so me and my GF have been together for a while now. i've been busy l8ly with school and other things and have less time with her. her friends go out alot and she just stays with me cooped up in a library useually asleep with a book on her face when i study. im not that smart, which is why a spend alot of time hitting the books nowadays. she cares for me, which is why she's always there by my side smileing. i love her more then ever, so i insisted one day that she went of with her friends to a party so she could have fun for the weekend. she's very sweet and modest and said she'd rather be with me (yeah right) so i sent her of anyways.
now im just worried. she headed off to a party of a good friend of mine. thing is, he invites the worst crowed with all the jerks at school and i just can't help thinking if somthing is going to happen to her. if im going to be at fault, am i a bad person for sending her there? will she cheat on me? do i deserve it? did i do the right thing?
2007-10-17 00:07:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u remind me of my fella bit he panicks wen i go somewere without him. but honestly she will be fine if something does happen (im not saying it will) how can it be ur fault u wernt there??
u gave her a bit of freedom. relax u did the right thing xx
2007-10-17 00:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Pettle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u did the right thing ! even though she said she'd rather be with u she must still get bored cooped up in the library ! and it was really nice of u 2 tell her 2 go ! and i dont really think shes guin 2 cheat on u ! if she can sit in the library 4 u, a party full of jerks is not guin 2 make her love 4 u any less ! so u just concentrate on yr studies bt try 2 catch up with her as well...ask her hw was her day, did she like the party and stuff ! its ok !
2007-10-17 00:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a bad person for send her there. u just want her to relax and have fun. cheating or not cheating is depending on how much she love u, respect u, etc.... having lots of jerks at the party doesnt make her to go sleep with some guy. howevere, something friends(guys n girls) all got drink and drink and then they all drunk. that case things might be different. just cheerful, and clam. you dont know what going to happen, and have in ur mind that you the best and b.c of the she wont cheat on u. get ride off ur low self-esteam and insecurity whitin urself. you dint do nothing wrong, and you wont deserve it if she cheat on u which is most liklely wont happen from what i think. but lots of guy will try to hit on her, that for sure. just realax and clam. alright, good luck buddy.
2007-10-17 00:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably won't cheat on you.
you did the right thing, but in the wrong way.
parties are silly, she wants to spend time with you.
she's probably more bored at the party than she is with you.
if she cheats on you. forgive her 20 days later.
i don't think there's a chance of that happening though.
2007-10-17 00:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Epigeios 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control what she does or what happens to her so nothing is your fault. Have faith in your girl that she is sweet and modest and that she will behave herself!! In any relationship it is important to have outside interests, it gives you something to talk about when you next meet up again!!!!
2007-10-17 00:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by JOANNE C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves you, she will not cheat on you. This is a good way to find out how much she loves you.
2007-10-17 00:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what you did was very kind from my prespective... now will she cheat or anything idk because that depends on her personality and loyalness... but it sounds like she wont
2007-10-17 00:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋