Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

2007-10-17 04:30:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay this guy asked me out but i am moving half way across the world in one moth but i have been here for three years what should i do??

2007-10-17 04:27:58 · 17 answers · asked by Briana B 1 in Singles & Dating

I have bad gas issues. all day, every day. I have accidently let it out twice while sleeping when my boyfriend stayed over. Lately, i've been sooo afraid of having it slip that I do not let him sleep over. Last time after we made love, we rested a bit and I said baby, you have to go. he was like I HAVE to go? I made an excuse about getting up early. He didn' like it but left. I felt bad, but what can I do? I know flatulence is normal but that doesn't mean it's ok to break wind in front of people! any suggestions?

2007-10-17 04:27:51 · 13 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband of 20 years has been going to a strip club for a year already. I asked him to stop even said if u go again I'll leave u and he promise I'll stop but he's still going. The bad part is last year I caught him on the phone with a striper.I know cause I checked his phone bill. He was tolking to at lease 3 20 year old strippers. He's 46. He called them almost every day.
When I found out he said that he would stop talking to them. What do I do. He only goes 1 day of the week for at least 3-4 Hrs. He's home with me the rest of the day's. I's it cheating or just a man just relaxing and drinking beer with his buddy? Searious questions only please.

2007-10-17 04:27:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hate the way my body looks and I'm terrified that I will mess up. How am I supposed to move when I'm on top? I don't know what I'm doing... How do I get over my fear of being exposed like that? Help!!

2007-10-17 04:24:54 · 53 answers · asked by Dasher 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married next august. I would like to make my own centre pieces for the tables. Have you any ideas and if so how to make them and hopefully it won't cost us much money. I would either like to to do something with flowers or candels.

2007-10-17 04:24:43 · 21 answers · asked by Christina A 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years.. we have lived together 1 year. We are trying to conceive right now (no luck) When he introduces me to new people or in just plain conversation with someone who doesn't know us... he calls me his wife. he refers to me as his wife quite often.. but when it comes down to me and him he tells me he not ready for marriage and for me to be patient that he loves and takes care of me and my son that when he is ready to take that step he will.... yet we will leave the house and all of a sudden im am introduced as the wife again to friends, co-workers, family. what the h*ll does this mean?

2007-10-17 04:22:54 · 30 answers · asked by Marzgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

she says i was fighting with people, giving verbal abuse to her and throwing beer around. she says she was embarrased + disappointed. i have promsed her i wont get drunk again but i don't think she wants me back. how can i prove myself to her if she wont have me back? and do you think she is over-reacting?

2007-10-17 04:22:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im reposting since hardly anybody answered. why do guys take getting rejected so hard if they just want to get into your pants? and then try again, and then get mad and not even look at you? i was probably too nice and gave the wrong idea, so how do i let a guy down and not be mean at the same time? or would they rather we just ignore them completely?
im married, but guys still ask me out and when i turn them down they get mad(not all, just some) i hate to be mean to people, im a very sensitive person. so what should i do?
1) ignore them completely 2)still be nice to them, and say hi if they say hi to me? how should i treat them?

2007-10-17 04:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by HerR 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not against them developing a relationship although I am understandably nervous. The last time I spoke to his dad...he asked when I was going to get married so he could sign his rights away.
I have been out of touch with him for 7 yrs...gave up trying to call when they blocked my number...call screening-etc.
Have only heard from his wife....not him. This was common in the beginning as well.( No he wasn't married when Adam was born)
Wife wanted to know what school he goes to...I wouldn't say. Am I required to tell her?...They still won't say where exactly they live...and neither will I...but they haven't asked THAT? Just what school he goes to.. Is is legal for them to go pick him up at school and take him? I have seen many people try to get custody that way. I am very worried about how to proceed with letting them get to know each other while at the same time...protecting myself and my son from anything underhanded.

2007-10-17 04:17:24 · 16 answers · asked by Danielle H 2 in Family

My husband has full custody of his two children. His ex-wife owes him thousands of dollars in child support, medical expenses, and debts from their divorce. My husband thankfully paid off all of the debts recently ON HIS OWN without her help, despite her agreement in the decree to pay half. He still needs her to pay him back, however, but she refuses to do so. I suppose she thinks she doesn't have to because she hates him and thinks he'll spend it on something for himself instead of on the children or medical bills, which I think is totally immature, since my husband is the most responsible person I have ever met, UNLIKE HER. He spent five years paying off all the debts she left him (over $48,000), sacrificing everything for his two children, whom he loves unconditionally. It makes me sick the way she acts like she's the victim in this situation, even though she CREATED it and her children suffer because of it. Any suggestions how to handle this? My loved ones are hurting.

2007-10-17 04:15:33 · 16 answers · asked by Laughing_Chick 3 in Marriage & Divorce

will a straight man remember friend's (girls) birthday and deliver hand made cards to them?

2007-10-17 04:11:54 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A bit of a silly question - but, which would you rather be referred to as??

2007-10-17 04:09:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy asked me out but i feel weird going out with him cuz hes 5 inches shorter. i mean hes nice but i cant imagine never wearing my high heels with him and always wearing flats. i mean its a huge difference! i can undestand like 2 inches shorted but 5 or 6? thats too much! am i overreacting here???

2007-10-17 04:08:14 · 21 answers · asked by M 9 boobies 1 in Singles & Dating

So if you accept are you saying, yeah, I might sleep with you.... if not what are you saying if anything?

2007-10-17 04:07:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY SISTER HIT ME WHEN WE GET INO FIGHTS AND SHE THREATENS ME FOR DUMB STUFF LIK IF I GO INTO THE OFFICE WHEN SHE IS IN THEIR ETC.THAT NEVER BOTHERED ME BEFORE CUZ MY MOM AND DAD WOULD DEFEND ME BUT NOW MY DAD IS ON A BUSINESS TRIP AND MY MOMS ALWAYS WRKING I FEEL KINDA HELPLESS SHE ALWAYS WAS MEAN TO ME. I WAS ALWAY MEAN TO HER BUT SHE CROSSERD THE LINE WHEN SHE HIT ME AND I CROSSED THE LINE WHEN I BROKE HER COMPUTER. SO SHE HATES ME BUT SHE IS REALLY HURTING ME I FEEL SIK WHEN IM AROUND HER BECAUSE I WANT TO CUSS HER OT AND IF I DO ANYTHIN OR TALK TO HER SHE GOES RIGHT INTO MY FACE AND SAYS YOU WANNA FIGHT WHEN ALL IM TRYING TO DO IS DEFEND MYSELF. I AM MISSING THE BUS CUZ OF HER WE GO TO THE SAME HIGH SCHOOL. AND WHEN I GO INTO THE BATHROOM SE STARTS BANGING ON THE DOOR LIKE A LUNATIC AND THREATENS SHE'LL GO INTO MY ROOM AND GO IN FROM THE SIDE DOOR WHEN ALL IM TRYING TO DO IS GET READY SHOWER ETC. SO TO AVOID ISSUES I LET HER USE THE BATHROOM FIRST AND SHES IN THEIR 4 HOURS.

2007-10-17 04:06:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Does this mean he dosent love me any more? or does it mean I am not satsfining him or is he worried he is not pleasing me please help I am so confused

2007-10-17 04:04:10 · 34 answers · asked by chrissy k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

miles away. We started just as friends and we become closer. I'm staying 300 miles from him as well and we communicate through calls and emails. Last week I noticed that my bf was a bit distant and his phone was switched off at night and when I asked him,he just said, he just wanted to sleep early and I understood as he is a busy businessman.I also noticed that he doesnt pickup either and never returns my calls and even with that as well he had an explanation for that trying to convince me but knowing him very well I felt there was something going on.Yesterday I called again and he just asked me "if I do not pick up, what does that tell you". I was so stuck and I couldnt even know how to answer him and I just said I dont know and he should enlighten me and he said"i told you when we started I have a gf" and I couldnt believe my ears as I asked him before we started+he said he doesnt know whether he still has a gf as she's far and they are not communicating.Do u think I leave him alone

2007-10-17 04:02:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oh so have you ever found someone who is perfect for you in every way and you have so much fun together and you have your differences at the same time? well i found someone like that and i love hanging out with him and we have so much fun together and we work together also but things between us are so awsome and him compared to my ex he treats me like a queen its so awsome and ive known him for a couple of weeks and we dont even do anything sexually together and he we love just spending time together ok so heres where i need help what do i do he is 34 and im 18 my family would not be happy with me!!!!! then again think about what if you found "the one" and you got married and four years later you find out thier 10 yrs older or more would you give it up then?

2007-10-17 04:02:30 · 4 answers · asked by BrownEyEdbeautI 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 04:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by polanda w 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 04:01:13 · 9 answers · asked by Britany_2008 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 04:01:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Months after the guy who abused me, swore at me, cheated on me with his boss texted message my cell phone asking if I am around and he wants to say hello and see me. I did not reply yet but in this case what would you do? Reply or not reply at all? Or something else? What could he want?

2007-10-17 04:01:01 · 80 answers · asked by bubi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We recently married and I had never seen him drink while we were dating (he hid it well), we dated for a year. After we married he "came clean" with me about his alchoholism. So here it is.....20 years ago when he graduated college he got into some serious trouble with alchohol and had to choose between rehab or jail. Obviously he chose rehab and AA. Ok, so he never quit drinking he just drank more "socially" on the weekends and then about five years ago his wife is diagnosed with Breast cancer and he is drinking to deal with that. She passed (I know very sad) three years ago and up unitl our marriage (4months ago) he admitted he was drinking when the kids went to bed in his bedroom until he passed out and this was every night. Now we are married and I have noticed some drinking and I don't like it, my ex was an alchoholic and it was terrible. So I haven't seen any beer for months until last night when I found his whiskey above the stove? See he can hide it in his Pepsi.

2007-10-17 04:00:14 · 20 answers · asked by LilSunbeam 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well I am pregnant with my husbands brothers baby BUT i found out that my husband was cheating on me with another man soooo does it make it ok????

2007-10-17 04:00:11 · 21 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Or that we don't have insecurities and are not perfect?

2007-10-17 03:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering what peoples opinion is on this.. How young is too young to be married? And Why is that too young? How young is too young to have children and why?

2007-10-17 03:57:53 · 11 answers · asked by Special K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Our relationship has suffered. He hasn't work in 6 years as he is trying to get disability. I have become the main breadwinner. I also go to school full time. Because of all the meds he is on he has no sex drive or basically no feelings about anything. I have to intiate any affection if I want a hug or kiss. I love my husband and have suggested we need therapy because of how our relationship has changed but no response from him. I need suggestions I'm so lonely.

2007-10-17 03:55:33 · 4 answers · asked by Sassyred 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is in Iraq, usually we dont wrte we just talk on the phone, but I want to write him something special That will make his day wonderful... Only problem is that I have never been really good at writing a love letter...I can persuade someone in a letter to do just about anything, but when it comes to love, I'm no good at it. Can someone give me tips or direct me to a site for help or something? I can't put my feelings on paper so please don't just say to do that.

2007-10-17 03:55:08 · 13 answers · asked by Special K 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She smoked around me ever since I was very small, often in the car or at home without the windows open. I developed asthma and also was on medication for allergies. Thankfully, my breathing problems actually vanished after I moved out some years ago.

Now people are telling me she was a bad mom for having done that to me.

2007-10-17 03:53:16 · 17 answers · asked by Pie 3 in Family