Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

Ok, I so I'll admit that I am really small (3.5 inches max). And she did apologize later about laughing. She said that it was "just a stupid reaction at the time".

I accepted her apology, but what was up with that really?

Have any girl on here done that before? Or could you see yourself laughing if it was really small?

And what do you think was going on in her head honestly?

2007-10-17 08:14:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was walking to class this morning and I noticed a beautiful girl and I think I was staring at her.

I've noticed her around campus before and I looked at her previous times before and I don't think she saw me, but today was different, I think I was accidentally staring at her while I was walking towards her direction.

I get close to her area and she looks at me and says "Hello" right as I walked passed her, and then she starts walking the opposite way from me, and so I look back and reply "Hello" and then continue walking. It happened so quick and unexpectedly that I didn't catch her tone of voice.

What do you think she meant by "Hello"?

Did she mean it like "excuse me, what are you looking at me for?" or like "hello, I want to be on you"?

What should I do next time I see her?

Thanks in advance!!!!!

2007-10-17 08:13:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 08:13:04 · 20 answers · asked by ♣Social Butterflygirl 4 in Singles & Dating

I (23) met my bf (33) in Jan 07. We started seeing each other in June, and shortly after I moved into his house. He is currently seperated. His wife left him Oct 06 after starting a relationship with a man she met online.
My bf has told me that he loves me, wants to be with me, and eventually marry me. He got divorce papers 3 months ago and has done nothing with them. Whenever I ask about them, he goes silent and leaves the room.
He wont hear a bad word said about his wife because she is the mother of his 2 children (7 & 2) He uses that line a lot. And it really hurts, because we accidently fell pregnant and after several weeks of him saying everything would be ok, we would be a family one day, I had a termination at 15 weeks. When I agreed to it, I asked if he would start the divorce so we could start planning our future and he said yes. But it's been 3 weeks since and he has done nothing.
Do you think I'm an idiot? I cant help thinking He's never going to divorce her.

2007-10-17 08:12:13 · 56 answers · asked by T. A. H. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay having relationship issues, and I'm an ex-cutter!!!
I am having the same feelings I use to get, and DONT want to cut! HELP!
Something I can do to destress, and not hurt myself, I dont want to fall back into that!!!!

2007-10-17 08:12:08 · 21 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife says she has no urge to kiss or have sex with me. It's been this way for about 6 years, we've been married for 8. I've tried everything from not asking for it and it goes a year without it, to pressuring, to trying to romance, etc... Nothing works. Is it a bad choice to say I'll let her spend more money on clothes and stuff if she does have sex?

I'm 99% sure she isn't cheating because she is either at work or here. And her work is a small place that I know of near by.

What are your thoughts? Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can actually get some intimacy (kissing, hugging, sex)?

We've also tried counseling (non religuous and through our church). I'm at witts end and going insaine.

2007-10-17 08:11:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We lived together the past five years and dated for four previous to that. His son has lived with us for the whole time and is now 20. There have been lots of problems between us because his son constantly wanted me out. Ironically, the son (Dave) and I have become close the last year or so. My boyfriend (Sam) seemed to have lost feelings for me the last year. When I asked him a month ago if he wanted to break up, he said yes. He didn't want to go for counselling and refused to talk. I moved out two weeks ago and was feeling o.k. but now I seemed to have hit a wall. I spoke to him yesterday and he told me he has no feelings for me. I asked him if was seeing someone else and he said yes and that he has feelings for her. She is someone he dated nine yrs. ago before me, but would not commit to. He committed to me and we were so totally in love for years. I cannot believe he called her and they are involved again. It hurts to know he is so happy and I feel like never going out.

2007-10-17 08:10:14 · 8 answers · asked by bingoland 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i like this boy in my civics class his name is Thomas S. he sits behind me and i love it. okay first off i passed him the text books and he and i made major eye contact then he blushed so i turned away than all of a sudden he drops them all on the floor. then the next day he insists i dropped them so when i passed him the text books the next time i said don't drop them and i trew them at him but he caught them all i giggled. okay he also puts his feet on the back of my chair and tapps out a beat and starts beat boxing on one i herd him singing under his breath "Sarah" by thin lizzy http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c5AWfX8vc0o&mode=related&search= and my name is Sarah and he tas tapping on the back of my chair then the girl beside him threw his pencil on the floor and she wouldn't pick it up so he asked me to and i did and he said oh well at least you are nice to me?? and he smiled so i smiled back and turned around and did my work ?? does he like me or am i crazy ???????

2007-10-17 08:09:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

kissed a boy before?
i have never kissed a boy before or even had a boyfriend well not a proper teenage one and i am 16!! YES 16!! well i have to admit i REALLLY wasnt looking for one beofre because i just really wasnt that sort of person or maybe at the time i didnt see myself as "that sorta person." but in the past 2 years or so i have wanted one and I have found NO ONE I LIKE or anyone that LIKES ME!!

Do boys see me as weird and really unattractive? Will I ever find true love (lol-joking aside this is a serious matter coz its really fustrating me)

Your views please:

2007-10-17 08:08:24 · 13 answers · asked by g 3 in Singles & Dating

Maybe at 33 I need some new ideas.

2007-10-17 08:08:02 · 16 answers · asked by dollydagger 4 in Singles & Dating

i am 17 years old and my boyfriend of 4 years who i am madly inlove with who just asked me to marry him went and had sex with my little sister of 15! and now she is going to have his child. i really love him and i have dedicated 4 years of my life to spend with him! he was my first boyfriend and my first time in the sex department. i dont no what to do i really want to be with him for the rest of my life!!!! HELP ME!!!

2007-10-17 08:07:23 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and felt like you did something terrible? lol

2007-10-17 08:07:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey ladies , need an honest answers , me and my gf just had sex for the first time yesterday and was amazing , she feels the same way coz she called me at work and told me today that she would love to do it again ...... the question is she left me clueless that when does she want me to do it ? I mean she clearly wants me to take the initiative , but overdoing it shouldnt harm the relationship for which i have invested 3 months of my life ? but I really want to make her happy ... so suggestions on how many times a week would be perfect ?

2007-10-17 08:07:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All things considered please: looks, personality, quirks, personal preferences etc

2007-10-17 08:02:49 · 4 answers · asked by The Global Geezer 7 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married since nov2006. We had a big arguement at his mom house out of state and I told him I was leaving and that I wasnt his wife and I wanted a divorce and that same night he cheated on me with an old fling. This was last month hes 22 and I am 26 what do I do?

2007-10-17 08:01:06 · 62 answers · asked by felotha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When a girl is attractive or pretty she has to be having sex??? they are all so shocked when they find out. Does it scare guys away??

2007-10-17 08:01:02 · 42 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems that even when he genuinely likes you and there is nothing wrong with you 2 he will pull back or break it off 'cos he's hesitant to get involved, says things like, I think you want more than I do right now, why so many expectations? or nothing at all and just stops calling....why is this anyone please?

2007-10-17 07:59:34 · 35 answers · asked by Sunshine Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

If you could be completely honest with your guy without any possibility of retribution, what would be the one thing you'd love to tell him he needs to improve in the bedroom whether it be technique or anatomy?

2007-10-17 07:59:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 07:55:08 · 15 answers · asked by Sara-Jane 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 07:53:57 · 10 answers · asked by sassykim20 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 07:50:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband been in jail for 2 years 1/2 hes almost out in like 2 weeks..but i cheated on him with 5 different guys so i was doubting my love for my husband..but i feel so guilty when i go see my husband so i dont if i should tell him or no??But im afraid to loose him if i tell him the truth...What should i do???

2007-10-17 07:49:07 · 27 answers · asked by mz_virgo_818@att.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering about the regulars here in the wedding section:

1. age
2. education level
3. general location

2007-10-17 07:46:10 · 54 answers · asked by jones 2 in Weddings

Me and my boyfriend have been dating a year and we dont talk much. we cant see each other because we dont live by each other. We use to talk more once we met and could talk over the internet but i don tknow what else to talk about. I love him very much and he feels as if i dont because we never talk. He doesnt trust me because of soemthing that happend in his past relationship...but i keep telling him i'm nothing like her. I really do love him. I'd do absolutely anything for him. just icant bring myself to talking more..im not that good at talking over the internet. but i want to for him. He means the world to me and he doesnt believe me. he doubts my love soemtimes because i never talk to him...but I do want to just never talk much.please any advice would hellp.I really wana be with him. he loves me i know he does. he's told me even after he breaks up with me. he always comes back..this time he almost leaves me just he wants me to talk. we do lovee each other very much. please help me

2007-10-17 07:45:04 · 29 answers · asked by Amoriaa 1 in Singles & Dating

She's always been popular and has had lots of men friends, white, black ,brown, old and young. Normally she is careful but has slipped up. She wants to keep the baby because of the benefits she will be able to get. Regarding the dad is the problem she wants to choose one she likes but I'e told her to go for the one with the biggest bank balance.

2007-10-17 07:43:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

X-husband wants to take children to a Halloween party an hour away, on what is a school night, and doesn't know when he will get back, but the hayride doesn't start until 9 p.m. Children are 2,4, and 6 years old and usually are supposed to be back to me by 8 p.m. (they live with me, but he gets them one evening a week). He wants to keep them overnight after the party and get them to school the next morning. If I don't let them go, he'll likely tell them that "mommy wouldn't let me take you to a party" and make them sit home (he doesn't approve of trick or treating). Should I let them go, offer to extend the return time until...? 10?... Or just tell him no, that the proposed party is too far away and goes too late. Oh, and his house is 30 minutes from their schools, so they would have to get up extra early the next morning to be on time.

2007-10-17 07:43:09 · 25 answers · asked by Melissa C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

But now he decides he is in love with her and that she would drop everything for him. meanwhile, he is married to her best friend, but would drop his wife for mine. What do i do?

2007-10-17 07:38:33 · 19 answers · asked by Nano 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and I have been married for seven years this year. He has been having affairs but just looking at him you wouldntt say he is that type of person. He has been physically verbally and emotionally abusive to me. His mother takes his side. Recently he has been having and affair. When someone called the girls workplace,(which is also where his sister works) to say she should lose her job they blamed me. Now the girl received a text via a computer to her phone and he took the girl to the police station and gave them my name and workplace number and said I was the one who sent the text because it mentioned having an affair with someone. They have no proof that it was me but i was called by the police. What should I do when my husband has taken the girl he is having an affair with to make a police report on me. He states that if I loved him I should still wash his clothes and cook and iron even though I believe he has someone else. He says he should'nt give me money because I work

2007-10-17 07:37:14 · 29 answers · asked by moniwat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a mate of mine recently split with his girlfriend after a year hes findin it hard, got any advice for him? ive tried helping him but its not enough :(

2007-10-17 07:36:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a girl has been with her bf for lets say 2 years plus, and he has done nothing wrong to her...would it still possible for her to fall in love, like or be interested in another guy? What's the likelihood of her leaving him for the new dude? Is it really possible? What would it take?

Someone once told me this only happens with girls who are young and don't know what they want.

2007-10-17 07:36:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating