Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

i can't keep a straight face when i buy them, should she buy it instead??? what excuse can we use so that we don't look like a bunch of horny kids?? birthday balloons? or maybe for keeping quarters?

2007-10-17 14:23:47 · 3 answers · asked by babyCub 3 in Singles & Dating

If you've been thru the same thing, you can answer too.

My Husband is planning on going back to his native country in december. He has informed me that he will not be coming back here. We have discussed divorce and I have picked up the paperwork to get it started. The problem is that we have 3 minor children that he is leaving as well (If it were only me, I would not have a problem). He does not want to pay child support or anything else. He acts like nothing here matters to him. If we do not get the divorce before he gets back to his country he will not have to pay. I can start the proceedings now, but is there anything I can do to keep him here in the states until it is final? I need child support to help me financially with the kids. If I can get the support order before he goes, will his passport be revoked so he cannot leave? I need advise on where to go from here. He says he will not contest the divorce, but we will have trouble when it comes to child support. Help, please.

2007-10-17 14:21:25 · 5 answers · asked by ♠LISA♠ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A while ago he was myspace scouting for women to have se with and I confronted him. So he has just recently started talking back to her.

2007-10-17 14:21:18 · 16 answers · asked by christina r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like a guy, but he has a GF (I hear they won't last though)
I wanna ask him to homecoming or at least let him know I like him.
How? Help!

2007-10-17 14:19:41 · 6 answers · asked by Pieces Of Rainbowzz 4 in Singles & Dating

This may sound weird my gf of 11 month always talks about sex with me. She brings it up and makes comments about how sexy I am, and how much she wants me and compliments me all the time about how good I am in bed etc. But some way or another all or most of our convos we talk sex. She says "oh baby i want you right now" and sometimes im just not that into it and i have to tell her something sexy back so i dont disappoint her but I think she talks about it way too much for me.

Sometimes I just want to talk about why I love her, and appreciate her, say sweet and nice things. BUt she tells me she loves talking about sex because she loves to be with me, that she loves how I make her feel, and how we just are together. BUt its always about sex and at times its like "come on can we talk about something else?"

But i dont want to be mean to her or make her feel bad that I dont appreciate her and love her. Its just if she loves me I dont want it to be experssed through sex or sexual terms

2007-10-17 14:17:24 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

recently i found that my father is having an affair with other woman and i think i am the only one who know about this.
please give me the best way to tell this to my family.

2007-10-17 14:16:30 · 11 answers · asked by moja 1 in Family

On what issues do you feel you still have some say in what they do?

2007-10-17 14:14:54 · 10 answers · asked by Jim C 5 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and until recently I have not been the subject of his ex's severe hatred towards my boyfriend. They have been divorced for three and a half years-mutual decision (but more so hers). There is no contact, I haven't said anything negative about her in front of their sons, haven't done ANYTHING. Now she is voicing her opinion of me to their sons and using the court system any way shape or form to get back at my boyfriend. I am divorced and never even thought for a second about acting the way she is.

So, why go after someone who is not causing or creating any drama in your life?

2007-10-17 14:14:35 · 10 answers · asked by ba374 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, so if a couple is still legally married but they are currently separated, is it legal for one person to read their spouse's mail and keep it from them - including personal letters to important documents - ?

2007-10-17 14:14:22 · 6 answers · asked by Linkums 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 14:13:52 · 1 answers · asked by bisi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 14:13:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Basiccly, my mom and i are in a HUGE fight the type where she said that i dont even exist to her, and she told me to think of her as invisible and non existiing. we havn't talked since this fight!. How do i make her regret what she said to me?

what are some things i can do to make her fell bad for what she said? as in send her some love? but not by confronting her?

(no rude awnsers please. i really need this! just once and ill never do it again)

2007-10-17 14:12:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi, have a bit of confusing story right now. I feel silly asking about this because it never happens to me. But I am curious so tell me what you think: There is a boy in my World History Honors class. This kid needs riddilin, badly! He is always bouncing off the walls. He can be very disgusting sometimes too, but in the realm of things he is pretty cool person and smart. I use to kinda like him but he showed me very immature behavior and it turned me off. Well he likes to brag latley about his "girl friend." This girl is my also my biology partner. She is a cheerleader and is the total opposite of this boy.
So today he told me how they were talking and I got brought up, he said I was his best friend and how we have everything in common(VERY true, might as well be my twin.) So he said her reply was: You should ask her out. His reply: I can't I am dating you.

Is it just me or does that not make sense. Why would you tell your boyfriend to date another girl? Was he trying to hint?

2007-10-17 14:12:55 · 2 answers · asked by Dogna M 4 in Friends

2007-10-17 14:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by John L 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm re-wording a previous ?. Had sex w/guy friend that I've had 1yr & we are very attracted to each other, but both in serious relationships before so couldn't act on it. He's been trying to get me to spend more time w/him so I've done non-date type things with him like work out, watch games, etc. and we talk about everything & share secrets. So, I don't think he was just after sex. But, it's been 4 days since the sex and haven't heard from him. Don't want him to think I regret it, so sent him a text message today (that's how we usually communicate) & told him I enjoyed other night and was happy I got to spend time with him. Well..that was like 6 hrs. ago & still haven't had a response! I saw him at the gym tonight and he kinda smiled at me but I can tell he's avoiding me and/or feels awkward. How can save friendship and hopefully take it to next level? How long should I give him to come to me? Or, should I ask him to meet to talk? Don't want to scare him off or ruin things. Pls Help!

2007-10-17 14:12:23 · 23 answers · asked by JES 1 in Singles & Dating

No gray answers. Yes or no. On the other hand is it possible for a married female to be friends with a single male, why or why not? Is there a double standard?

2007-10-17 14:11:35 · 17 answers · asked by nitewatch4221 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is just a poll. I am not a feminist or extreme liberal or a neo con.

Just for fun.

2007-10-17 14:11:23 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a single question and that is when you die do you get to be a nother person or how does it feel to be dead plz help me out.I cry every night because i am a fraid to ask my mom or dad

2007-10-17 14:10:13 · 13 answers · asked by Tommy 1 in Family

I don't have enough money, anyways she should pay for it cuz its her thing we're protecting right??? can she at LEAST lend me the money? i'll pay her back i guess.....

2007-10-17 14:09:42 · 15 answers · asked by babyCub 3 in Singles & Dating

i like him and wrot him a letter...he told my friend he was interested, then he changes his mind and likes my best friend,, according to my best friend , but she also likes him,, btw im in 9th grade, and she starts rubbing it in my face, then i get an email from him saying he wants to get to know me before anything else...im frickin confused

2007-10-17 14:07:49 · 19 answers · asked by Scared 2 in Singles & Dating

I wrote this for my step mom for her birthday:

I love life I'm soaring
Ever since I met you with a sore throat and you fed me store beans
I moved to California when I was fourteen
One night you lost it
Came busting in the closet
One leg in twisted at the hip
A whip in your right hand
A spray bottle in your left
You said " sexy step-mom!"
Sprayed it and made the sound effect
When we went shopping there was no stopping us
We got to talking and started swapping trust
From writing backseat poems with crayons
To late night seance
I miss you, lets hang out more
What do you say Mom?
I know you love me
I love you back with all of me too
When I find a girl I hope she has the same qualities as you
Your so sweet and compassionate
You gave me the best advice in life anytime I asked for it
Thank you for all that you do
Most importantly
Thank you for just being you!

---

by the way I used to live in the closet when i first moved to Cali cuz my dad and stepmom had a one bedroom apartment and the...

2007-10-17 14:05:27 · 2 answers · asked by Keith 2 in Family

My mom says these boots are slutty, but i love them and havent gotten to wear them yet, what do you think are they? dont mind the outfit, im not too fond of it......
just the boots....truth please!


http://i91.photobucket.com/albums/k320/GetyourFrecon14/IMAG0011.jpg

2007-10-17 14:04:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 12 and i am setting up a babysitting service with my friend... please help me. I just started babysitting but i need help and tips.

2007-10-17 14:03:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay so i have this dilemma....I've totally fallen for my best guy friend and i don't know what to do because he is a year younger and like 4 in. shorter than me. I am going over to his house tomorrow and i really want to tell him i like him but i am afraid of what people will think and of losing him a a friend if he does not feel the same way. I know how to tell him i just don't know if i should. what do you think? should i tell him?

2007-10-17 14:03:16 · 20 answers · asked by Gurly 2 in Singles & Dating

okay guys this is a who would u pick question(if u are a girl dont answer!) okay guys if u were in middle school who would u pick? one of the girls is not fat but not skinny. she has brown almond shaped eyes. she cares about whqat you have to say. if ur sad about anything she will try to cheer u up. she dress very nice. she was voted most caring and best dressed. the pther girl has brown almond shaped eyes. she has a unobrow. she is skinny she weres normal cloths. she is kind of hyper and if u go out with here she barly says a word. ive seen what happens when she goes out with a guy. the first girl will also apologize as many times or do anything to mkae sure you dont stay mad at her(she doesnt do anythin nasty) who would u pick 1 or 2?

2007-10-17 14:03:15 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy i have been seeing for 3 months hasnt contacted me for a wk now.Prior to this his behaviour has been sketchy, havent seen him for 2 wks and his calls and texts have become less and less. I plucked up the courage to ask him what was going on and all I got was a sorry that he had lost my number as it was saved to his old phone and not his sim card. We get along brilliantly so this behaviour is really upsetting me!! should I just assume he isnt interested or wait till he sorts his head out maybe?

2007-10-17 14:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK I've been a party gurl have my life and I'm constantly do funny as s h i t things like putting gya movies on youtube of me and my friends being drunk or my friends that are boys dancing like sluts I'm a real party girl do you think I should calm down my life a little or not I mean My friends and me are like really crazy the song "CRAZY B IT C H"is excalty how I act do you think I need to chill out and calm down my life????

2007-10-17 14:01:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

several guys i have dated only want me for sex or to talk dirty to me. of course, i say no.

for one, im a few years too young for that kind of thing.

another, sure, in a couple of years(or for religious people) after marriage, its a perfectly wonderful thing. but uh hello? i dont think thats all of what a relationship is about. theres more to that. theres bonding a love and a friendship at the same time. theres getting to know about eachother's personalities.

why am i ranting? theres a certain guy who said he likes me and he says nice things to me and everything. but if im just trying to make conversation or something he doesnt really care about that much of it. im kinda sick of that because ive known him for years and i think he can do better than that.

what do i do with him?

2007-10-17 14:00:55 · 28 answers · asked by Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife really likes the ring but i wanted to know if it would be a good ring and that it would hold up for a loooong time.

heres the description:
4.04ctTW GORGEOUS 2 pc Engagement/ Wedding/ Bridal Ring Set a 2.50ct Brilliant cut round in a 4 prong Tiffany setting on a simple 2.5mm band set with channel set rounds (10 in all) with a matching band that can we worn together or separate as an eternity ring ( 12 rounds in all) Solid Sterling Silver Core - hallmarked "925"- Rhodiumed with an 18kt white gold platinum finish ring sits 8mm above the finger ... bands worn together are 6mm thick Total weight is 7.79 grams.

2007-10-17 13:58:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I told a lady "friend" of mine that I don't like it when she says she'll call and never ends up calling. I could understand if it happened sometimes, but lately, she's been doing it all the time. I told her how I feel about it and she still keeps doing it. However, when I do call, she actually talks for a little while. Sometimes, not long at all. We have a long distance "friendship and I feel like I'm the only one holding up my end. I feel like she does'nt care enough to keep in touch with me. What would you folks do in this situation? She could show a little more consideration for me than that. Don't ya think?

2007-10-17 13:56:28 · 41 answers · asked by Go Broncos! 1 in Singles & Dating