Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

I have used Secret in the past and I switched to Dove , and I like using the invisible kind , but secret left me feeling stickey and staining my clothes in the armpits area and dove , well its not holding my persperation. Im still getting wetness on my clothes in the armpit area. Anyone know the best deodorant to use ?? Thanks !

2007-10-17 12:02:03 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My Father, Red Coyote, asked me to register before he passed away. He used to call me his Little Princess. My mother, Carol Alseda White-Wall, asked me to do the same before she passed on, 7 - 2 - 03, of cancer. Please contact me at wchy_wmn@yahoo.com.

2007-10-17 11:57:07 · 2 answers · asked by Young Little Owl Girl 1 in Family

ok,10 months ago my girl found out i looked at porn. She says its just as bad as cheating with another woman. I have always been faithful to her other than the porn. Anyway,she agreed to make up with me if she was alowed to look at my bank statements,and check my computers history (i'm not alowed to deleat it). She told me in time she would get over it. 10 months have gone by and I feel like a slave to her. She has allways been the jealous and controling type even before she knew I looked at porn. Some of the things she expects of me are crazy! For example::: she wants me to get rid of my internet totally now,she dosent want me playing madden online cause she thinks i'm gonna meet a girl on there,she dosent want me working in a warehouse because she thinks theres to many women,when we are in public if I accidently stare in the direction of another woman I get yelled at,she dosent want me working out,now shes telling me its the internet or her.I ran out of letters so can you im me?

2007-10-17 11:54:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help me i want to know if my boyfriend loves me. we havent even kissed or held hands. Does he really care about me. He calls me everyday and gives me compliments. But are they true

2007-10-17 11:53:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 11:53:16 · 26 answers · asked by tanka_89 4 in Singles & Dating

What do you do if you have to fart on a date or near your gilfriend and can't leave the room? Holding your nose to make it silent doesn't work, because it still smells bad. Besides holding it in, what do you do?

2007-10-17 11:49:47 · 35 answers · asked by Dr O 1 in Singles & Dating

I am now 7 months pregnant (32 weeks).! 2 more month to go. I'm under alot of stress every since I told my ex we are expecting a baby. Now he doesn't want to go home. he practicly moved in with me. he does everything for me, he is so sweet, since i'm on bed rest I don't mind. he reads to the baby and plays music to the baby. which I don't mind at all, but yesterday I found a ring in hisjakect. I wasn't being nosy i was just gonna hang it in the closet for him. anyway the ring fell out. we've been talking about raising the baby together and yes I did sleep with him 4 times since I've told him about the baby and he left his fiance. but i really dont want to be married, i hope he is not going to propose to me. I dont want to be with him that way. i just want to raise our child together.it's a really complecated story. help. please rechearch my previouse questions if you are confuse. should i confront him about the ring?

2007-10-17 11:49:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

First of all I can be pretty shy so this is going to be kinda tough for me. There is a guy at work that I've had my eye on for a little while and I'm unsure of the right/best way to approach him. I just don't want to come off as weird or say the wrong thing. His friend said he is a nice guy and I should just do it. A few people at work have told me I should say hi to him whenever I see him and take it from there. What kind of advice do you guys have?

2007-10-17 11:48:37 · 24 answers · asked by VWJ05 3 in Singles & Dating

having sex with an 11 year old b/c she looks 21 and has a fake ID, but he says its just a joke, should i be worried about him?

2007-10-17 11:45:09 · 49 answers · asked by angel 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys, I swear I didnt know that he was so stupid!!! IS THAT A REASON TO DROP SOMEONE? LOOK ,IM SO NOT SHALLOW BUT HIS STUPIDITY IS EMBARRASING IN EVERY WAY IT EVEN MAKES ME CRY SOMETIME. BUT HE HAS A GOOD HEART. WILL YOU LEAVE HIM?? PLEASE BE HONEST

men: what if you met a HOTT chicka with no brains... What will you do.

2007-10-17 11:44:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been single all my life
no one has ever asked me out
its not like im ugly
i mean im not bad looking
and im a really nice person
im funny
caring
but no one wants to go out with me?
why???

2007-10-17 11:43:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok I'm 16 you could say I am very mature for my age safe sex supper smart gorgeous in shape and actually work for every last dime I earn and spend ok so theirs this guy I have gotten to know very well he is very attractive works out has a job owns a house and is very impendent he is smart and lovable so he is 26. Is it wrong for me to have feeling for him? Is it wrong for us to have a relationship? Is the age difference to big? (No it's illegal crap pleas!)

2007-10-17 11:40:04 · 9 answers · asked by Cherish 2 in Singles & Dating

It freaked me out because it sounded gross. Is it as nasty as I think it is???

2007-10-17 11:39:08 · 32 answers · asked by Answer me this 3 in Singles & Dating

are there still good guys out there?

2007-10-17 11:35:23 · 8 answers · asked by flatfoot 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont really mind it but hes kindda obssive. it kindda gets annoying if im just saying like my lips are dry. or anything like that. is this odd or what? p.s. he is a GREAT guy! its just one of those twirks everyone has... its only when we r alone. 2nd p.s. im no 9 year old ok! im 16 =]

2007-10-17 11:34:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my husband and I got married, he insisted upon getting joint bank accounts. I was not very excited about the idea, because I have heard bad stories about it. Anyhow, he is the one that now fully manages my checks, credit card bills etc. I work as a model, so I get paid by job not salary. He is a complete control freak and wants to know every single detail about when where and with whom I work and even asks me what I bought at the supermarket. I feel like I have no control over anything anymore. I don't know what;s going on with my money. I feel like I have lost my identity. Yesterday he was interrogating me again about how much I make and I got annoyed and snapped at him. We didn't speak all day yesterday and at night I got home and he yelled at me and called me stupid because I had locked him out of the house by innocent mistake. I couldn't take it anymore, and left and went to a friends house.he called me several times and we fought over the phone. He threw in my face like his

2007-10-17 11:32:59 · 21 answers · asked by tscheggl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bff wrote this note 2 give 2 a guy. It was supposed 2 be 4rm my other friend. The note had a bunch of perveted stuff. My friend found out now she's gonna get revenge. She's going 2 talk 2 a guy I think is cute, but he has a gf, and she's going 2 get the gf involved HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-10-17 11:30:21 · 4 answers · asked by Lovely 1 in Friends

I have had stuffed teddy bears since I was little and I was watching this show on TV and it had these cute little bear cubs in the forest with their mommy and now I want one!! They are so precious!! Any advice on how to ask him?

2007-10-17 11:28:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so on friday im hanging out with the guy i like and i know he likes me and hes taking me to dinner and im really nervous its gonna be awkard because were both really shy

2007-10-17 11:26:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is so perfect he say all the right things and he make me feel special

2007-10-17 11:25:58 · 5 answers · asked by queenofthe_229 1 in Friends

im moving just got to a new school and i n eed help.....

2007-10-17 11:23:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm getting married in 8 months but don't have a song for my Fiance and I to dance to...Any Sugesstions?

2007-10-17 11:22:01 · 8 answers · asked by Tench09 1 in Weddings

I need to try to get over being jealous about everywoman my husband talks to. he works with pretty women that are younger then me, (i am 32 and he is 47almost 48) we have been married 10 years and together for 12. he has always been a flirt, but a couple years ago he was talking to this girl he works with( texting her) and playing a game with other guy co workers to see who could get her to like them best. he told her all kinds of lies, like we were seperated and getting a divorce, that he hated me, and so forth. he knew he was wrong, and admitted he was wrong, but swears nothing sexual happened, and I believe him. but he still talks to other women, and says its just friends, but how do i get this past thing out of my head? I want to trust him again, but my mind wont let me stop thinking he is doing the same things with other women. Im afraid I will lose him if I keep going in this direction. please help me, serious answers only, I will not leave him, so please serious answers only.

2007-10-17 11:21:40 · 5 answers · asked by chicksmom 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girlfriend for5 1/2 years (we met online) We live 70 miles apart. It has just gotten to the point that I dread going to visit on the weekends. My blood pressure jumps when the phone rings because I know it's her.
My issues are that she is SOOOOO negative about everything.It drags me down. In my opinion she is TERRIBLE with her kids (they are given EVERYTHING that they want,and are never scolded for doing wrong) She wants me to help with the kids,then sides with them????
On the other hand,she has an issue with my kids because they are achievers. My daughter is in college double majoring in secondary education and mathematics,and my son is a stand out high school football player and is being scouted by several MAJOR universities. Should I feel bad that my children are chasing thier dreams and hers are not???
She has dreams that i do things such as cheat (i'm totally faithful),and she'll be mad at me for days? Over a dream. Am I wrong for wanting out

2007-10-17 11:19:36 · 6 answers · asked by renume 4 in Family

My mother needs to get her ex husband's social security number. Does anyone know a way to do this? I have been left on hold many times, and their website seems vague about such things.

2007-10-17 11:19:03 · 18 answers · asked by Siggy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Why Gemini men like to play mind game??
This gemini man also have feeling 4 me.
we meet almost everyday but heard gemini men will bored of things easily.so i try not to meet him everyday.if i don't phone him for a few days?how will he feel?cos i always call him. Btw imma aquarius=)

2007-10-17 11:17:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my husband and I argue, he calls his mother to come get him. Sometimes it's just to go gamble for a lil while and other times it's to "go stay a few days" at her house. He has packed up and gone to her house before but I usually call and yell at him, so he always comes back. So he has never actually spent the night there. But I'm so sick of him calling her. When my husband and I first started dating, she loved me. After we got married, she flipped. We do not speak to each other at all. She didn't even attend the wedding! How do I deal with my husband always wanting to call his mother? He does it to get at me ... I know it .. because he knows how much I dislike her. I told him last night that if he tells me one more time that he is going to his mother's that I will be filing for divorce first thing in the morning. I shouldn't have said that, but HOW do I deal with this situation????

2007-10-17 11:12:52 · 20 answers · asked by GreenEyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i will tell u whats underneath if u tell me what u would do with it

2007-10-17 11:12:43 · 9 answers · asked by williepuller 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know how i do it,but whoever i date always ends up either abusing me physically or emotionally. I was a victim or rape as a young teenager. Im now 25 & feel like very thing I do when it comes to dating is related to the rape. I have started hooking up bc I don't want to be involved, in case the man would hit/hurt me in any way. I have sex with men I barely know, just to prove myself I can have sexual relationships (& that the rape didn't screw it all up for me). I have now been seeing this married man for about 6 months (i am not proud of it). He is crazy about me and talks about leaving his wife & having a child with me. I don't know if I believe that, but my point is I wouldn't even want to be with him if he were single, bc every time I'm in a relationship, I hit a new low. So after deep reflection, I am now considering just having his child and not having to deal with men, focusing on this baby, not feel lonely, and having someone to love unconditionally. Is it really wrong?

2007-10-17 11:12:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so this guy (hot cardiologist) I'm seeing says that he is looking for that one special person with whom he can be with for the rest of his life. So why is he seeing and sleeping with 3 other women? He says that he's single and can do whatever he wants, which is true, but if you're on a quest to find true love, his words, then how in the hell are you going to get to know someone by dating 4 people at the same time? Is it just me...or does someone else out there agree? I'd like to get a male perspective also.

2007-10-17 11:11:36 · 61 answers · asked by Sweet Thang 2 in Singles & Dating