I know where she lives and if I did do anything, I do not think she would know it is me. I want to do somethng good that'll damage her emotionally or financially, not physically. Her house is right next to a busy street so if I do anything to her house, it has to be at night and it has tobe something I can do quickly as not to be caught. She made me miserable and I want to pay her back. Please help!
2007-10-17 08:34:03 · 9 answers · asked by fuji2031 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unforgiveness is like poisoning yourself and expecting the other person to die. Revenge is something that defines you and lives in you.....you are not meant for that....it's like a sugar coated poison apple. Feels awesome for a second and then hurts you and eats at your soul....be a stand up man of good character....choose what is wiser and better and reap the benefits of that in your life.....people attract like people...if you change and make good decisions you will attract someone who will make good decisions too........you made the choice to date this cheater....whether you knew it or not....perhaps you know better now about the signs of bad character...know them....the signs....do not be them....
2007-10-17 08:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Reese 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting revenge is immature and a very bad way to handle your anger. Yes, her cheating on you hurt you, but that happens to all of us. Why don't you just say goodbye to the relationship, get beyond the hurt, and take some time off from relationships. You're not ready to have a relationship with any girl, if you need to get revenge when you feel hurt. You need to go to an anger management class. If you continue with your same "revenge" thinking, you are going to get yourself into big time trouble someday.
2007-10-17 15:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by ava 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sounds pretty harsh, not sure what to do. All I can say is "cabbage night" (the night before halloween) is a safe way to do some damage(i.e. toilet paper, eggs, no breaking windows or anything like that) and it looks like a random vandalism, and you would be a suspect.
But lil cutie makes a good point.
2007-10-17 15:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Gregory G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cool down. This girl is not your property and she is not married to you, there is no legal bond between you and her. Take your losses and go on with your life. As the saying goes there is more fish in the ocean. Do not do anything or you would be braking the law, you could get charged and that would mess up your future. It is not worth it. Don't be stupid be smart and let it go.
2007-10-17 15:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Chris B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably grow up, and realize that she did a really bad thing. Learn from it remove her from your life, and be more careful in the future as far as getting back at her.
My advice move on.
2007-10-17 15:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by Talon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and get on with your life. If you get caught, it will just cost you a bunch of money. Leave this woman alone and find yourself a real lady.
2007-10-17 15:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by RB 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't resort to such tactics. probably the best way to "get back at her" would be to act like it means nothing to you, that she means nothing to you. if you see her often, make it always look like you're having the time of your life without her. she'll want to be a part of that but then feel guilty for what she did to you and that should suffice for revenge from you
2007-10-17 15:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and become a responsible and caring adult.
2007-10-17 15:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by keezy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her the hell alone. you are the better person.....duhhhh,
2007-10-17 15:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by kayla9825 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋