my ex and i broke up about 3 months ago..I did have my goodbyes with his son (very sad) but i had to break it off with his dad since he was incapable of telling the truth...I guess he was a pathological liar...
Anyway, i havent seen or heard from him or his son (which is probably for the best) I guess im feeling the guilt (which i shouldnt) but its that stage of the healing process where i am feeling guilty thinking i abondoned my ex and his son.....Has anyone ever experienced this before?
2007-10-17 03:47:41 · 4 answers · asked by kakeydec 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just keep going the guilt will get easier to handle
2007-10-17 03:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you're talking about. It wasn't with an ex's child but with his sister.
I dated a guy for 3 years. His dad was always out traveling and his mom had some psych problems and was in and out of facilities. His sister was much younger than me and I kind of took on the role of mother/big sister.
I knew our relationship was over for about 6 months before I broke up with him- I only stuck around because I felt like I was abandoning his sister.
2007-10-17 12:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi....
somtimes relationships don't work out and we do feel as if we abandoned people which were involved (such as your ex's son).
it's not your fault. you broke up for a reason, and it was well-founded.
i dated a man who could not tell the truth to save his life, either. it wasn't pleasant, and i couldn't believe anything he said.
what you did was best for you. living with a liar isn't fun.
2007-10-17 10:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would do the son more of a disservice by re-entering his life. He will see you and his dad getting back together. You should all move on.
2007-10-17 10:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by Beau R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋