ok im reposting since hardly anybody answered. why do guys take getting rejected so hard if they just want to get into your pants? and then try again, and then get mad and not even look at you? i was probably too nice and gave the wrong idea, so how do i let a guy down and not be mean at the same time? or would they rather we just ignore them completely?
im married, but guys still ask me out and when i turn them down they get mad(not all, just some) i hate to be mean to people, im a very sensitive person. so what should i do?
1) ignore them completely 2)still be nice to them, and say hi if they say hi to me? how should i treat them?
2007-10-17 04:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by HerR 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and why do they get so mad if they just want sex?
2007-10-17 04:20:08 · update #1
bikin: im not thinking im gods gift to men..gee...its just after they know i have somebody and they're still trying to puts moves on me they obvisouly dont respect me so what esle could they want besides sex? its just common sense
2007-10-17 10:37:38 · update #2
Ask her out.
What are you waiting for?
An invitation card?
2007-10-24 15:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, maybe they don't know you're married and are you absolutely sure all they want is sex? Do they actually come out and say so point blank or are you just reading between the lines? I'm sure attention from other men is a turn on, a real confidence builder and makes you feel like a precious commodity. If you're just assuming that's what they want, it's a little arrogant to think you're God's gift to men and no man can resist his desire for you. If so, you need a good dose of humility by some guy telling you that while you're attractive, he wouldn't jump your bones even if his life depended upon it.
Regardless of his motive, all you have to say is "No thanks, I love my husband." That's all you have to say, period. Then walk off, go on about your business or grab the nearest baby magazine and start reading. That says right there you're not interested in the least regardless of how much he persists.
2007-10-17 11:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by bikinkawboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married so you have no obligation to feel bad if they get angry with you. If you are getting upset about this and want to be nice to a guy that obviously cant respect a married woman, then you must have feelings for him.
Guys get upset cause they cant have something they want. They want to conquer what cant be conquered. Just ignore the guy or tell him that your flattered but married and your sorry that you gave him the wrong idea. You cant be friends with most men.
2007-10-17 11:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by solelone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat people as you'd want to be treated. Do you like being ignored? I don't know anyone who does.
Simply than the person for their interest, but decline their offer. "I appreciate your interest, but just don't share it. Thank you though"
If the rejected person chooses to get angry or hurt, that's their choice and you've no control over that. Be polite...as I would imagine you'd want someone to be toward you.
2007-10-17 11:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be polite about saying no, but say no! It is more cruel to lead somebody on, than to just let them know u are not interested
2007-10-17 11:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by greatgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur married u should just ignor them for completely....if sexs all they want let them get it from someone else!
2007-10-17 11:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Carol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should be extremely simple for you. Do not say no more than "I'm married" with a smile, and leave it at that.
2007-10-17 11:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by juventus0151 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say sorry, I'm married or not interested, some guys are immature and have very large ego's and very little self esteem. that's not your problem
2007-10-17 11:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by slickric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no, and do it nicely and politely.
2007-10-17 11:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by JustANiceGuyHere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋