By go out, I do not mean make my girlfirend, I mean go out and hang out with and see what happens.
Also I met her at a bar in centre city Philly
2007-10-17 03:10:15 · 22 answers · asked by BirdsFanBaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm getting a lot of comments on the maturity level. Here is the deal, I met her and we talked and had a great time. i would have never guessed she was 18. i actually didn't find out until we talked on the phone for a second time. As for what stages we are in life, I am having problems dating girls my age b/c they all want a husband. Hope that helps! Thanks for all the great responces.
2007-10-18 01:26:55 · update #1
Nope I think this is fine. You will be very different though and sooner or later her immaturity will show.
2007-10-17 03:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a little creepy and I can't see what the two of you would have in common. It's not the age difference it's how young she is. 18 yr olds still have the mentality of a high school girl. The maturity gap is enormous!! I'm 25 and am having a hard time thinking about dating a 21 yr old because of the maturity gap.
2007-10-17 03:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by lild304 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its fine but you might get sick of the gap in your maturity levels. However I know an 18 year old and a 30 year old that are making plans for marriage.
2007-10-17 03:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Foo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummmmm. as long as they are legal it shouldn't matter, but just think of it this way....what were you doing when you were 9 years old? AJust think......SHE WAS JUST BORN THAT YEAR. LMAO!!!! Good luck wish you the best with such a young girl. It probably won't last anyways because she is just growing up and getting a taste of freedom. Wait until she has experienced life or she will end up giving you that excuse when she dumps you.
2007-10-17 03:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem with the age difference so much as the difference in your stages of life - late twenties and late teens are two very different developmental stages in a person's life. I don't think it would work out.
2007-10-17 03:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ тнє σяιgιиαℓ gιяℓfяι∂αу ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not wrong. she's of legal age, but most 18 year old girls are very immature. the age gap will be difficult to bridge. remember, there's more to a relationship than physical attraction. brains do play in important part, so just make sure that she's your equal in that department.
2007-10-17 03:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find the age difference a bit awkward,take two girls out and be a baby.
2007-10-17 03:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I am 42 and have a 23 yr old BF
2007-10-17 03:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Chip L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a Mom of a 19 year old. I am not crazy about it but I don't think there is really anything wrong with it.
2007-10-17 03:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by sheilakel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not wrong, but a bit weird. Besides, you met her in a bar. Go find someone who can LEGALLY drink!
Good Luck.
2007-10-17 03:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by idahostudios 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you're at that age, it doesn't matter anymore. You two are obviously both legal so there shouldn't be a problem. As long as you both can be happy with each other, then great:) Good luck.
2007-10-17 03:14:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋