Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

he ended things with me but said give things time. its been a month and he still has all of our pictures up, I really dont find it necessary since we arnt together to have pictures of us together and me laying on him, hugging. I care but I took mine down. What is up? I mean I am sure it could be laziness but who knows. He knows how to do it. I mean most of his pictures are of us, Its going to make him look attached

2007-10-17 13:08:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well there was this one time when I was studying he came over and asked what i was doing I was also very stressed for this big test, and I told him and he said don't worry about it he also came back later to ask how it was going but I had my headphones on. He also stood there forever after that.

- Before I went to the star thing I had choir practice, and before we left he came over with his friend, to ask us where it was going to be at. My friend and I didn’t know either so we called my friend who knew about it. The weird thing was was that his brother was already there, who he came with, at the star thing. When I came with my friends I saw him there and so when we came we sat down we were going to sit on the floor but we moved to the chairs he did the same and sat right behind me and there were a lot of other chairs open. During it he would make fun of the pictures and what not. At the end I chucked my scarf at him and he kept pulling on it and wouldn't let me have it back. We went outside to look at telescopes. One of the kids had problems with his so I went over the kid I like went over to look at it he couldn't see so i pulled out my cell phone for the light and I saw him smiling. When we went over to look at the big telescope he and his little brother were running around me I guess playing not sure, but the kid next to me “guys stop being flirts” so yeah…

- On New Years eve I went to a Black tie party, I went out side after dancing and when I tried to get back in it was locked I then called my best friend to chat and to keep my mind off of being out in the dark (I hate the dark) so I called and asked if she could help me to call my friends or something. And well he was at her house. I asked if should could like come over and rescue me and what not and then he got on the phone and said he would come and save me. This was a minor story, but I felt like sharing. ^.^


- Ok so during school I had to do a play, it was really for the older class but they needed more people so I had to even though I didn’t want to. After my part was done I didn’t have to go back up. (Thank god!!) He was talking to much with his friend so he got moved. I thought he was farther from my chair, but he was right in front of it. So during the play he would keep turning around to comment on the play. I had a meeting with my teacher to sing some song for something, after that I when back to get my jacket and he came by to ask me what he said who knows why because he came in not to long into the convo. So that was one of the moments.

- While at my graduation he gave a speech and while he was up there I could feel someone stare at me and when I looked at him he was staring at me even almost during the entire time he spoke to. That was a little on, but hey I told you anyway

2007-10-17 13:06:58 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah W 1 in Singles & Dating

I travel, and I'm only home once a month for 4 days, I recently gotten married almost a year ago and even when I come home we do nothing but argue, then the last day before I leave he tries to make everything nice. But then its to late cause I won't be home again for another month. He swears he's not cheating. I would like a mans opinion please.

2007-10-17 13:05:22 · 18 answers · asked by hunt4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 17! D':
My step dad is closer to my age than hers (he's 28) and he did cheat on her once with one of my moms close friends. Before that, I used to like my step dad. He seemed pretty cool compared to some of the other jerks she married. He was like an older brother to me.
And then one day me and him were innocently horsing around (i'm a tomboy :p)and stuff and my mom got all upset. It's like walking on eggshells with her, really. And now she says mockingly that we "have a crush on each other"! That was FREAKING UNCALLED FOR!!!
And not only that but she goes on and on about how "men are" and stuff and I hate it! I didn't mean to do anything! I didn't do anything either! I'm actually a 'good girl'.
I got so fed up that I told her that if she cant trust her own daughter to be around her husband that she has serious problems.
what should i do?

2007-10-17 13:05:02 · 9 answers · asked by Dr. C∂ƒƒee £ips :} 4 in Family

Have you ever been to a wedding that was particually memorable or fun?
What was it that made it so special for you as a guest?
I'm looking for ideas for my own...
Thank you!
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2007-10-17 13:04:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-17 13:01:56 · 13 answers · asked by Diane L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mother in law obliged my husband to send her montly salary inspite that we have a child and payables such as house loans,yaya,food etc...expenses,She received also other incomes,i feel so disgusted becoz she doesn't understand me...

2007-10-17 13:01:45 · 5 answers · asked by dyspepsia 1 in Family

been married for a while..and love your husband very much. dont and wont cheat..but are bored out of ur minds.??..with the same ol same ol..what do you do to cope with the bordome?
ever feel like youve lost yourself and not sure where u went..LOL..?

2007-10-17 13:00:00 · 13 answers · asked by lisa baby... 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This time last year I started seeing a bloke who I'd fancied for ages. It was going great for a few weeks til we both got fleabites from my ex-flatmate's cat. He freaked out & ended it. I texted him the other day cos I unfortunately know his number & he replied saying how much he'd liked me & wondered what would've happened if it hadn't been for 'that cat'. He also wished me 'well and happiness'. Though I know nothing will ever happen again I just can't forget about him cos I'd fancied him for years before we got together and it seemed amazing at the time. I don't think I'll ever recapture how special it seemed and I also hate the fact he dumped me for such a stupid reason. It makes it all the harder to get over him. I just don't know how to get on with it and wish him well and happiness!

2007-10-17 12:59:52 · 11 answers · asked by hatty m 1 in Singles & Dating

This married man at work and I have been playing games with each other for a few months now. I'm also married. I know he likes me and I like him. The thing is that I think that the both of us are too afraid to admit it because we know it's wrong for a lot of reasons. But the problem is that my heart can't take it anymore. It keeps aching for him more and more. I've fallen for him, but I'm afraid to be the one to first approach him. But if I don't approach him, I feel that he might never approach me because he's probably just as afraid as I am.

Do you think that if he wants me just as much or more, then he would've made a move on me by now?

2007-10-17 12:57:36 · 32 answers · asked by kekeke 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If I go to Las Vegas and I hook up with a girl (not my wife) who pleasures me using just her hands, is that cheating?

2007-10-17 12:57:22 · 21 answers · asked by KhrisB 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Basiccly, my mom and i are in a HUGE fight the type where she said that i dont even exist to her. How do i make her regret what she said to me?

(no rude awnsers please. i really need this! just once and ill never do it again)

2007-10-17 12:57:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husbands no longer wants to be with me because of my ways... I am trying to change but now he says its too late. Well his birthday is coming up and I was wondering if you guys could give me some great ideas for birthday.... Something that will let him know that I really love him and something that he will remember forever.. PLEASE HELP

2007-10-17 12:55:29 · 21 answers · asked by itsme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a member of the ar. national gaurd we are being sent to iraq for one year here is my ? we have to raise money for our troops to go home for the holidays with their families the bus for us to do this is 6000.00 and we need 6 of them can anyone help us?

2007-10-17 12:52:26 · 5 answers · asked by citisat 3 in Family

I really like this guy. He flirts with me and stuff but I want him to like me more!How??

2007-10-17 12:51:03 · 2 answers · asked by ♥devin.paige♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and im in 8th grade he is one of the most popular guys in my grade and im not the most popular girl in school, i think im kinda pretty here's my myspace myspace.com/lilwoods382 anyways.. in class ill always catch him staring at me but before i get the chance to smile, he looks away really quick.. i try to talk to him but im so nervous! i tried talking to him in the hall a couple times but i just get nervous and he doesnt really make eye contact but he answers. at a football one night i kept walking past him and he would stare at me so i dont understand! im not weird or anything i just want to know what to do to get him to like me or notice me.. what do you think?

2007-10-17 12:50:36 · 21 answers · asked by lilwoods382 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to appear superficial.

2007-10-17 12:50:35 · 36 answers · asked by Rogue 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm also married. Just when I think I could be over the guy at work, I fall for him all over again. I'm debating whether or not it's worth it to quit my job. I like my job and I need the money and health care. I'm afraid that if I quit, then it might just make my obsession with this guy even stronger because I won't see him anymore. Or it could be the other way? I don't know.

I also don't like the idea of starting all over again with finding a new job.

2007-10-17 12:48:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is the one thing your wife does that makes you really love her above and beyond all others? what does she do that makes you feel special? is it something she does to you? for you? what is it about her that made you love her and continue to love her over the years?

2007-10-17 12:48:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Who would you choose- a drop dead gorgeous girl who's kind of annoying, or a plain (not ugly) girl who is not annoying?

2007-10-17 12:46:41 · 15 answers · asked by patriceisadork 2 in Singles & Dating

I know I am, I want everything perfect. After all, you only get married once

2007-10-17 12:46:19 · 8 answers · asked by preppygrl88@sbcglobal.net 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my 17 yr old sons ex girlfriend left the state of mn with their child and his rights have not been established. She left that state because she has a bench warrant out for her arrest. would like to now know how to go about getting her and the baby back in the state and getting my son rights.

2007-10-17 12:46:17 · 4 answers · asked by tgilormini 1 in Family

2007-10-17 12:45:29 · 9 answers · asked by tiffany_bratz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My babysitter has been babysitting for me for about 2 years now. She has a home daycare. I just had a baby and she is 7 mths. She watches my 7 mth old, 2 year old and picks my 6 year old up from school.
The problem is: Her and her husband are divorcing but still live in the same home. My kids witness them arguing all the time b/c of the husband cheating and the divorce is new. I have only been back to work for 7 weeks and each week she has called off for court, a job interview etc. This forces me to have to find a babysitter at least once a week. The main thing is the arguing though. My husband and I don't argue in front of our children and I don't want it around my children. I feel bad because I am her only income right now and she is already dealing with the divorce issue.
Should I wait for this to tide over or just let her know that I will find another babysitter until her husband moves? Signed -concerned mother.

2007-10-17 12:45:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 12:44:22 · 20 answers · asked by Janina 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 12:42:38 · 8 answers · asked by z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 12:42:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 12:41:29 · 5 answers · asked by latrice money 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 12:41:00 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Seriously, I jokinh wrote that my friend's facebook walla sucks (she only has 20 posts) and she messaged me telling me to "Get da fvck out her face." I told her she's a mean person, and that she wouldn't be picking on me if I was popular like her (I'm really quiet) and she keeps saying stuff like, "her mom taught her to use her fists." Now, she's telling her friends lies about me. What should I do?

2007-10-17 12:40:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends