a guy asked me out but i feel weird going out with him cuz hes 5 inches shorter. i mean hes nice but i cant imagine never wearing my high heels with him and always wearing flats. i mean its a huge difference! i can undestand like 2 inches shorted but 5 or 6? thats too much! am i overreacting here???
2007-10-17 04:08:14 · 21 answers · asked by M 9 boobies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would feel like a freak and it would always be on my mind that he is shorter than me. i mean you don't know this guy and you already feel awkward about going out with him. i say if its a huge deal for you now than its prob gonna be a huge deal later! its not a good idea if you don't feel right about it.
2007-10-17 06:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Firefly1234567891011121314151617 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I would feel the same way.I think alot depends how mature you are.I can tell because you are writing about it that you are still young and probably in your 20's or younger.If he is a really nice guy though just tell him you want to be friends.How long have you been dating?If it bothers you to be seen in public with him it will not last anyway so I say get rid of him now before he falls head over heels in love with you.
2007-10-17 04:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by kittykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably wouldn't date a guy shorter than me by 5 inches, but then I am not quite 5'1 so he would probably be a child or a midget. I think tall girls look fine with shorter guys though.
2007-10-17 04:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy that was 1 inch shorter than me. It was a little weird...it was hard to wear cute shoes with heels with him...
2007-10-17 04:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by curlz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JLo and Katie does..ok i mean Marc and Tom might not be 5 or 6 inches shorter but y'know what, i dont think they care.
why dont you ask HIM to wear boots maybe or shoes tht could increase his height..?
u can wear heels, but maybe just up to 2 inches or 3...
2007-10-17 04:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by anonymously-unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you......I've been tall person in my entire life, and I've never been attracted to shorter guys than me. It is not obviously about personality, just cannot see the shorter guys as "male". Just about chemistry kind of thing. No need to take it seriously, I guess.
2007-10-17 04:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is like 5 or 6 inches shorter than u i think it will be a little weird w8 let me rephrase that rlly weird but then like if u rlly like him then u dnt have to care
2007-10-17 04:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-12 22:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend and I are5'9" tall slim redheads--- in heels we are over 6'
we share a boyfriend, who is 5'4''
If he is confident in his manhood and you are confident height doesn't matter
(we do get some strange looks when we go out and comments" How did he get those two?" )
2007-10-17 04:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tall chick dating a short guy is going to make him feel so confident, he'll treat you like a queen.
2007-10-17 04:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by bikinkawboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋