miles away. We started just as friends and we become closer. I'm staying 300 miles from him as well and we communicate through calls and emails. Last week I noticed that my bf was a bit distant and his phone was switched off at night and when I asked him,he just said, he just wanted to sleep early and I understood as he is a busy businessman.I also noticed that he doesnt pickup either and never returns my calls and even with that as well he had an explanation for that trying to convince me but knowing him very well I felt there was something going on.Yesterday I called again and he just asked me "if I do not pick up, what does that tell you". I was so stuck and I couldnt even know how to answer him and I just said I dont know and he should enlighten me and he said"i told you when we started I have a gf" and I couldnt believe my ears as I asked him before we started+he said he doesnt know whether he still has a gf as she's far and they are not communicating.Do u think I leave him alone
2007-10-17 04:02:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just leave him.I'm sure he's dating that other gal.
2007-10-17 04:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, early on he told you his girlfriend is 400 miles away and you never thought "Hey, he already has a girlfriend!"??? Didn't you ever consider you were horning in on someone elses territory? And if he'd cheat on her, what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you?? You're 300 miles away, she's 400, I wonder how many other girlfriends there are???
True, I think he's a horse's butt, but admit it, he didn't hold anything back did he? Even if he didn't point blank say "Honey, all I want is a piece of butt when I'm in the area", all you had to do was put the pieces of the puzzle together. Write him off and accept the fact that you've just learned a very hard lesson because you were (fill in the blank) too trusting, too desperate, too foolish, too blind, too young and inexperienced.
2007-10-17 04:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by bikinkawboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunni leave him alone. Hes not worth your time. Find someone that is with you and only you. If he was upfront and honest about having a g/f you shudnt have even gotten involved bcuz in the long run it wud just hurt you. So move on from him and search for someone new
2007-10-17 04:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by mistress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me relationships are particular, it rather is why i've got not had to many. yet to narrate on your tale. final three hundred and sixty 5 days I had a good lady chum. she had all of it!. sooner or later all of it ended however. she gave me a word and it didnt say plenty, besides asserting she became into sorry and that she liked "different" human beings. It rather tore at me for the longest time. we stopped asserting hi interior the halls, and that i basically did no longer care approximately something. i became into depressed in the direction of alotta stuff. i became into stupid lower back then cuz now i be attentive to its no longer the top of the international. yet I nevertheless rather liked her on the time. I via no potential have been given the nerve to "attempt" to ask her out lower back. i became into to fearful of the respond. What if she suggested no? then i could have been much greater unhappy. So I basically enable it circulate. there have been different ladies, yet I nevertheless liked her and that i could nevertheless circulate out together with her lower back then. That became into final three hundred and sixty 5 days however. basically presently however I asked out yet another lady that has been catching my eye. She suggested confident and we've been going for 2 weeks!!. i'm over the different lady now, yet basically undergo in innovations that there are different men available. basically stay life. Nate feels like a great guy! follow him for now, yet to repair this situation I propose which you basically attempt to construct your previous relationship with Eric, the place you 2 have been basically pals, then shop going from there and you 2 may even get lower back mutually later on. for my area, i think of he nevertheless likes you if he stares at you with unhappy eyes....Its what I used to do
2016-10-09 10:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by huggard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave this guy alone. He's done with you. He either got back together with his girlfriend or moved on to someone else.
2007-10-17 04:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Monica O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dense?
You are obviously not very important to him if he's already dating someone else when he is dating you.
Take the hint and forget about him and find yourself someone who you are the ONLY girlfriend in his life.
2007-10-17 04:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Wicked Wanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah leave the jerk alone.
He doesn't need to talk to you that way anyway.
2007-10-17 04:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only have 2 things to say LEAVE HIM!
2007-10-17 04:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go he is a jerk dont let him be rude to you just dont call or email any more
2007-10-17 04:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys a serious douche
2007-10-17 04:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Stefani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋