I feel like I'm not doing my job. I'm ALWAYS first at it. What could be the problem?
2007-10-17 08:18:24 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is probably stress or something on his mind. It happened to me before when my girlfriend was talking about wanting a baby. I subconsciously did not want to because that was on my mind. But she enjoyed the stamina... but then she took it personally after too long.
2007-10-17 08:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by commloan 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
He died because he had heart disease and a serious enough blockage of an artery that a heart attack was inevitable. It is unfortunate that it happened in a way that makes you feel guilty, but it was inevitable. Would it have been better had it happened the next day while he mowed the yard, or a month later when he was moving the couch? At some point he was going to exert enough energy that he was going to have a heart attack....it just so happened that it was during sex in his case.
2016-05-23 04:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has it been going on? How old is he?
He might be a TAD bit bored maybe? Try to spice things up a little bit. How about a (sorry) BJ.
If he is a little older, it is something that men go through. Does he see this as a problem? Is he stressed out? Getting enough sleep? Something on his mind? If he is truly concerned with it, I would advice him to go see a doctor.
Talk about it together though and figure out what the problem is. Don't blame it on yourself hun
2007-10-17 08:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by sunnysideup 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on a few things, first dont think that he is bored with you 99.9% of the time thats not true. Are you having sex alot? if so, it does take a mans body time to produce semen so if you are having intercourse alot that could be the case. Try to wait at least 24 hours and see if he still has the problem. I thought I had the same problem but we waited 1 day and it was back to normal. Just remember it takes the human body time to recuperate.
2007-10-17 08:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by Rick and Tammy 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This happens to a lot of guys. There is so many jokes out there about "minutemen" and guys who go so quickly. This has help create a generation of guys who are so worried about going fast, that it sometimes keeps them from going at all during intercourse. I have myself trained to the point where I usually don't ejaculate during penetration because I'm always trying to hold out so my fiancee can get one more "O". I then wind up pulling out and finishing manually. Hope this helps.
2007-10-17 08:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Brian 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Stress, anxiety, the feeling of the need to satisfy you first producing an inability to climax. if he has not *** during vaginal sex and you have climaxed, bring him off with oral or your hand.
On the other hand (pad bun) it may be due to much of his own hand. No sex for a week and then see if the problem persists.
2007-10-17 08:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Luckly this is a great solution for premature ejaculation http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?gc3v
A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.
He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied
2017-02-16 19:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you aware that over 62% of the Men in America visualize another Women as they are having sex with their partner?
Your Husbands fault lies within guilt not you Miss. He has a hidden secret that he needs to address to you pronto.
2007-10-17 08:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
he needs to see a doctor there could be lots of reasons if its not a mental reason than its physical and should get medical help.....
I just re-read your Q its a little confusing....does he NOT AT ALL...or just after you.....if its not at all he needs to see a doctor...if its he waits for you to go first than whats the problem? he wants to make sure you have had your fun before he does....nothing wrong there
2007-10-17 08:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
First ur husband needs to see a specialist to see if he has a medical reason for not being able to ejaculate.........then if he is cleared from the physical reasons, maybe he should consult a spiritual reason........
2007-10-17 08:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by Piper of Oroville 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋