How do I get over him? He dumped me 'cos of a bloody cat!!?

Question

This time last year I started seeing a bloke who I'd fancied for ages. It was going great for a few weeks til we both got fleabites from my ex-flatmate's cat. He freaked out & ended it. I texted him the other day cos I unfortunately know his number & he replied saying how much he'd liked me & wondered what would've happened if it hadn't been for 'that cat'. He also wished me 'well and happiness'. Though I know nothing will ever happen again I just can't forget about him cos I'd fancied him for years before we got together and it seemed amazing at the time. I don't think I'll ever recapture how special it seemed and I also hate the fact he dumped me for such a stupid reason. It makes it all the harder to get over him. I just don't know how to get on with it and wish him well and happiness!

Answer 1

Implicit in your story is the very reason why you need to get on with it. This guy broke up with you over what----fleabite from your roommate's cat .What would he have done if you had done something real serious like cheat on him with his brother or best friend.Would he have had you shot by a firing squad?. I am being sarcastic because your ex seems to either have an over inflated sense of his own importance and attraction or he does not believe in being human or in other creatures like animals.His reason goes beyond stupid, it goes to irrational. While I know you say you have fancied him forever, in light of his action, I can't understand why.Please find another guy worthy of your time and attention.Though you say you can't do just forget him and wish him well, I suspect it is because you really have not tried to do just that. You are still stuck on the romantic picture you have had of him for so long that you are now blind to who he truly is.Spare your self further pain and embarrassment and say goodbye to this egoist.You deserve much better.

Answer 2

Totally agree with oracle. The split can't have been solely because of fleas! You do say 'it SEEMED amazing'; 'how special it SEEMED' and how u hate the fact he dumped you for such a stupid reason - kinda shows you're aware your reminising thru rose tinted spectacles. Personally I'd have responded to his bullshit text with, 'You say u really liked me and wish me 'well and happiness', if this is true please be honest and tell me the real reason you left; need to move on u c and don't want to believe that your so shallow you left because of fleas off a cat that didn't even live in my flat anymore! Gr8 stuff flea powder, cheap 2, all gone now by the way, mmm jst like u!

Answer 3

That's one of the most lame and ridiculous excuses for ending with someone that I've ever heard.

One way for you to move on is to realise what a sad loser the guy is. That should sort out the "admiration" you still have for him.

You'll meet someone much better than this one day, and will look back and wonder what you ever saw in 'Mr. Fleabite".

Answer 4

here is what am i able to help! before everything, do no longer panic. Blood in a cat's stool is a demonstration of a few thing incorrect, in spite of the indisputable fact that that's particularly straightforward as a sickness symptom even for minor illnesses. it is likewise reported as hematochezia. If the blood is dazzling purple, your cat could have here subjects: one million) it ought to easily be a difficulty with the stool itself. especially situations while it relatively is too no longer uncomplicated or dry, it may reason minor tears and injuries to the cat's anus popping out. this could be an uncomplicated difficulty and could be fixed via changing your cat's weight loss plan. moist foodstuff could be a solid answer to this if your cat will consume it. If no longer, ask your vet some nutritional complement or changing manufacturers of cat foodstuff. 2) especially situations cats get bloody stool because of the fact of intestinal parasites. Cat tapeworms and cat roundworms are straightforward reasons. often, inspite of the indisputable fact that, you will see segments of the worms or the worms themselves in the stool - it won't in simple terms be blood. yet another parasite to observe out for is tom cat hookworms. if so, the blood often seems dried up via the time it passes. 3) Bacterial infections. Get your vet to attempt for this - e. coli is a solid occasion of a few thing like this. 4) Mice and rat poison could reason this especially situations, in spite of the indisputable fact that it often has different indications linked with it which comprise melancholy and often performing ill. 5) Cancers and different important illnesses could reason this as a symptom in the event that they do injury to the intestines. you will often see different indications, inspite of the indisputable fact that. 6) especially situations it relatively is in simple terms no longer something - familiar inflammation or in simple terms a difficulty the cat has it is not likely led to via something especially. because of the fact it ought to doubtlessly be severe, it relatively is counseled which you're taking the cat in for testing. If the blood seems darkish, dry, and often no longer sparkling, then that's often a difficulty with the small intestines led to via viral an infection.

Answer 5

Advantage or spot on applied to the back of the neck keeps cats flea free for a month. fleas also transfer worms to their victims, perhaps he's paranoid or allergic to flea bites, as some people are over wasp and bee stings, in some victims it induces comma, why not inquire if he suffers in this way, using it as an icebreaker.

Answer 6

Either he genuinely can't stand cats and cannot go near them (especially if they have fleas), or he was looking for an excuse to end your relationship and didn't have the guts to give you a proper explanation.

Answer 7

He dumped you 'cos of a bloody cat!!?
I reckon he wanted an excuse to end it.

hatty m, you will get over it in time,
and it will be "special" again.

meanwhile get some flea powder,

Answer 8

Just ask him out for old times sake and you may even realise that he was not that good after all.

Answer 9

your better off without him-he sounds like a bit of a muppet!

Answer 10

Maybe he is having an affair with the CAT!!. meow,