Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

I MEET THIS GUY A YEAR AGO WE TALKED FOR A WHILE BUT HE LIVES ABOUT AN HOUR AND A HALF AWAY, AND WE TRIED TO MAKE THINGS WORK OUT SO WE COULD BE TOGETHER BUT THINGS ALWAYS CAME UP ON MY END WHEN I WAS SUPPOSE TO GO. SEE HIM.AND THATS ONE OF THE MAIN REASONS WE STOPED TALKING.HE SAID I NEVER MADE TIME FOR HIM AND THAT I ALWAYS PUT OTHERES BEFORE US. RIGHT NOW IN MY LIFE FOR THE LAST 1YR AND A HALF. LIFES BEEN REALLY HARD. MY DADS SICK, I AM HELPING MY PARENTS RAISE MY TWO NEPHEWS AND MY NEICE.AND ITS HARD TO DO WHAT I WANT TO DO NOW A DAYS. AND I AM WORKING FULLTIME AND ITS NOT THAT EASY TO JUST GET UP AND LEAVE ON THE WEEKENDS . AND EXPECTS SO MUCH FROM JUST LIKE MY FAMILY DOES. I GET SO STRESSED OUT. WERE TALKING AGIAN AND I WANT TO TRY TO MAKE IT WORK . HE WANTS ME TP DROP EVERYTHING AND I KNOW I CANT. WHAT DO I DO. I TRY MY BEST TO PLEASE EVERYONE BUT ITS SO HARD I AM ONLY ONE PERSON ... SOME ONE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE I FEEL LIKE IM GOING TO HAVE A NERVOUS BREAK DOWN AND I M JUST 20

2007-10-17 09:00:05 · 11 answers · asked by bashfulmexicana 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 18..

so me and my bf are both virgins...well we tried to have sex the other night. and since its our first time's it didnt ex happened as we thought. First, we couldnt ex get it to stay in.. he was on top of me and it was dark so he couldnt see what to do. so then i tried being on top of him..which didnt seem to be all that great either and it wouldnt stay in! so.. we barely got it in and it hurt so bad. so i was wondering what are some good positions or tricks or if anyone has any advice about having sex for the first time? amnd yes he was hard! Help plz! this is embarrasing but idk what to do and we want to have sex!

2007-10-17 08:50:51 · 29 answers · asked by bj 1 in Singles & Dating

Does this product actually look good or is it the same as regular make-up? Do you really have the healthy, glowing look in the pictures?

2007-10-17 08:50:01 · 3 answers · asked by P 3 in Weddings

Does this product actually look good or is it the same as regular make-up? Do you really have the healthy, glowing look in the pictures?

2007-10-17 08:49:25 · 5 answers · asked by P 3 in Weddings

Well earlier today I was looking for my keys and it took me like several hours to find them and when I did I was so happy that I started to do like a victory dance and by all chances in the world a girl that I really liked was looking at me from outside and when I saw her she just had this look on her face that was like "omg he's nuts" so I do I explain it to her I mean the dance was pretty weird I have to admit but I was really happy!

2007-10-17 08:49:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

jus wana findout about it ..nofing else

2007-10-17 08:49:03 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I helped some people pass some classes, spent a lot of time on the phone and texting before I found out how expensive it was. When I found out I hid the phone bill from my wife because she really is "into" money. Nothing ever happened sexually, there was no "intimate" talk or anything. My wife has spent the last year before this making sure I was "in my place" to the point that our daughter understood how I hated coming home, even though she won't tell her mother that. Now my wife is even more depressed and angry because I have had what she calls an emotional affair. She checks my email, checks the PC, etc.... and keeps demanding that I tell her the truth. I feel like going out and having an affair since I am getting blamed for it anyway. It seems like this is a car wreak just getting ready to happen. The problems in the marriage were both our faults, lying about the phone bill and not telling her about the classes was definately my fault. What can I do?

2007-10-17 08:48:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When my hubby and I go out he gets vry jealous & if another guy talks 2 me wether its his friend or a stranger he claims they wanna have sex w/ me? He has told me that 2 of his friends wanna "bang" me, I personally don't think so but he is insistent on it he ends up getting a lil pissy w/ me & makes me not leave his side. Now when we go out I do dress nice a lil revealing but not slutty, I do show clevage & guys do stare but thats a natural thing I believe. I don't "hang" all over people & I don't flirt around, ok well maybe a lil but its harmless & I don't mean to its just my personality. B4 we leave the house he tries to make me change my clothes into something he thinks is more appropriate(anything that covers me completely)... I have never cheated on him, but he acts like I'm going to or that I have. What is ur opinion on his behavior?
I might add that he did cheat on me 7yrs ago, do u think that has anything to do w/ it? Plz don't be mean I was a lil hesitant on asking this!

2007-10-17 08:48:39 · 45 answers · asked by NONAME 4 in Marriage & Divorce

from common house hold matirials. it can not me scarry or un comfortable he has to crawl on the floor. and climb in and out of his wheel chair. he has had a stroke on his left side and has trouble with his left hand.. any Ideals

2007-10-17 08:48:19 · 3 answers · asked by Monica S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-17 08:48:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if u guys did read it (esp guys, although iono y guys would read it) ..is it really true? like, i'm talking abt what they said about guys..like;
-they need respect more than love,
-they act confident and maybe even cocky but are actually insecure,
-they look tough and indestructible but are actually tender and r easily hurt,
-they r visual

2007-10-17 08:46:42 · 2 answers · asked by ... 2 in Singles & Dating

When you're in great shape, smart, beautiful, a great mom, adventurous in bed, & your husband still moves around like you're part of the furniture, doesn't want sex except when he's in perfect health and not stressed (never), doesn't seem to want to spend time with you, is more your roommate than partner, is it fair to ask for more out of life? If he can't love me now, then when? Is it too much to ask for affection, or friendship?

For more than 10 years I've kept putting one foot in front of the other, without meaningful communication or connection. I've got lots of good years left, I have so much to give, but its hard to keep giving to someone who doesn't really care. Is it fair to kids to have them live in a house without love? Is it fair to me, to be asked to live without it? To be rebuffed when I want to talk about what's going on with us? Other than a complete and total lack of intimacy & communication, everything else is fine. But isn't it an essential component of marriage?

2007-10-17 08:44:45 · 23 answers · asked by mom23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is ugly, poor, has bad eyesight and posture? Are my chances of getting a girlfriend very good? My standard are not especially high: I like women that are: alive, in my general age range, and probably won't cheat on me, but if they were to, they would have their male friend use a condom?

So what are my chances and are my standards too high?

2007-10-17 08:42:28 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He had an affair 2 months ago, but yet he has said for a few years now he doesn"t like having sex. I am trying so many things to make this sex life spiced up but I can't get a romantic night out of him. We have been together for 6 years now and have 3 kids. I love sex but have to say he in not good at it at all. Shall we say 2 min man and never longer nor any forplay. What should I do? I'm trying really hard to make this marriage work after the affair but with this sex issue I'm finally facing it, I don't know if I want him any more. We have been trying a drug to make it last longer but come on it helps maybe for 1 min more.
Oh he is trying to make this work some what too, but I know there is better out there for me but I don't really know if I want to go find it.

2007-10-17 08:40:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I forgot to mention that my father shouts and screams a lot.He takes things so seriously.

2007-10-17 08:40:13 · 8 answers · asked by Lolaaaaa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I'm at the age where my peers left and right are getting engaged. One of my friends was completely single a month ago and going through hard times and suddenly she's in a new relationship and about to be engaged. A friend before that went away for the summer and came back to school engaged. What's going on people? Can it last? I'm just curious because you never know when you find that person. Can a speedy engagement work out?

2007-10-17 08:39:23 · 30 answers · asked by Story Unknown 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ask him this guy that I think likes me he said ya in an angry way and I told him, I like him too but we kind of have this communication problem..it was so awkward, I was the direct one..he seem piss at me and i ask him if can study together seem like he doesn't want to..then he ask for my # and I said..im changing my phone and he gave me his...but whats his problem , he sooo angry at me..should I call him?
i want to call him and ask him why..seem like he wants to avoid me..what should i do???? were just classmates should I call or not?..even though i said i did..but im so piss at him now..

2007-10-17 08:38:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

one in the hand ;or two in the bush .

2007-10-17 08:38:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,I am au pair in London.I arrived here last weekend.Now on saturday I start a new job.
I did not have sex but did some things with the house father who is 47, including him spanking me.Now another girl working in the home is calling me unpleasant names.
Why do some people get snooty and jealous?

2007-10-17 08:36:52 · 7 answers · asked by jilly 1 in Singles & Dating

See around when I was eight years old, I discovered that the man in my life was not my biological father, but merely just someone my mother had married. I want to know how I can find my biological father. His name is Robert Gardner. He lives in Memphis Tennesse. What do I need to do first in order to find out information about how I can find him. I know many of you will say that he is not going to want to want to be a part of my life. But I just have to see him or I know I will always wonder. Is there anyone who can help?

2007-10-17 08:35:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 08:34:50 · 4 answers · asked by snozzberries 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know where she lives and if I did do anything, I do not think she would know it is me. I want to do somethng good that'll damage her emotionally or financially, not physically. Her house is right next to a busy street so if I do anything to her house, it has to be at night and it has tobe something I can do quickly as not to be caught. She made me miserable and I want to pay her back. Please help!

2007-10-17 08:34:03 · 9 answers · asked by fuji2031 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married and then divorced, married and right now I'm going through another divorce. My man wants to get married but this will be my third marrege and I'm affraid that this one will end up the same way as the others. I don't want to be that old woman that was married 50 times in her life. I want to settle down and just be happy.

2007-10-17 08:31:55 · 19 answers · asked by jessicabranigin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, because the majority of children are from divorced parents today. Should we have a new model and what would it be like?

2007-10-17 08:30:06 · 6 answers · asked by Is that all there is? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Which ones get on your nerves the most? The moralists, the informed, the uninformed, or the idiots?

2007-10-17 08:26:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 08:26:19 · 11 answers · asked by Persepolis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There was this Special Girl worked for me at this business which is now going out of business. I used to be wild and OOC. I used to be with girls who I did not even know their name. I could do this without getting emotionally involved with the person. I change my life and ended up becoming this person who could no longer have sex without being emotionally involved. I am now married to a beautiful woman (a drop dead knock-out). Anyway I had great time working with this Special Girl. Before I knew it I had crush on this Girl. I could not disclose my true feelings to her because I was married and the vows I took, I intended to keep. My feelings for this girl became stronger and stronger. I am sure she pick up on the vibes and I could have been blue steel hot for her, if I allowed myself to go there. One night when we were at the business by ourselves, she said "My name" and then "let's just do it!" She probably thought I was weird because I pretended I didn't hear her. I am conflicted

2007-10-17 08:25:19 · 32 answers · asked by Chuck 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 08:24:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like I'm not doing my job. I'm ALWAYS first at it. What could be the problem?

2007-10-17 08:18:24 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 08:14:55 · 13 answers · asked by Persepolis 1 in Marriage & Divorce