Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

when i got married i promised to love and support my wife and homour her with my body . she promised the same...

now we are getting divorced, she still expects to be supported.

but she wont come up with the sex...

is this fair

2007-10-17 03:52:18 · 10 answers · asked by J-C-T J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How did you handle all the changes that they are showing? (Coming in when they want, disrespect the house, seems to have head where sun don't shine, no rules matter, and feelings of other household members don't matter, especially mom and dad)

What rules did you let them decide for themselves?
(She can decide when to come home, where she's going and with whom, to call or not to call out of courtesy)

How did you make them adjust to, "ok, you're 18, but u live under my roof rules"?

When ALL EFFORTS have failed, who did you go to for advise??

She's been a pretty good girl for her life, chose good boys for bf's, including the one she has now, and seemed to always have a pretty good head on her shoulders, UNTIL she became "legal adult".

What the heck happened here??
It was like an OVERNIGHT CHANGE!!

HELP, SHE'S DRIVING ME INSANE!!

2007-10-17 03:52:14 · 6 answers · asked by THEMrsMinLa&Momof2 6 in Family

I don't do this to my ex husband...for many reasons, mostly respect for our daughter and for him as her father. However I am certain if I did cause problems with his girlfriends or wife if he had one that I would be in huge trouble somehow and he wouldn't stand for it. What is it that my husband could do to back her off....she is always calling, controling, bashing and manipulating. She even picked fights with the three girlfriends he had before me...arguments in his house. I really need for this to stop before my head twists off....it is making me nuts.

2007-10-17 03:51:32 · 16 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies hat would you do if your boyfriend or husband (mostly want married women to answer this)?
I am not married it is happening to someone I care about very much (family member)

her husband cheated on her this whole summer and she separating and it gets worst she has three kids under 12. His girlfriend is actual therapist and been married three times (great therapist auh)

First of all as a sister what should I do and why? And do not judge our relationship we are very close

and what should she do she still love him obviously for not divorcing what up front and why?
some one else said I can report the therapist but my mom brung up a good point she will then rely on him and leave my sister and kids in the dust. However I want hurt them as much as they hurt my sister what should I do

If this therapist that he has been having an affair with was one he was seeing then this is cause to be reported as their is a law against therapists having any type of sexual relationship

2007-10-17 03:51:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-17 03:51:15 · 16 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a girl friend that I love but she takes me away from all my friend and hate when she does that but yet she could be with her friends and I cant I dont know Ilove her but she's just to bossy!!!!!!

2007-10-17 03:50:19 · 7 answers · asked by blue 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents died when i was three and my aunt, (my moms sister) was 23. She was my only living relative, and gained custody of me. we love each other, i even call her mom now. but lately, we have drifted apart. (i am nearly 15 now ahe is 35) i used to tell her everything. yesterday tho, i disappointed her more than i ever thought possible. she found out that i was sleeping with my boyfriend in our apartment when i was supposed to be at school. we (bf and i) have only done this once, the other times we did it, were at his house when his mom was at work. my aunt told me that she has lost all trust in me, bc i told her a few weeks ago that i was still a virgin and that she didnt have to worry. i told her that i didnt think that it was that big a deal and she just looked at me like i was stupid. i may only be 14 but i dont think that im stupid. now tho, she says that she cant trust me, and that i cant use the phone, my cell, watch tv, or go out with any of my friends.

2007-10-17 03:50:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

can some you ladies(men too) give me recipes?

2007-10-17 03:49:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 03:48:39 · 10 answers · asked by Fel Fel 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i broke up about 3 months ago..I did have my goodbyes with his son (very sad) but i had to break it off with his dad since he was incapable of telling the truth...I guess he was a pathological liar...
Anyway, i havent seen or heard from him or his son (which is probably for the best) I guess im feeling the guilt (which i shouldnt) but its that stage of the healing process where i am feeling guilty thinking i abondoned my ex and his son.....Has anyone ever experienced this before?

2007-10-17 03:47:41 · 4 answers · asked by kakeydec 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm so down lately... especially today... my friends reminded me of our plans and normally i would go even if i was so sad... 'cos iknow they can cheer me up... but now.. i just sais no..and made a bunch of excuses (which are partly true)

so can anyone make my day/ night...



thanks!

appreciate it...

2007-10-17 03:47:40 · 7 answers · asked by crestfallen 5 in Friends

Okay, about how much cheaper are sapphires compared to diamonds? I know it depends on the 4 C's and all that stuff, but just give me a rough estimate. I am thinking of having my wedding band blue sapphires instead of diamonds. My engagement ring is small and I feel as if a diamond wedding band will take away from it. And I don't want a plain band. Not to mention we are on more of a budget and sapphires are cheaper, I just don't know how much cheaper.

2007-10-17 03:47:13 · 22 answers · asked by Julie D 4 in Weddings

I think so! £50m for a short marriage is taking the P in anyones book!

2007-10-17 03:44:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ever since I started working 5 days a week our house is a mess, garbage is piling up, laundry is lost, food isn't prepared . etc...
Im lucky because our family can survive on my husbands income, but I feel guilty being a stay at home mom. Our child is preteen so its not a child care issue. It would be so nice to get this house back in order again.

2007-10-17 03:43:02 · 10 answers · asked by mullinon 3 in Family

I don't know why I keep searching for more proof, but I do. I was advised he got a hotel room with a woman sometime around this past April. I know the hotel, but also know he would have paid cash. It's not likely the hotel would give me that information, since I'm not him, but I'm wondering if anyone has any ideas? Or....do any of you know anyone who works for Red Roof Inn who would be able to tell me?

2007-10-17 03:42:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is love REALLY blind, i.e. we cannot help whom we fall in love with ? Or, can we CHOOSE whom we want to fall in love with ?

Is love a sub-conscious or a conscious decision ?

Thoughts and comments ?

2007-10-17 03:40:44 · 14 answers · asked by JustANiceGuyHere 4 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl a lot and im a cancer, but she is a leo. we are dating and it seems she is the one. who here has a successful LEO and CANCER marriage?
and who believes that the compatibility with different horoscopes makes a true telling of who you should choose?
thanks...
take care and god bless

2007-10-17 03:36:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this problem with my gf...we have been best friends for 8 years before that and started dating and it has been the most happy thing until recently...but i dont know what happened and she started doing bad things...for example when we go out with her friends she humiliates me in front of them by saying how hairy I am -"i could knit a sweatshirt from his hair", or how I listen to her every wish "if i want him to be a chair for me, he is going be to be one..." It feels terrible...in the beginning i could swallow it, but recently it started to depress me, and in these meetings i started not saying a word the whole time. In private she criticized me a few times and there was a physical fight, and you I couldnt dare fighting properly and she beat me down with her sandal. And of course I had marks on my face, and next time we met accidentally two friends of her and they asked me what these marks are, she just pointed down to her sandals...What makes her do all this???

2007-10-17 03:35:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know they just say that cause they want the man to cook thereby reversing roles. Still, seriously, women by nature can't really cook. All of the best chefs in the world are men. There are a few women thrown in there, but men really cook better. When a women says to me "I don't cook" I am so thankful since I like to be in charge of what we get at the store and cook, and she can just sit there and look pretty. SO why do women think they are asserting some kinda of authority when they spew " I don't cook" I mean, we never really thought you could honey.

2007-10-17 03:32:54 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes or No why or why not?

2007-10-17 03:32:09 · 25 answers · asked by Kissable 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 days. he dosn't talk to me, only when i call him. and yet he feels horny! is this possible

2007-10-17 03:27:28 · 6 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy and i are seeing each other. although he's very nice, he's so shy. i have to ask him questions or make jokes to get the conversation going.

i know he's really outgoing and funny--his friends and his family said so. why is he acting so differently with me than with his family and friends? am i doing something wrong? how do i make him more comfortable with me?

2007-10-17 03:26:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked back out two of my ex girlfriends but they both said thet moved on so a few weeks later one wrote me a letter saying she misses me and one called me the same day and told me she wants me back. PLEASE help I love these girls so much i just dont which one to choose!!!!!

2007-10-17 03:24:28 · 13 answers · asked by blue 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think it is wrong to set a deadline for the two of you to marry? I know after one or two years an ultimatum is bad, but after 10 years, is it fair?

2007-10-17 03:20:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I broke my ankle 2 weeks ago and it has just been a disaster. I stayed home for like a week from school and am failing all my classes. I am so worried I'm not going to pass this year. Also today I am at home and I had to here my mom yelling at me all morning that "I can't be like a grown up" and "maybe I'll just let you go live with your dad". My dad verbally and emotionally abuses me and I would rather be dead than live with him. I'm just really scared, hurt and in a lot of pain. And I have this boot thing on my leg and yesterday people at Officemax were laughing at me which hurts me too. I won't be able to vacation this summer, even if I do pass the 10th grade. I feel like giving up on life. Can you help me feel better please? thnak you

2007-10-17 03:16:33 · 17 answers · asked by tomdawg ツ 4 in Family

By go out, I do not mean make my girlfirend, I mean go out and hang out with and see what happens.

Also I met her at a bar in centre city Philly

2007-10-17 03:10:15 · 22 answers · asked by BirdsFanBaby 2 in Singles & Dating

First he left her for me, He has a phone but she does not have his number. I just found out that every chance that he gets away from me he calls her on his best friend phone. I dont believe he goes to see her because he is always with me. He calls her form his moms house. She was in the hospital this past weekend he went to go see her he even spent the night with her friday night. We have sex all the time so it couldn't be sex. Does he still care about her because if you left her you still shouldn't be calling her? Men does he still care for her should I call her?

2007-10-17 03:09:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-17 03:08:56 · 12 answers · asked by Goku 1 in Family

Hi:
I want to know the precedure for seemantham to be performed in the US. What are the steps to be followed to conduct
seemantham and valaikappu? and kindly tell me the materials needed.
savithri

2007-10-17 03:08:23 · 4 answers · asked by savithri_gopalan 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating this guy for a while and he is the sweetest thing ever and I love him so much...! his mom won't ever let him come over to my house !!! He's 19 I think he should be able to make his own choices! He has his own job and pays for everything of his I think he should get to make the choice whether or not he wants to come over to my house! but she is getting in between our relationship! and I don't want her to effect our relationship! What should I do?

2007-10-17 03:03:05 · 18 answers · asked by lil_ms_attitude122 2 in Other - Family & Relationships