Ok well I am pregnant with my husbands brothers baby BUT i found out that my husband was cheating on me with another man soooo does it make it ok????
2007-10-17 04:00:11 · 21 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WTF????
2007-10-17 04:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rein 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, I would definately go get checked for std's...well, they'll do that at your pregnancy appointments. Secondly, forget all the "Jerry Springer Drama!" You need to be focused on that inicent child that is on its way that will brought up in this world, most likely, father-less. You went and had a fling, to retaliate against your gay or bi- husband; and created a child in doing so, guess this makes you mommy and auntie...what the hell were you thinking? I hope you don't have any kids to your husband or your children will be cousins and sisters/brothers....thats crazy. It's not fare to the kid(s)!!! Who cares about you, your husband or the fling brother-in-law!!!!!!!!!!!! Y'all are all adults, you should switch your ? to what to to for this inocent child. I say you all need to seek out the Lord...adultry=negative, same sex intimacy=negative, revengeful behavior=negative.....call upon the Lord to help you with this....find a pastor quick, they may offer your words of wisdom from the spirit of the holy ghost. Good Luck and God Bless, I will pray for you all, but I most pray that child will be happy, healthy, and least effected from this, although, I doubt that may be possible....Shame on You!!
2007-10-17 12:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, First off, how do you know it's his bros baby? It could be his. Second, why would you even think that by cheating on him that you are even? No one is even, ever, when it comes to cheating. Just not right. Now look at the predicament that you are in. This child should be a thing made of love, not a getting even thing. Hopefully you will love this child regardless of who you end up with, even if you are alone taking care of it. A child is a precious thing no matter how it was conceived. Good luck to you in your life.
2007-10-17 11:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by me just me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man do I hear Banjo's playing.
No it does not make it right. You have both destroyed your marriage and now you brought an innocent victim into it that will grow up with the resentment of his uncle.
It will be best if move out of Deliverance, and look for someone not related to your child's fathers family. Start a new life for the sake of the child.
2007-10-17 11:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ranger 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GIRLLLLLLLLLLL!!!! THAT IS SOME NASTY ON HIS PART HE MAY HAVE BEEN GAY B4 HE MARRIED YOU!!!!!! & HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT HE IS NOT THE DAD? YOU NEED 2 SERIOUSLY GET CHECKED FOR AIDS !!!!!! AND NO THAT DOES NOT MAKE RIGHT , CAUSE 2 WRONGS NEVER EVER MADE A RIGHT!!!!!!!! YOU HAVE TO REALLY THINK ABOUT THE CHILD IN THIS CASE & THEN MOVE ON W/H THE FATHER OF THE BABY OR SIMPLY I THINK YOU NEED TO BE BY YOURSELF 2 FIND YOURSELF!!!!!!!
YOUR FRIEND,
K.G.
2007-10-17 14:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by katina g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it does NOT make it ok. 2 wrongs NEVER make a right.
You both need to be adults and accept the consequences of your actions.
There is NEVER any acceptable reason to cheat.
Hopefully you will have learned from this expirience and will grow up.
2007-10-17 11:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cheating is never ok, and that's your brother in law, so that's just sick and twisted to begin with.
Keep your legs closed.. works for alot of people.. you should try it. I have twine if you need it.
2007-10-17 11:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts Get Over It 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 wrongs never make a right. all you did was cheat on each other and give each other the reason not to trust each other. both of you should go your separate ways.
2007-10-17 11:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Am I watching an episode of Jerry Springer without realizing it?
2007-10-17 11:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by daisy322_98 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Im sorry Honey I didnt mean to cheat on you with that guy, please forgive me baby!
This is her husband by the way....
2007-10-19 22:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man. Good luck with that. You cannot be helped. You all deserve what you get.
2007-10-17 11:14:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋