Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

2007-10-17 06:10:10 · 31 answers · asked by Krystina 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not a winer. I'm not a complainer. I'm not even a pessimist. But, lately I just feel like a downer. I feel as if I'm missing the fun in life. I feel anxious and shy. I feel like all of my confidence just disappeared. I transfered to this college in high spirits. My summer was great: old friends from high school and family: two things I love. But now, at my new college, I just feel alone and kind of sad. I've always been a shy person but lately, I feel like I've made no effort in meeting knew people or being social. I guess I don't have the confidence? Well, I'm just wondering if anyone else is feeling similar? Or, if anyone could offer some advice...to give me a better mind set, more confidence, or simply help me find the fun I experienced in life not too long ago.

2007-10-17 06:06:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

And she got involved with this guy sexually with a white guy(she's black)She told me that this guy never been with a black woman sexually,and he doesn't want a relationship with black women just his own race only.I mentioned to her that this guy was just playing you,cause of her race,but she don't want to hear it,and now the guy don't want anything to do with her now.I'm concerned what should I do?

2007-10-17 06:03:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 24 and been having this problem ever since highschool, I never been on a date, or kissed or even received a girl phone number. Its been getting worse, its like I don't want to be near any group of females for a sustained amount of time.

2007-10-17 06:01:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help! I am an attractive 27 year old. My husband is 35. It seems I want to be intimate more than him. He turns me down ALOT. I feel like any other guy would love to have a wife like me. He is happy twice a week but I am not. I want sex every day. Am I being selfish? He claims he doesn't have a low sex drive. I am tired of getting rejected. It is effecting our relationship. When we do, it is great....but not often enough. Can any guys tell me why this could be? Is he too comfortable? I am 100% sure he is not cheating, and I know he loves me. What's up?

2007-10-17 06:00:26 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

depending on the sex:

rough wild sex: Closer-NIN
sweet sex: Fade into you-Mazzy Star

2007-10-17 05:59:16 · 20 answers · asked by L 4 in Singles & Dating

imagine you got in an argument, a big one, and they were yelling at you telling you were selfish and self centered, so you said f*%$ you and hung up. if you were the other person, would you just up and leave and say you never wanted to talk to them again? or would you work it out after the two of you calmed down?

2007-10-17 05:57:53 · 67 answers · asked by *~§air§~* 2 in Singles & Dating

was wondering if my guy friend likes me as a friend or more. Here is a list of the following things that have happened.
1) He texted me asking how work went, if anything was going on later and if I made it home ok.
2) He has asked me to give him rides before
3) Asks to go places with me
4) Borrowed a pair of my sweat pants when he slept over my house during a party and kept them
5) He once joked with me when he slept over on how he was going to walk home at five in the morning to prove to everyone how close his house is to mine. He pretended to leave but really went downstairs and then laughed when i found him...then we ended up sleeping on the couch
6) He came over my house to watch a movie
7) Laughs at the things i do or say
8)wore my necklace
9) gave me a massage
10) Gave me the first cd that he ever made
11) Hugged me goodbye leaving for college
12) apoliges for small things
13)remembers small things about me
Do you think he likes me more than a friend and how do no

2007-10-17 05:56:46 · 7 answers · asked by Beeskneez 1 in Singles & Dating

what i really want to know is when is the safest period to have sex without getting pregnant. my last period dated to 08th october...and the next one will be around 6th-8th november.
some say its 5 days after period and 7 days before the next period...... i would really appreciate if i cud get an accurate answer to my question.
Counting on your prompt reply.
regards

2007-10-17 05:55:45 · 15 answers · asked by angy516 1 in Singles & Dating

She keeps looks at his a** saying how hot it is and she keeps telling him his flies are undon when they aren't!Why does she do this?

2007-10-17 05:54:13 · 13 answers · asked by IloveNewYork 1 in Friends

my ex-girlfriend broke up with me about 8 months ago, and just recently in like the past month or so she started to try and talk to me again, so i went with it. We spent a few nights together, and hung out a few more times. She tells me shes in love with me, and that she wants to be with me, have kids, and get married oneday, but she tells me that she has alot of stuff on her mind, and just cant be in a relationship right now. Ive even herd that she loves me and wants to be with me from other people she has told, but when it comes to me saying something about us dating again, she just says eventually things will work out, and that i do want to be with you, but i got alot of things on my mind to think about that right now. i mean is she just needing her space? do you think she is affraid of something? she also told me that she would cry, not thinking she would ever get another chance with me, and that she made a mistake, but she isnt doing any thing about it. im so confused. HELP.......

2007-10-17 05:52:45 · 14 answers · asked by wyte529 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I like. But now I am giving up I do not know if im just give "meanings" on everything that he do like smiling talking to me or being nice to me. I want to convince myself that he is just being friendly. But there is this feeling inside of me that he likes me too, that is why my mind keeps telling me that he does not like me more than a friend but my heart does not what should I do

2007-10-17 05:49:47 · 5 answers · asked by shibereta 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it that he doesn't have a ring? He asks me all the time if I love him and makes me promise and swear I do. He constantly pulls me to the jewlery counter or store and asks me tons of questions about if I like this ring or that diamond, if it is big enough, if it is thin enough.... What is his deal? Is he leading me on or what? How should I answer those questions? And he has major trust issues cause his last wife did him so wrong--- will those ever go away or do I just have to deal with it?

2007-10-17 05:48:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She lives far away from me, and ive lost her phone no, but i ave her email addy/her home addy
Anyways she is 31 and in a " relationship" with this 27 yr old who lives a 4 hrs drive away from her, who is still a member of match.com!? left his relationship status on facebook as blank ?( she has hers as listed in a relationship), she lives in his home town where he has friends and family, he stays the weekends with her about twice month. he still has pics and msgs of his ex and former conquests,on his phone. i know 1 of them and he was sending her sexy txt asking her 2 meet up wiv him? I just think he is using her as place to stay and a back up sh@g.
I think he is a slimeball and( NO, i have no interest in getting wiV him, before all you cynics start)
im tempted to send her (anon) that book called "he is just not that into you" and write a brief note saying he is on match and his user name is x.
I dont want to be mean 2 her but what sort of things can i say?

2007-10-17 05:44:47 · 20 answers · asked by raggyann 3 in Singles & Dating

I never understood that!! why wouldn't a couple want to plan TOGETHER? and guys, if you had it your way, what kind of wedding would you have? or do you JUST DON"T CARE!?!?

2007-10-17 05:44:37 · 35 answers · asked by pantiquay 2 in Weddings

on suday on of my friends who is 18 asked me out and i sayed yes i like him alot but im not sure if my dad will aprove when he meet him. what should i do. and when my brother meets him is going to give him a condom and he is still a vergin

2007-10-17 05:41:39 · 15 answers · asked by angle f 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so Mine an my boyfriend's one year is coming up in 22 days.. he asked me to make him one of my cakes that he loves, but i was wondering what should i do or get for him.. by the way im 17 and he is 18.. thanks for the help ;-)*

2007-10-17 05:41:24 · 14 answers · asked by JBaByGurL 1 in Singles & Dating

Im losint my true love. We been friends for 10 yrs & been together 3. he's all i have in this world. Literally. But i have issues & the help i need costs too much. I cant seem to get things right, and im losing him more everyday. I have a really bad attitude, mostly because of the way i was raised, and i take it out on him which i dont mean too, but hes all i have to vent on. & when im mad and ask for space, he keeps on asking me then i snap beign the heat of the moment. When i left i made a choice which basically left me with no family or friends he's all i have. Please someone help me to where i might be able to get my attitude under control & not be so mean. I dont mean it & when i try to hide from it so i dont be that way it just gets worse. Please help. If i lose this i lose my love, my home & my best & only friend. This is it. I have no where else to go, no home no family, no friends.

2007-10-17 05:36:56 · 15 answers · asked by cherrios85 1 in Singles & Dating

I had post a question about my problem with my husband but I still have more question to ask .I don't know how to make our marriage better if only myself work on it. I am pragnant about 5 month now I want him to be kind to me casue when I upset it was effect the baby too. He like to tell me to clean all the time and nagging me the way I do thing that he don't like he want me to do thing his way... I am cook and clean for him and his son but he still use me the same.. sometime I tired and my belly is bigger everyday I can't move as well as before anymore. I want him to care the baby that I carrying too not just his son...it's kind na hurt sometime to see him give a lot of attention to his son but he never ask or seem to care what inside me. it's his baby too..he think he is right all the time because he is a lot older than me and I have to listen to him...I want to stand up for myself but when come down to the point I don't have any where to go no family here...just want a happy life

2007-10-17 05:36:11 · 40 answers · asked by pae 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 05:33:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

way of responding to the problems with his ex and his children that I have even begun thinking of suicide as a way out. I know I won't do this, however it is a reoccurring thought. He never stands up to the children when they are acting out and telling me to shut up.....I never act like their parent and therefore I am being told to shut up over things like...what would you like for dinner....which usually means three different menus....I do it. His ex is always trying to break us up....he really rarely makes a stand....and now he is saying if I can't make friends with his children, who are the best things that ever happened to him....he doesn't know what he'll do. I feel that I am in an impossible situation because these kids are never going to want to be my friend with all of the basing going on in their custodial parents home......What should I do...should I keep trying for the sake of our marriage or leave.

2007-10-17 05:30:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love that 50's look almost like Betty Boop, classic cars, that Dita Von Teese look. Is it sexy and attractive?

2007-10-17 05:30:47 · 32 answers · asked by spleefarella 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for that special someone. I have tried online, through friends, dating, and going out. I just cant found that special someone. Why?

2007-10-17 05:30:10 · 11 answers · asked by pencil1212 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 05:30:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A woman's bosom can sink ships...

A woman's bosom can stop or even start wars...

A woman's bosom can start the heart rushing and can even cause heart attacks...

So is a woman's bosom truly her most dangerous weapon?

Just imagine if woman were allowed to walk the streets topless. I would stop breathing and my heart would beat so fast that I would have to sit against a wall to stop from shaking.

But perhaps with time I would be able to be calm with such beauty exposed for the world to enjoy:)

2007-10-17 05:30:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

him I found him on myspace and sent a message, and everyday I am obessed to know if he cheaked his messages? I was 14 when I dated him now I am 26years old it was so long ago do you think deep down inside I still love him and not admiting it to myself? PLease help/ I do love my boyfriend very much though this is just to confusing?

2007-10-17 05:26:06 · 12 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex boyfriend last summer. We are still good friends though. The other day I told him I missed him and he said he missed me too. Yesterday he told me he knew I missed him before I told him so. So I asked him, "what else do you know," He said "I know lots of things , what would you like to know?" So I asked him to tell me what he wants me to know, in the hope that he would tell me how he feels about me. he answered ," you are a clever girl, anything you need to know I am sure you already know."

I can feel he still has feelings for me but I am not quite sure. All I know is he still compliments me and tells me he thinks I am perfect and I am the best company. and that he wishes I was there to greet him after he gets home from work. He is coming see me later this year and its going to be a 12 hour flight for him.
Does it sound like he still has feelings for me? How do I get him to tell me how he feels

2007-10-17 05:25:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after a long drawn-out break-up with my first love, I am soon to be leaving the area (for job reasons, not because of the relationship).

Deep down I want to go and see my ex, only briefly, to say a proper farewell, even though a lot of the time I get annoyed at him when we talk, because he keeps bringing up issues regarding the relationship.

I'm going to miss him very much, even though we don't really talk much any more. I know he'd probably want to see me.

What should I do?

2007-10-17 05:24:52 · 16 answers · asked by nypherbel 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever thought about someone you really like constantly but when they called you, you found yourself lost for words? I've been talking to this guy I met online for like 9 months now but we've never met in person because he's in the military and is in a different country right now. He says he really likes me and wants to meet me and I could see it happening. Lately we haven't been able to talk on the phone as much as we used to because I got a new job and the time that he would normally call me I would be at work. Yesterday was my off day and I was sleeping but he called me late in the night and I was glad that it was him but I just couldn't talk to him there were alot of these long awkward pauses on the phone and he would ask "why are you being so quiet?" I was really happy to hear his voice so why the silence after almost 2 weeks of not being able to talk to him???????????

2007-10-17 05:24:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies let's be honest. How many times has your husband taken you out to dinner thinking he might get some sex afterwards? How many times has he bought you jewelry? Taken you on a nice trip? Bought you some nice clothes? Bought you a fancy car? How often do you use sex as an incentive, many times without evening realizing it, to get the things you want, go to the places you want to go, and do the things you want to do?

Why then would you think that talking, bytching, and complaining is going to get your husband to stop playing video games? Looking at porn? Going to strip clubs with friends you don't approve of? Or cutting back on his drinking? If the promise of sex works when you want to go to dinner, go to a movie, go on a trip, get some new earrings, or buy some fancy clothes, then why not use sex as an incentive for getting him to behave the way you want him to behave?

2007-10-17 05:24:23 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce