse too much and its not too cute boo". I know it seems stupid but that just ticked me off! and last week i had a bad day and she kept being sooooo obnoxious and random on aim omgg and she was definately purposely doing it! And then when i try to say something about it she gets overly self defencive! help please :]

2007-10-17 19:20:14 · 5 answers · asked by neeek :] 1 in Friends

im in college and my teacher is young, like 27 and im 19. I told her i cant write my test and she told me i could write it in her office. I saw her standing by a ledge and i grabbed her by the hips and was like "hey i need to write my quiz" and shes like ok. I spent a good 30 mins in her office just talking (and it should have taken 2 seconds). I told her she looks really young and that shes smart too. She told me she has a boyfriend and wants to have kids soon.

Do u think she picked up that i was hitting on her ?

2007-10-17 19:11:33 · 14 answers · asked by puaporn2 1 in Singles & Dating

for years i been finding an exuse to not take my own life as i get older i can see that its geting easyer .

I can tell am on barrowed time i worry what will hapen to my body and things I know for a fact am done its just a matter of time when and how .

i tryed everyting i gave it dosens of tryes am tyered i realy want it to end i can see its much easyer for me now

its just a matter of how.

2007-10-17 19:08:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 19:06:18 · 21 answers · asked by Vannili 6 in Singles & Dating

Oh, the friend/enemy(you like "something" about them but you also wouldn't mind if they would leave the country permanently).

I see they have called but don't answer the phone half the time.
At work, I make myself too busy to chat.

But hey....they do the same to me.....

2007-10-17 19:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by *I'm the Best...I Deed It!* 6 in Friends

How do you keep your relationship special? My husband & I seem to be drifting apart!!! When we go out together (which is very rare) we can still have a good time (sort of) but if any of his friends happen to show up, off w/ them he goes & I'm out of the picture.

2007-10-17 19:00:47 · 12 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

why cant my wife who is leaving me over something that happened .5. years ago just forgive me and stay rather than go .when i was well fooling around with this now ex. married woman .she lives .5. states from us. my wife contacted this women.s .ex. husband. she has called him and knows he is.53. but dont look his age my wife is .20 aand planning on divorcing me she meet him while telling me she went to visit her mom. but meet him and talked to him . she had the nerve to tell me he was a very good man and had respect aat all times . that sounds like him . this i know from past meeting.s when i ws in that state . why cant she let him alone and forget my mistake. after all that was.5. years ago

2007-10-17 18:59:58 · 10 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to a night club to dance and meet people. A man asked me what I did. I replied that I was a substitute teacher and a FT student. He said I was too ambitious. He asked if I smoked pot. I replied I didn't. Later I spotted him dancing with a seedy looking, heavily tatooed, smoking woman that he ended up dating. I later heard her she is a HS drop out, her kids were taken away from her and she has a criminal record. That is why I stopped going to clubs. What is it with men's values in women these days?

2007-10-17 18:58:09 · 37 answers · asked by LAgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy is in my class and also works with me outside of school. He is quite nice to me and will usually talk to me frequently. But the problem is I like him (more than a friend) and a back stabber has told him. ( i dont think he believed her).

As we're moving into grade ten shortly our classes together will mostly be none as he wants to do a trade and I a science.

He has been injured yesterday being sent to hospital. Id like to make decent friends with him before the end of the year. How do I go about this?

Please note the delicate situation.

2007-10-17 18:52:13 · 3 answers · asked by Giraffe 3 in Friends

Is it fair that my husband got mad at me in front of my family for spending $65.00 on a fruit basket. We recently had a baby so he feels that any extra money should go towards our kids. I was just trying to make our house look pretty and he doesn't think to buy stuff like this.

2007-10-17 18:50:37 · 9 answers · asked by Sweet.Milf3 2 in Family

I've been talking to a girl for a while and then asked her out. She agreed to it but then said her parents won't let her date anyone. She's 19 and I'm 20. We agreed to meet in town to go on a date to the movies. I'm just wondering if someone could give me advice here. She's an adult now and should be able to freely make her own choices but I'm wondering if I want to play mission impossible when dating her. She's nice and I really want to date her. So basically here's my question: What should I do here? Should I keep seeing her and see what happens? Can someone tell me stories of dating in this type of situation? I just want to know how to procede here. She said that if we begin to get really close then she will break the story of us to her parents I think to try to get their approval. I want to keep seeing her but I just keep imagining her father chasing me down the street with a baseball bat. Her father is strict and won't let her choose her own major for college. Tell me what to do

2007-10-17 18:49:17 · 8 answers · asked by Domino25 3 in Singles & Dating

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2007-10-17 18:48:40 · 18 answers · asked by Honey786 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So I really really liked this guy, it was a non-stop all I could think about kind of a thing. Then he gets up the nerve to ask me out, and he's never had grilfriend before, so this was a big deal for him. I an com,pletley thrilled and say yes, so we've been going out for a week and he still hasn't held my hand, or cudled with me, or anything at all. And he as a person is starting to really annoy me. The way he pretends to care what I think then he doesn't actually listen, he chews funny, he acts serious at the wrong time in a conversation, and he gets really defensive about political stuff, like I'll say, "wow. I just found out my bestfriend is a lesbiand." not meaning anything bad and hewill get really defensive and say"Well, whats wrong with that." and he wont leave it alone. He's really nosy and persistant he just doesn't know when to quit about certain things, he just can't leave anything about me alone. He has to know my entire dating history,

2007-10-17 18:42:19 · 12 answers · asked by Natalie F 1 in Singles & Dating

i only did that because she promised she would have it by the next day. (its been two months) Now that wev'e started college at different schools,every time i ask her about it she comes up w/ lame *** excuses about why she doent have it yet. i need the money! i havent spoken to her in a while but how do i bring it up again without sounding naggy or bitchy.

2007-10-17 18:42:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She's 35, I'm 22) I had a older woman friend come over for the second time last night, and while I wasn't shocked, I was alittle surprised by her words and her actions. Now, that I got too know her I don't want any part of her, and most likely will never see or speak too her again( she's a family friend) But are conversation was weird because she started talking about having SEX with a 20 yr old in Mexico and how she has a 21 yr old and a 23 yr old right now... So, I know that her having 2 other dudes is gross, but i want to know WOULD YOU GIVE ME ANOTHER CHANCE? She even said she likes guys to TAKE CONTROL. I didn't. She was looking for candy and saw that I only had Breath Mints...IS THAT A SIGN? SHOULD I HAVE JUST KISSED HER? she did say NO. I really don't understand. Am I in the FRIEND ZONE?

2007-10-17 18:39:56 · 4 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 18:37:53 · 16 answers · asked by yana k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think that my younger, 14 year old brother, has a foot fetish. I personally think that this is rather cute, and I would like to ask him to massage my feet, because I know he would enjoy it as much as I would.

Is this a bad thing to encourage? Or do you think I'd be ok to ask him to do this for me?

2007-10-17 18:37:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We are getting married next year and we asked his mother to put together a list of the guests from her side. We will have 100 guests total and his parents' guests will be about 70. So it is a big chunk of the list. I got mine done weeks ago even though most of them are not even in US. She kept 'forgetting' to do it. It's been almost a month now. Whenever she gives us a 'new deadline' for the list to be done, my fiance calls her on the due date, and as usual she hasn't even started on it. I thought maybe I was being too hard on her because getting together people's name and address for 100 people is not that easy. But her meaning of guest list was just jotting down some names and she isn't even doing that. Now I am afraid that when I ask her do something related to the wedding, she'll be like this. How can we tell her gently without hurting her feelings that she needs do her tasks on time?

2007-10-17 18:36:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My bf and I cant seem to get along to save our relationship. I know for me I am scared to trust him again, and I suspect that he feels the same.

I know it sounds corny but we have talked about "letting go" and not being afriad but no one wants to be the one to go first and like I said we've lost trust to believe that the other would 'let go' at the same time.

I know that there is no way to get back to where we were before the trust was lost, but is there any way to get past a loss of trust and back to that place where love matters? Or does the love diappear when the trust is gone?

2007-10-17 18:35:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this all started around march when i noticed my girlfriend txting her friend alot (a guy) so one night i he sent her a txt when we where asleep from him saying talk dirty to me.... she swore she never did but i had feelings saying otherwise... she has lied to me b4 about small things and i think if she would lie to me about small things i think she would lie about anything.... well just a few weeks ago i found another txt on her phone from a diff guy saying: nice tit pic i want both nxt time.. and i adressed it to her and again i had a feeling she was lieing. im really confused and the more i type and think about the occurences the more likely it seems she is cheating on me. what is your opinion? and how should i adress this issue with her withought breaking up with her... i just want the truth

2007-10-17 18:34:47 · 9 answers · asked by rebel_devil2003 2 in Singles & Dating