Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

Well, I've been dating this man for 2 months. We met on dating site searchingmillionaire.com, and when we started dating I told him that I just quit smoking and drinking. He told his mother this stuff, and now his mother doesn't believe that I quit. She is threatening to break us up.what can I do?

2007-10-17 01:09:07 · 17 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Singles & Dating

he just told you lies. he told you that he loves you eventhough he is still in love with his ex. what you will do to make him suffer the way you did??

2007-10-17 00:53:33 · 15 answers · asked by crazybadgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

they noted my car number down even though i didnt do anything. He hasnt done a honest days living in his life he is 21. Since he`s left school he`s been home sleeping all day.
I dont know what to do as they wrote my car number down, will they take my car im really scared.

2007-10-17 00:43:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 00:38:50 · 21 answers · asked by jeevan s 1 in Family

2007-10-17 00:37:14 · 28 answers · asked by shaha_007 1 in Friends

im at college and on the course im on theres a group of friends i want to hang bout with at dinner but i have made some friends on the course i have that i go out with at dinner, girls, but theres sum lads i want to go round with but how do i leave the ones im with at the minute.

like at dinner shall i just walk off with the lads or offer the girls to come with us, and if they dont want to come shall i just leave them? but them if they dont like that ive left them there that thing that i have to sit in lessons with them.

2007-10-17 00:36:53 · 2 answers · asked by sprout2006 2 in Friends

I am 17 year old female. like most teenagers im gaving problems with my family, but it is not the expected arguments and row. i get death threats from my dad because im with a black guy and have been with him for 2years. i get abused by my mum and dad, they tell me im a hoe, asking where i work because they think im a prostitute, according to them i come home late ( im home by 7pm). i go college im religious and i dont want to leave home but io feel like i have to because apart from all this im being pressured into marrying my mums cousin who is 30. ive been to the councel before but my parents told them that they wat me back home so i had to leave the hostle.
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2007-10-17 00:32:40 · 7 answers · asked by lilstar 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend that I recently told I have feelings for her, my problem it was only 1 month after she ended a 5+ year relationship. Maybe too soon but I didn't want to date her then, she needs time to get over her ex. I told her this. A couple weeks later she started treating me bad. Then she started treating me bad in front of people. Her ex and I are friends and everytime we go go out and she sees us enjoying ourselves she yells and curses at me. She told me she hates me and we are no longer friends. I feel I did nothing wrong and feel she doesn't mean this it's just out of anger. I haven't spoke with her in 4 days. She doesn't answer the phone when I call. What can I do to show her that I care and I'm not the bad guy here? I told her many times that I'm not the bad guy. I'm thinking if I quit hanging out with my friend, her ex that we would get along but her ex has been a much better friend to me. I'm confused I just want to be the bad guy.

2007-10-17 00:26:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The two babies is actually my 23 year old fiance and my 14 year old brother who is staying with me. I can get sometime so angry when their stuff lies all over the floor, when they play playstation all the time and hurts my cats. I used to yell at them when they did something wrong, but then every one was angry at me, now I just keep my mouth not saying anything to anyone. but sometimes they can get so nagging and annoying asking me what is wrong. When I tell them what is wrong then they get angry at me, hit the wall slam the doors and just handling everything with anger. I dont know what to do anymore. I am fed up with these two babies, just wish both of them could act their age. Should I start yelling at them agian or what should I do

2007-10-17 00:22:57 · 13 answers · asked by nadia d 2 in Family

I posted yesterday, but didn't realize the question would close if I picked a best answer.Oops. My husb. & I have been together since 1992. He was diagnosed bipolar in 2004 and had percocet & coke addiction. We separated & got back together in the end of '05. He has been hospitalized twice for suicidal ideations ('05 and '06). During his coke stint in '05, he also got close to a female coworker who he used it with. On 10/8, I found email in his yahoo acct to a girl and it mentioned $200 if she did coke. He denies writing the email and denies ever meeting the girl. I wrote to her & she said he paid her for a bj around 4/07(I was preg. then) of this year at a hotel in the area. He denies this, too. We have our 1st marriage counseling appt today. I REALLY would like the marriage to work and he says he does, too. I just don't know if he can change. Logic says I should leave.Love says try to work it out. I'm very upset and he STILL denies any affair EVER. He told me to prove he did it

2007-10-17 00:18:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Live out in the country, we had an aurgument last night as he was playing games on computer, me in the sitting room like a single mum with our 2mth old baby.. i lot it and just went to bed, got up this morning told him to stay away and he packed all his stuff and is now gone.... My question is, is it a mans world... why can he just feck off and if i just feck off im a horrible woman who left her kids and hes a wonderful single dad??????? Why am i still here??? Gawd, im having a bad day!!!!!!!

2007-10-17 00:17:52 · 14 answers · asked by tasha200 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm asking my friend if she wants us to 'see each other' as in be more than friends. She's on holiday though so I have to do it by email. Any tips on what to say? thankyou very much

2007-10-17 00:16:50 · 4 answers · asked by guillemots21a 1 in Friends

i've been seeing this guy for about 3 years but we only started getting serious 2 years ago, now he tells he has a 2 year old child an dthat he was scared of tellin me all this tym coz he thinks i was going to be angry at him. Now i am angry at him for not telling me the truth. i really dont know what to do. how am going to trust this guy after this? what other secretes is he keeping from me? We don't even stay in the same province i only c him 4 lyk 2 months in 12 months.

2007-10-17 00:16:47 · 11 answers · asked by wa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 00:14:28 · 9 answers · asked by Sven Roeder 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke her heart once when i chose my ex gf over her,but my ex gf knew that i liked her more and so did i and i regretted that,she doesnt know all this and this was about 6months ago

she currently thinks i like my ex gf
and tends to always tease me about it and always askes me if i still like her

2007-10-17 00:08:09 · 4 answers · asked by Jeremiah L 1 in Singles & Dating

so me and my GF have been together for a while now. i've been busy l8ly with school and other things and have less time with her. her friends go out alot and she just stays with me cooped up in a library useually asleep with a book on her face when i study. im not that smart, which is why a spend alot of time hitting the books nowadays. she cares for me, which is why she's always there by my side smileing. i love her more then ever, so i insisted one day that she went of with her friends to a party so she could have fun for the weekend. she's very sweet and modest and said she'd rather be with me (yeah right) so i sent her of anyways.

now im just worried. she headed off to a party of a good friend of mine. thing is, he invites the worst crowed with all the jerks at school and i just can't help thinking if somthing is going to happen to her. if im going to be at fault, am i a bad person for sending her there? will she cheat on me? do i deserve it? did i do the right thing?

2007-10-17 00:07:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 00:01:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family