Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

ok how old is everyone? it seems that most of the questions asked on here r by younger people so im just curious

2007-10-17 02:14:12 · 45 answers · asked by Groo son of a vt 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 02:13:27 · 8 answers · asked by gaehall 1 in Family

2007-10-17 02:07:59 · 4 answers · asked by gaehall 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do i have to give him one or can i be forced by law?

2007-10-17 02:07:32 · 29 answers · asked by pollbee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

But when you hate the person it's easy like Sunday morning....

2007-10-17 02:05:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She came back from a family holiday realising that the world is bigger than our town, she doesnt want commitment and thats it. I've tried to be friends but now she is drifting away. We were friends before we dated. I'm quite a lonely person, I was so happy to be with her and I really don't want to loose that friendship. The confusing thing is that during the last 10 weeks we have met up and got on really well, but its getting less and her communication sucks.

2007-10-17 02:05:13 · 16 answers · asked by UK J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the deal.
There is this guy Brian whom I fell in love with over the course of 3 months. He live in San Diego,CA and at the moment I am living in Florida and moving back out to San Diego next month. He used to live out here 20 minutes from where I am exactly (what a small world!), He was out here last week visiting, and we hung out for an entire day (would have been more, but he was veryyy busy with work stuff). Anyways, when he came over, we talked the entire time bout anything really. When he was about to leave I started crying a lot because I was going to miss him (at the time I didnt know if I was going back to Cali or not either).. I told him I loved him while looking deep into his eyes and balling. He didn't say it back (I knew he wouldn't), but I can just tell in his eyes that He either loves me or has a very strong like for me as well (I kno some guys don't show everything on the outside so fast), In San Diego (was out there 2 months ago before moving) I lived with him

2007-10-17 02:03:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father was married before marrying my mother. He divorced and there was a four year gap before meeting and marrying my mom. She got the house and never changed the phone. I was in high school before she changed it because my mother finally had a fit. People would call her looking for my dad. My mom seems to think she did it to have some control. She liked being able to refer or the option not to refer people to the correct number (our phone is under mom's name) I think she was just lazy. Any other suggestions?

2007-10-17 02:02:40 · 15 answers · asked by Big Daddy R 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to see a guy on Saturday and his birthday is on Monday. Can I go ahead and give him his birthday card on Saturday? It is just a card (there is no gift check, etc.).

Also, does giving a birthday card indicate that you like someone or can a birthday card be totally platonic?

2007-10-17 02:01:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my husband were arguing and he was upset(mad) so he said the word divorce. does that make it valid. he came back late that night and said he was sorry and didnt want a divorce and we talked about it. so was it done right on his part ,did it ever take place was it right on his part.

2007-10-17 02:00:36 · 12 answers · asked by thameenah@verizon.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i dont know! what is it like to have sex? what does it feel? and how? yuck!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-17 02:00:30 · 12 answers · asked by Cheska 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-17 01:59:00 · 12 answers · asked by Julie B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's mom passed away one year ago. Since then his family has been at odds. His older sister has stopped talking to him, his youngest sister and their dad. This has also lasted about a year. When my husband sent his two nieces money for their birthdays, this sister proceeded to send it back with a card saying "since you are not part of their lives, we don't feel we can accept any gifts because it sends the girls mixed messages." My husband is devastated by this and wants to write her back - I say no, to let it go and move on. What is his best course of action?

2007-10-17 01:58:28 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel 7 in Family

today was themost best, adorable day of my life.today,i met my onlnie friend and meeting him was something i wud never forget. he's d kind a guy i really wanted in my life. we walked and spent time togehter in the park, movie. I truly miss him.the prob is tht, he's going back to him home overseas and will only come back next year. b4 leaving, he gave me a french kiss and a hug. i know normal kisses is fine, but french kiss, and he placed his hand over my shoulders. it all happened in a "sudden". what does it mean? i feel sad tht he's going back this sunday...

2007-10-17 01:56:49 · 15 answers · asked by Mi s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 01:55:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex wife and i have been divorced for 3 years. We never had any kind of custody or support arrangement.For five years i have paid her a generous amount every month not to mention extra money here and there when she "had a problem paying this bill or that ". I recently learned that she lied about having full custody from our childrens school records and she has verbally lied to me about this and there is nothing in our final divorce judgement about custody or support. Recently ive had some health problems and was a little late giving her money in october and she threatened to take my parental rights away from me. She always uses our kids to make demands and make me feel guilty.. i live in NC. I want to be civil and respectful of her parenting rights even though she acts this way.I would like to here all opinions on this matter.Thank you!

2007-10-17 01:50:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

FALL LEAVES"


Roots grow deep, like friends that know,
leaves that fall with a certain bright glow.
Colored blazon in struggle,,, yet blasts of color,
make your angelic smile light,, like no other.

It is fall and time to see, a reflection deeply sad,
yet,, winter beckons, and our souls are surely glad.
Why do elements not so true, keep us valiantly far apart?
the love we shared special,, shall never as valleys depart.


We are not together in person, yet hunker down,
'sometimes blissful, yet missing,,, you I frown.

Your my shine,, an important hand,
A friend indeed, I will never demand.
Anymore than two souls share,
without you now, fell leaves stare.

2007-10-17 01:47:53 · 6 answers · asked by tommy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am only fourteen so if you think this is dumb question then I'm sorry. My mom & dad have been fighting a lot lately. My mom does everything she can to make my dad mad. He doesn't get violent or anything, he just leaves when he gets really mad. He comes to all my softball and baseball games, I love him to death.
My grandmother got sick and we had to go to Houston to see her. He grew up in Houston, we live in Alabama now. I didn't know my daddy had so many friends till we went this last time. My mother was not with us. I met a lady named Sarah who I guess my daddy dated in high school. She was so nice to me and my daddy and me had more fun together than we have ever had before. He was so funny and never got mad once. I think he still cares about Sarah because he acted so strange around her.
On the way home he said that things were about to change and that I would have to make a choice, my mother or him.
I am choosing my daddy, is it wrong for me to feel this way?

2007-10-17 01:45:16 · 33 answers · asked by Confused Again? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm looking for wedding gowns with sleeves that will hide my tattoos at the top of each arm. I think I prefer the off the shoulder look with the little sleeves. Any idea of websites that I can a have a look at these sorts of dresses?

2007-10-17 01:43:32 · 15 answers · asked by nats28 3 in Weddings

i have a foot fetish and have been in situations where I have found my feet bumping into a gals accidently and I guess I wait to see if they move their foot away before I will move mine. Sometimes it has been with strangers but it has also happened with friends of my wifes and relatives to be honest I have been shocked at how much footsie these gals will play with me. I know they must not see anything wrong with it and I have told my wife and she seems to think it is alright too. The only thing that worries me is that because of my fetish I get more out of it than just playing. should I quit doing it or is it ok to keep on kepping on with it?

2007-10-17 01:41:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

they are a great group of male + female friends. one night we had a row, and i went out with HIS group of friends, because i get on with them, and consider them MY friends too.. he was really annoyed and thought i was "taking the p*** out of him". i understand that his last girlfriend actually slept with one of his friends. but should i not be allowed to see "his" friends on my own, or is this just silly?

2007-10-17 01:38:30 · 23 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u talk about? like for example; u have free time, after breakfast, lunch, dinner. or before going to bed? or while your husband driving the car? or somewhere where you and your husband/wife together? what do you usually discuss about? topic?

2007-10-17 01:37:15 · 31 answers · asked by ambot 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If a man becomes a househusband, people comments and dont approve. Is being a househusband to do with losing the manhood and be a feminine thing? Dont you think it is the demand of the day, when lots of women are entering the corporate world and having successfull career, somebody should be there to take care of home and raise kids. If the man chooses to do that then what is the fuss? Housework is not a rocket science which men cannot do.

2007-10-17 01:32:39 · 11 answers · asked by shiava02 4 in Family

I found a vibrator in her wardrobe. I stumbled across it because she told me to get a top from her wardrobe while she was in the shower.

Ive been with her for 2 years. Im annoyed because shes never told me shes had one.

When i turned it on the thing worked, so i know she must be using it.

What should i do?

2007-10-17 01:30:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 18 and she is 17 where should i take her?
and i live in san antonio if that help answering my question

2007-10-17 01:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by THING 2 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to look into getting a will for myself and my husband, but I am not sure how to go about doing it. Do you have to go to a lawyer and is it expensive?

2007-10-17 01:24:17 · 8 answers · asked by jodi w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

no comments.. just answer

2007-10-17 01:23:55 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

2007-10-17 01:22:45 · 13 answers · asked by The Protaganist 1 in Friends

My husband & I have been together for over 8 yrs. He has an 11 yr daughter & recently things got worse in the relationship he has with his daughter's mother because she expected more child support money & other demands. To make a long story short, the court did NOT give her what she was after. Since this time (1 1/2 month), she has made life really impossible and is always trying to fight about something. His daughter celebrated a b/day the end of Sept and they wiill not answer the phone when he calls to try to speak with his daughter. His ex said that he cannot see her anymore or talk to her anymore. It doesnt stop there, she also declared that my husband's mother cannot pick up their daughter anymore. My husband used to pick up his daughter on Sats & spend the day with her. His ex said that he treats his daughter differently from our 2 sons, etc. She told their daughter that daddy doesnt love her because he would buy her "nicer" presents for xmas and her bday.

2007-10-17 01:15:45 · 13 answers · asked by ★Banäna . Nightmärẹ★™ 7 in Family

last night my fiance came home from work and I was asking him what else he wanted to go with dinner and his son walks in the room and being very polte doesn't say a word ad walks back out of the room well his dad calls him back and said what baby ??? and I was like weren't we just having a conversation ( waited until the child walked outta the room )and he said but I haven't seen him all day but I felt like he was completely disregareding me and my daughter but he says he wants us to be a family ?????

2007-10-17 01:15:16 · 6 answers · asked by dolphin tat 2 in Family