Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

First off, I can't understand why some guys get these fetishes, but hardly any women.
Like I love panties. I don't wear them (although some guys do).
And then there are things like foot fetishes, the list goes on.
Are girls really turned off by this?
Lets say a cute guy catches your eye. Your friend says, yea he's nice but did you hear about how he likes (whatever).
Would it be an immediate turn off or would you still consider dating the guy?

2007-10-17 15:25:15 · 10 answers · asked by Kari 4 in Singles & Dating

My dad was phsically and mentally abusive to my mom and sister. My parents are now divorced and both my brother and sister aren't speaking to him. Today my dad told me he would like me to live with my mother so he can have a normal dating life (I have been supportive because his girlfriends often replace his attention on me). At one point we got into an arguement that left me with bruises and my mom got DSS involved. He also continually says things that are abusive. When asked if he would die for me (stupid question, I know) he replied Well.... It depends.... He also says that I'm a liar when I tell him I'm depressed. Since he kicked me out I've been feeling guilty for not being approving of his dating and i just want to have a "normal" relationship. That may not be realistic so I would really like some ways to stay strong because he will come back to me like he always does and I usually give in.

2007-10-17 15:25:08 · 6 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Family

I know its private but hey I want to know?

2007-10-17 15:21:05 · 42 answers · asked by ncmd 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend broke up with me today.
out of no were.
we were doing perfectly fine today, just normal as always until when i got home from school, he texted me saying we dont belong together, and we should break up. he showed no sighns he was going to break up, i dont know what to do! i mean, he was hanging with his friends when he broke up with me.. was it because of them? do you think he would take me back? tell me what i should do about it...

2007-10-17 15:19:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My hubby is away on bussiness and I am truley mising him what can some effective ways that can fill the void I am feeling???? PLEASE ONLY SERIOUS, EXPERIENCED AND FAITHFUL MARRIAGE PARTNERS THANXS!!!!!!!!

2007-10-17 15:18:17 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs.Tricey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 15:17:43 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

I can't explain it but I can't stand when people say "Oh use X it will be so beautiful and really classy!"

Elegant, chic, sophisticated....just not classy.

2007-10-17 15:16:15 · 35 answers · asked by pspoptart 6 in Weddings

So here's the deal.

There's this boy. We'll call him [A]. And there's this other boy. He can be [B]. I was talking to A for a while. Very sweet, kind, cute but 4 years older than me and lives about half an hour from me. I'm not sure he minded, nor did I, but the age thing was a problem.

Then I started my new job and B worked there. Hadn't met him before, but we started flirting and joking around with eachother at work and I went over there once in between shifts. The next day we messed around.

A won't talk to me anymore and I don't know why. He doesn't know about B. I really liked him. =/

B thinks that this whole f---buddy thing is how things are going to be, but that's not what I want.

How do I change B's mind and just be friends, and get A to start talking to me and show him that what I'm looking for, and what he's looking for, is the same thing & perhaps we could find it in eachother?

2007-10-17 15:16:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 15:14:47 · 5 answers · asked by shelby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i can't see genital areas or touch em? Is that what's part of "no sex before marriage"

2007-10-17 15:14:40 · 6 answers · asked by hahaiwon 2 in Singles & Dating

hi well i recently started a new highschool i am a frshman and i went to this school where i knew no1 and i am trying to balance my old friends while trying to make new ones, but it seems my bestfriends just dont care anymore and i kinda miss my school where i grew up with every1 i dont know what to do i know in the long run this new school will be better i just dont know how to deal with the way i am feeling now. any help?

2007-10-17 15:12:26 · 3 answers · asked by devilboy181 1 in Friends

I was going around selling candy for my club fundraiser I was wearing a cami and I was trying to get this guy to buy my candy and I notice that ever time that we would make eye contact he would looked back down at my chest, which isn’t uncommon for me they are nice. But after a while I got mad because he wasn’t buying anything, and he was being so obvious, so I walked away and then my friend came over and told me that my nipples were on hard, I was so embarrassed, no telling what they guy was thinking. But whats weird is that they just did that on their own, It wasn’t cold, and I wasn’t turned on, so whats another reason for them to be like that?

2007-10-17 15:11:29 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 15:10:14 · 24 answers · asked by Plondaranera 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never gone out with a girl, I'm 13(sad huh?) but this one girl i like talks to me a lot and today she kept repeatedly asking me who I like. Do you think she likes me?
I met her about 1 month ago and we've been good friends since then.

2007-10-17 15:10:02 · 26 answers · asked by first l 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 15:09:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The couple in question have been married for over 30 years.What type/price range is customary if I should bring a gift?

2007-10-17 15:08:51 · 12 answers · asked by LEZLIE M 2 in Weddings

I'm getting a little concerned about it. Maybe I am being too paranoid?

2007-10-17 15:08:51 · 28 answers · asked by Plondaranera 3 in Family

When my husband does something hurtful, insensitive or mean to me, why does he get mad at ME for it? It's like he wants ME to feel bad for making him feel bad?! When a hug or a come here baby would make everything okay. Or just a kind word or gesture? Have you noticed this behavior or have any suggestions?

2007-10-17 15:08:45 · 6 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so my boyfriend,son's father, crashed his car about a month and a half ago and I happened to lose my job around the same time.So everyday I would pick him up and drop him off at work. We were not living together before and he would come over about once or twice during the week and sometimes stay on the weekends. Well since the accident he had been staying at my house almost every night. I would drop him off at work pick him up and do the same almost everyday. Occasionally he would want to stay one or two nights at his own house(his moms). Well that's the background...here is the problem or maybe it's not. He got a car last week and he didn't come over on Monday and didn't hardly talk to me all day either, Tuesday he didn't come over, Today Wed. he said he would come over and then at about 7:30 pm I called and asked him where he was and he said he wasn't coming and was going to his boys house. I was like I told u this was going to happen and he said I was overreacting...hold on..

2007-10-17 15:06:59 · 5 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

guys: do you prefer blondes or brunettes?
why?

2007-10-17 15:04:38 · 17 answers · asked by shalalablonde<3. 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a dog {Yorkie} and this dumb dog is constantly going after me if I get too close to my husband.He has bitten me at least 3 times.{He's a small dog,but those bites hurt badly}Anyway this morning I walked near my husband and the dog bit me on the leg ,and my husband done nothing.I told him that he needs to get rid of the dog because he has even went after my children.We got into a big argument about it and I told him before he goes to work he needs to take the dog somewhere else because I no longer want him around.Right now the dog is at his moms house and I'm sure on his way home from work he is going to pick the dog up,but I don't want the dog here.What would you do in my situation.Like I said anytime I go near my husband he goes after me and steps in between us to where we can't be near one another.Is it wrong of me to want him to get rid of the dog?

2007-10-17 15:04:29 · 32 answers · asked by flavagirl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so I have this guy who I think likes me... I am not sure. He was in love with my best friend but she never saw him that way. I was always the third wheel, the underdog... then he started talking to me agian. I have known him for 3 years and have liked him for that long too. I just told him last weekend that I liked him and after a few confessions, he starts talking about kissing me. I like him and all but I think he has just gotten over my best friend. What is he doing?

2007-10-17 15:03:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not a prude but I get upset when it is done behind my back. Either he should be smarter about covering his tracks or include me in the viewing. I have voiced my opinion about how it bothers me so now I want to fight fire with fire and show him how this bothers me and makes me slightly insecure. I want him to feel that for a bit.

2007-10-17 15:03:32 · 28 answers · asked by tina m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got out of a relationship a month ago, He crushed me and although it wasnt something like cheating or lying it hurt me alot. I was in love with him. I have met a few guys who seem interesting but it hurts to even think of dating them. Maybe I should be over my ex but I am not. I know he hasnt dated anyone either. How do I get back to dating?

2007-10-17 15:03:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what made it the best? were you in love etc.

2007-10-17 15:01:47 · 11 answers · asked by odette82 2 in Singles & Dating

When I met my husband we were both smokers. After we got married, he made a comment about how he wishes I would quit...so I did. But when I asked him, he wouldn't quit. He's currently deployed and smoking overseas, but I asked him to not do it at all while he's home because we have a 3 month old daughter I don't want it to affect, I can't stand the smell of an ashtray when I'm near him, and its just extremely unhealthy. He doesn't see the big deal since he doesn't do it around us, but I want him to quit all together. Am I asking too much? I quit when he asked me to, why won't he?

2007-10-17 15:01:16 · 26 answers · asked by ME 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 15:01:15 · 28 answers · asked by LittleDaisy. 6 in Family

men and women.. explain your answers

2007-10-17 15:00:19 · 21 answers · asked by odette82 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 14:59:37 · 6 answers · asked by flawdaboi25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do ?
Now this is a question for everyone that has divorced parents .If you could go back in time and show your parents how you turned out and what would have made it better what would you say .Basically theres 3 options

get back with dad/mom the fights are better than 2 households

Just date if you marry so and so you and I will regret it for the rest of our lives but feel obligated to stay

Its ok I turned out fine ?





what would you do ?
Now this is a question for everyone that has divorced parents .If you could go back in time and show your parents how you turned out and what would have made it better what would you say .Basically theres 3 options

get back with dad/mom the fights are better than 2 households

Just date if you marry so and so you and I will regret it for the rest of our lives but feel obligated to stay

Its ok I turned out fine ?

2007-10-17 14:55:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family