I asked back out two of my ex girlfriends but they both said thet moved on so a few weeks later one wrote me a letter saying she misses me and one called me the same day and told me she wants me back. PLEASE help I love these girls so much i just dont which one to choose!!!!!
2007-10-17 03:24:28 · 13 answers · asked by blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure you don't love both these girls. There's a real fine line between loving a girl and caring about a girl. Obviously you're too young to tell the difference but that will only come with more experience.
And about getting back with them, if it didn't work the first time it's not going to work the second or third. Move on, don't waste your time.
2007-10-17 03:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can truely love more than one person at a time. If you love someone, then you've given your heart & soul to them and they're the only person that can make you truely happy and confident. I can understand your frustrations though, of having two people in your life that you care about and are attracted to. You need to take some time to see how you feel about each of them and how you physically feel around each girl. (Kind of a pros/cons list) And why can't you be single & go on separate dates? You don't need to plunge into a serious relationship if you're undetermined. Ask them each out on a date or two and see how you connect in a more casual setting. Good luck!
2007-10-17 03:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by lar_bob8604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To quote a Disney movie: "This will only end in tears"
Short term, you can possibly pull it off and have both.
Long term: If they find out, you'll break the trust of both and probably lose them both permanently and gain a label as a two timer.
If they don't find out, let me know how you manage to walk them both down the aisle and avoid that whole polygamy thing.
Either some mutual friends will peace it together or some "friend" you have will develop a conscience and rat you out.
Choose one and run with it.
2007-10-17 03:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Hawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love? Yeah sure...you mean you lust after both of them. Son, that's nothing more than hormones making you think crazy. Date both just for fun but be aware that you can't truely be in love with two women at the same time. When you do truely love a woman, then you'll know the difference between love and lust.
2007-10-17 03:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by bikinkawboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who called back a few weeks later just got over her problem with the last guy. The same day caller has been thinking about you like you were her. What do you think?
2007-10-17 03:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by mrydet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off smack yourself. Choose which one would make you happier to be with. Girls aren't multiple choice. Let me teach you something. There is a reason why they carry the title "EX" to you. To get back with either of them depending on why you guys broke up in the beginning would be stupid. If you really cannot move on, and must be with one of them, refer to what I said up top.
2007-10-17 03:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by juventus0151 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither. they're your exes for a reason. People have a tendance to block out the bad memories of past relationships, because we all want to beleive in the fairy tale. I think you should let sleeping dogs Lie and move on
2007-10-17 03:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be in love with 2 people at the same time, It is just not possible! Seems more like lust to me!
2007-10-17 04:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not bad trouble to have. They will figure out which one of them you will get. Tell both of them about each other, and tell them you don't know which one to choose from. You will reap the rewards of two females competing to get you.
2007-10-17 03:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by True 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 2 girls may know about the other and they may be trying to set you up.Wait awhile to respond and decide which 1 you really want.
2007-10-17 03:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋