Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

For the lady that thought this wouldbe a better question to ask rather than who cheats more, men or women. So why DOES our society seem to except it more??

2007-10-17 12:38:47 · 8 answers · asked by Aneres 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that the guy always has to make the first move? :\ say your with a guy that your not that interested in but he makes a move on you, and you slap him in the face. Does the guy have to make the first move because it's the girl that doesn't want to get slapped? :\ Because I'm pretty sure that the guy would feel a lot comfortable with the girl making the first move just to make sure that he knows your interested in him, and he do the rest knowing that your ok with it.

2007-10-17 12:38:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In high school i have been:
-Taunted
-Cursed at
-made a mockery of via interweb
-dumped
-hit

among other unspeakable things that no other high schooler should go through

Well now i have corporate scholarships, i am 10 in my class, have highly proficient SAT test scores and im probably going to JHU.

I feel that i should get some sort of revenge against these idiots in my class that have humiliated and tormented me. I know im better than these fools, but im trying to find a way to make these assholes in my class suffer for the **** they did to me. How can i start making their last months in high school hell as they made my entire high school career? I want to rub the fact that im superior in their faces.

2007-10-17 12:37:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My significant other of 3 years lied to me and said that he accidentlly took my keys when he came home and that he must have left his keys at his job...Really???...So when he left the house he didn't know that he had my keys..I wanted to see how far that he would go with this lie..He arrived home from work around 11pm.....and gave me my keys and we both keep a set of each others keys...but the key that he has of mine...he can't open my glove box with that key..(Acura thing I guess)...so he removed his set from mine and gave my set back to me...Mean while he is acting pissed at me for something earlier that day anyway..This morning while he was in the shower I decided to go and check his car...just in case because his story didn't make any sense as to how he previously left his keys at work and somehow drove home..I'm not that stupid..I check his car and he had his keys the whole time....and took mine and lied about it...What is your opinion? I'm 2 marry him in 5mths...not healthy.

2007-10-17 12:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by Nia L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if not, did you regret it?

2007-10-17 12:33:04 · 1 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-17 12:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by mela 2 in Family

2007-10-17 12:32:57 · 15 answers · asked by latrice money 1 in Singles & Dating

Now my ex boyfriend hes a sociopath and he decided to break up with me today, a day before our one year aniversary. He broke up with me cause i was gone from my house for about 20 mins to get a new cellphone cause it wasn't working. He said that he drove by my house and didn't see my car and i told him where i went and he said that he was going to go down there and see but he didn't. So instead he decides to break up with me and accuse me. He said that i'm the only girl hes ever loved which is bull cause sociopaths can't love and i knew he truely didn't love me from the start buy the away he would verbally abuse me. But the question is, since he broke up with me and hes a sociopath do i have to worry? Cause i heard there very dangerous people which he is....nuts!!! Or shouldn't worry about him coming around anymore cause he broke up with me and i thought sociopaths hate when you break up with them and thats the time to worry. Please let me know thanks.

2007-10-17 12:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by lovebird2009 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. Within the past couple months we have been talking a lot about getting engaged and planning the wedding. He has even admitted to looking at engagement rings on his own, (we do it together as well) and have talked about the kinds of things that we might want to do for our wedding. We are planning our date to be June/July ish 2010 so its still 2.5 years away as we want to wait until we are about 23 and I am completed my schooling. We know that we will make it until then because we have already been together for so long, as well as we have spent the past two years 19 hours apart (because i went away for school). Now to the question, how soon do you think he will propose? The topic has been coming up a lot, and I am getting really excited, but I dont know if I am maybe getting my hopes up. What do you think?

2007-10-17 12:28:55 · 9 answers · asked by confused 2 in Weddings

I dunno.....all models are tall, but it just is akward being so tall, you just feel like your bigger than the rest.......and it makes me think that the guys might not like me cuz im tall, and most guys my age,15,are kinda short..........haha
thanks!

2007-10-17 12:24:54 · 5 answers · asked by stellarose. 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend wants to hold hand, hold me and kiss me. Except i don't. D:
I hate all the above. More so with guys. It just bugs me. I'm afraid to tell him how I feel. I don't want to hurt his pride or feelings.

Help me please.

2007-10-17 12:24:22 · 46 answers · asked by lorelei 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you contribute your financial effect into a serious relationship when gf and bf living together? what is your decision about everyday's expenses?
Both in average level income.

2007-10-17 12:24:06 · 2 answers · asked by penny z 1 in Singles & Dating

Such as if you wanna break up with them but they would pretend that you were being silly or pretend he never saw that breakup email or we never had that conversation. They would never be willing to sit down and talk about it and face the reality. Are all men like that? When they don't like the fact then they would just run and ignore and pretend nothing happened? and hope that you will change you mind before we really have to face it?

2007-10-17 12:22:58 · 8 answers · asked by Lucy 3 in Singles & Dating

found out later that night abused my son he had bruises all over his body the doctors determinied that they actually were pinch marks and he told me they were made earlier in the day police social workers etc... were involved but unfortunalty she wasnt charged becuz there wasnt enough evidence against her becuz we later found out her sons fiancee was also taking care of my son so they couldnt determine if it was her or my friends mother i cut off contact with the entire family my question is now my son is extremely clingy he will scream yell shout if i leave him alone in a room for longer than 10 seconds he wont take naps anymore during the day and when he does it for maybe 10 minutes he wakes up 4-5 times a night its just getting pretty bad he just seems to cry all the time now before any of this happened he didnt sleep thru the night but he would wake up maybe 1 or 2 times now its 4-5 im not getting any sleep i dont know what to do should i ask him doctor? he has an appt on the 29th

2007-10-17 12:20:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I gave her the glass & she was sucking the ice with a stare. Is that considered flirting or is it nothing?

2007-10-17 12:20:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is a rule of thumb that says, "If you want to know what your wife will look like after 20 years of marriage, just look at her mother".

How is she different in appearance since you married her? Is your wife way hotter than when you married her or not? How is she similar to her mother physically?

BTW it is possible for a woman to get way hotter than when you first married her. I know one or two and both had kids. However, it is rare.

Please share a story. Please write more than 5 sentences. I got the time to listen.

I am working on a research project on love and psychology. Please do not be rude and answer this like an adult.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

2007-10-17 12:19:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok I've been friends with this guy a while and oneday it was really cold he asks me if I want to where his jacket I say no I'm fine the truth is I was freezing but anyway I kinda "like" him so I'm not sure why I refused but did I possibly hurt his feelings? does this mean anything or was he just being nice?

2007-10-17 12:17:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he texted on the phone one time last week "you don't understand, I want you to be my girlfriend".

then, the other night, he said "ur on a date, aren't you?" then I said "would you care if i was" and he said "yes".

so, am i his girlfriend? or not? and, is there a way I can bring it up without pushing him or making it like i'm nagging him??

he doesn't call me that much, or text me too much. it comes & goes in spurts. like when he feels like it.

maybe i should tell him i'm going to see other people.

2007-10-17 12:16:56 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

why??????

2007-10-17 12:13:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have ask a different version of this ?, but I am 7 weeks pregnant and the baby's father says he doesnt want a child, after he told me before that he did just not ye, and if I turned up pregnant we would just deal with it. I was told just to give him time to get used to the idea of being a father and I dont bring it up to avoid argument or to just not be pushy right now being that i still have a good ways to go before I need to make any real preparations for the baby's arrival. But He is getting more distant and telling me that its hunting season and I wont see him as much. But we have been together for two hunting seasons and he has never been away this much before. He moved out in July saying we need time apart and he's not sure when or if he will be coming back. I know I dont need him to live with me to raise a child but for the life of me I cant figure this out. I have given him his out, from the relationship and he says he doesnt want to break up, I dont know what 2 do.

2007-10-17 12:12:31 · 4 answers · asked by cindy s 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a very good friend that i had a "friends with benefits" relationship about four years ago. i told him about four years ago, that i was in love with him, but he did not reciprocate. since then, we have stayed friends.
three years ago i started dating someone new, and we have been "on again, off again" for three years. we are on right now, and i love him. but recently my good friend has told me that he loves me and that i am the only one for him.
i am very unsure as to what to do. my bf now is good to me though he doesn't have the best track record (we argue a lot and can't resolve problems).
what do you do when you're in love with two people?

2007-10-17 12:11:19 · 5 answers · asked by editor25 2 in Singles & Dating

If you're single, and you don't like alcohol, bars, casual sex, or drugs, what else is left ? Being single is the WORST ! The single life is cruel . A single person has to like living without women, and I HATE not having a girlfriend ! I don't have what it takes to be single . Being single is a curse .

2007-10-17 12:10:53 · 1 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay.. so there are these brothers that go to my school.. and they invited me over.. so i went.. we fooled around.. and one <3 seemed to really like me.. calling me pretty.. telling him i turned him on.. although they had been drinking.. the next day we hung out.. and he was really sweet at school.. then i started talking to the other brother more.. he seemed nice.. but now the one I LIKE.. ignores me 1OO%.. like i dont even exsist? i do have a boyfriend.. but they dont know.. they never asked.. so yeah.. im confused. why the f*CKKK,, is this kid ignoring me? .. should i ask his brother? .. when i say hi in the hall.. he gives a quick wave and goes on his way.. im so confused.. like i said before because i thought this guy liked me... what should i do?? =/

2007-10-17 12:08:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been lying to my partner (husband) of 20 years about the real status of our finances. We have a small business and are in the process of creating another one. The amount I wont say but it is quite substancial. I am so deep into this problem that I do not see another way out. I am scared to death about the consequences and his reation. I did not spend the money on myself - just bad management on my part and not being organised in the business. I am at a loss and am even considered leaving, which means leaving my kids as well. Everyday it is in my head and I continue to mislead him to this day. I know deep down what I need to do but am so fearfull that I cant.

2007-10-17 12:08:17 · 7 answers · asked by monisnoop 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 12:08:13 · 9 answers · asked by Nay-Nay B 2 in Singles & Dating

I am ready to give my last thought to a decision I have been struggling for years. I know that in most of our lives we go through life making decisions that we regret or that we are thankful for.

As you get older, life gives you decisions you wish you knew how to handle but it is impossible at times specially since your economic well being or your so called "secured future" can be affected.

I read a question that Emmylou Harris posted here
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aj.rBLYxtUrlyVw4gGQwJDbpy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071016132557AAl4I63
but I she does not mention as to what to do when taking decisions.

What do you do? Do you forget about what you have done in the past and move on to a new life changing direction or do you just ignore everything to see what happens?

Take care!

2007-10-17 12:07:09 · 6 answers · asked by Man-atarms 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to sound like a super jealous guy, but should I be worried.

2007-10-17 12:05:47 · 12 answers · asked by JoeClyde 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 20yrs and together with him since high school. I fell out of love with him 5 yrs ago and have just recently seperated and filed for divorce in the last 6 months. On a drunken night hooked up with a long time friend. All people (friends) around us think this is a bad thing that we are doing and we have found that we are very much a like and want to be together. IS this that bad that we should have to wait til I am divorced? Why would I fall for someone so soon and go from one man to another? Looking for unbiased comments.

2007-10-17 12:05:42 · 5 answers · asked by Julez_30 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He told his parents a couple days ago and they flipped. We are from different cultures but it has never been a problem until now they dont want their son to marry outside his race. They are pushing him to make me get an abortion, they are lying to him making me look bad so that he will change his mind. We both want the baby but now he has second thoughts becasue of his parents approval. I am not going to let anyone make me get rid of my baby, but i need for him to be ok with this. I need advice PLEASE!!!!!

2007-10-17 12:04:05 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

help i dunno wat to do she is my best friend and my parents say she is a bad influence i still havent told her bout it....

2007-10-17 12:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends