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I have never gone out with a girl, I'm 13(sad huh?) but this one girl i like talks to me a lot and today she kept repeatedly asking me who I like. Do you think she likes me?
I met her about 1 month ago and we've been good friends since then.

2007-10-17 15:10:02 · 26 answers · asked by first l 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

26 answers

You're 13! Wait a couple of more years.

2007-10-17 15:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

Oh man dude, it's not sad YET.. lol

I didn't have anything coming my way till just the last couple years and i'm 20 now.. If I only had better influences when I was young, things would have turned out better for me, but here's the deal.

First of all, hopefully you like her enough to be around her... right? If so, DONT try to get in her pants, just be a friend!

Just act like you don't want her romantically at first.

So, got that? Friends first... Just learn to talk to girls. So work on talking with her and just be comfortable with it. Don't be freaked out.

PLUS, other guys might try to put you down for being with her... they're just sad that they've lost the war (if you know what I mean)

So don't worry what the other guys say (or girls). Just be yourself. You gotta learn that, if people put you down, you have to shake it off and do what you wanna do.

Then, work on being her friend, and from there you'll probably find out she likes you and you can start doing... fun stuff.


Have a nice life.

2007-10-17 22:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by Will 1 · 0 0

Tsk! tsk! 13 and never had a date with a girl??? What's sad is that your parents would even let you date at this age. Where could you go when you're not even old enough to drive, let alone anything else? About all you could do is go to group events where girls are present, and you'd have to be driven there by an adult. Why not wait till you're old enough to go on a real date, like to a movie or a dance? As for the girl who seems interested, fine. You can be good friends. Nothing wrong with that, and yes, she probably does like you, but there again, she's too young to date also, if she's 13 too.

2007-10-17 22:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0 1

With the opposite sex, you can never tell.

Last year, there was a guy I liked, and we became really good friends. And we got SOOO close, people swore we were dating. We'd wait for each other outside of certain classes. Even though we only had one class together, we'd always talked. I had his cell phone number AND house number. When we walked down the hallways together, we'd each have our arms linked, held hands, or he'd have his arm around me waist. And at the end of the day, I'd wait near the school's exit and wait for him to come out of gym. He'd walk me to my bus, and we'd hug.

Now with the exception of kissing, doesn't that sound like dating? But he never actually "liked" me. Hey, you never know. The girl might actually like you. I'm just saying don't get your hopes up like me and end up crushed.

BTW, 13 years old is not sad. It took me until the month before I turned 14 to get a boyfriend.

2007-10-17 22:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There are two probable possibilities:
1.) She likes you
2.) She's asking for a friend of hers, who likes you

Note that not having had a date at the age of thirteen is not sad. I am sixteen, and have never dated. I have no shame in this fact, and I turn down every guy who asks me out. So, if you have a hard time, don't worry. Having a girlfriend is not the ultimate worth of this world. =]

2007-10-17 22:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lynelle H 2 · 1 0

Are you saying sad because you are only 13 and have never had a girlfriend?? Normal would be more like it--not sad. Ask her if she likes you. Or ask her who she likes and see what she says.

2007-10-17 22:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I'd be willing to bet she likes you. From my own experience (as a girl) most teenage guys are totally clueless when a girl likes him. If you're good friends and she talks to you a lot, she probably likes you. She's probably asking you who you like because she hopes it's her! So next time she asks, tell her that you like her (assuming you do). :)

2007-10-17 22:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by mari 4 · 1 0

Too early to say for sure. But if she is hinting around, she is probably interested in knowing more about you. So go slow, have fun and be yourself. Because thats what she noticed first. The real you. Good luck.

2007-10-17 22:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by Miki M 3 · 1 0

ok listen up...
advice: if she keeps on saying "who do u like who do u like who do u like..." why would she posibly want to know that?!
to KNOW for herself if YOU have a gf/like someone. that will give ehr the idea of limiting her own chances and planning among your situation of what she is going to do next.
now..ur 13 and never had a gf and thats actually really good cuase there are people ur age who already had 234873028734 relationships and suffered.
so im telling u like right now, she 99.9% sure likes you, so ask her to go someplace wtih you.
and see what she says...
if you like you, of course.

2007-10-17 22:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Yah, dont risk it...I had a situation like that once, i took the chance, and it turned out, the girl liked me, but was a total whore and dumped me in two days for a different guy.

2007-10-17 22:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Confusedguy 2 · 0 0

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