im at college and on the course im on theres a group of friends i want to hang bout with at dinner but i have made some friends on the course i have that i go out with at dinner, girls, but theres sum lads i want to go round with but how do i leave the ones im with at the minute.
like at dinner shall i just walk off with the lads or offer the girls to come with us, and if they dont want to come shall i just leave them? but them if they dont like that ive left them there that thing that i have to sit in lessons with them.
2007-10-17 00:36:53 · 2 answers · asked by sprout2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why don't you just suggest that the two groups sit together for a while, have coffee together or something? Then they can decide if they'd like to join them or not, and you can tell the classroom group in advance that you like hanging out with from before, and that maybe they'd like to meet them. Keep it casual and friendly, so that the vibe is that there will be no hard feelings if they decide they don't want to.
2007-10-17 01:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey its not a major problem.
Why dont you be flexible? Speak to both parties and say 'hey there's a bunch of people I've got to know and why dont we arrange a night out for all of us' that way you know up front if they are ready for all of this or not. Also when you have to sit with these folks, it will be clear from the start that you socialise with more than one group and you will look like the 'social one' and be asked for nights out with both groups. Not a major problem is you ask me, just be flexible, be diplomatic with both groups and also have a great time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good lucK!
2007-10-17 01:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋