Ladies hat would you do if your boyfriend or husband (mostly want married women to answer this)?
I am not married it is happening to someone I care about very much (family member)
her husband cheated on her this whole summer and she separating and it gets worst she has three kids under 12. His girlfriend is actual therapist and been married three times (great therapist auh)
First of all as a sister what should I do and why? And do not judge our relationship we are very close
and what should she do she still love him obviously for not divorcing what up front and why?
some one else said I can report the therapist but my mom brung up a good point she will then rely on him and leave my sister and kids in the dust. However I want hurt them as much as they hurt my sister what should I do
If this therapist that he has been having an affair with was one he was seeing then this is cause to be reported as their is a law against therapists having any type of sexual relationship
2007-10-17 03:51:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
by the way my brother in law was not a client but is it still binding?
2007-10-17 04:14:05 · update #1
omas i am republican and don't hate either. but he cheated
2007-10-17 04:38:20 · update #2
ouch sorry omas
2007-10-17 06:20:38 · update #3
don't hate me for this answer;there are 2 sides to the story;you've heard and seen your sisters side.Obvious thing to point out is that "happy" and normally faithful spouses don't cheat unless there is some underlying problem.
Next,if anyone could,the therapist knew how to get into his mind and play upon his weakness to her benefit.While he was not a patient,she was a mental health care provider who used her skills and training in an inappropriate manner,report her.
And the solution is? Your sister has 3 kids and many years invested in her husband.IF he is truly sorry,ask her to forgive BUT NOT FORGET his transgression and seek joint counseling to learn how to accept this betrayal of trust and hopefully move forward with their relationship.
Added:
Sweetheart I agree,nothing is lower than a cheater,except my Ex,who cheated and tried to poison me 3 times.Hard not to hate her but I try.
2007-10-17 04:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this significantly sucks. I am sorry you misplaced your babysitter, it's rough to discover one who you're particularly comfy with. I might use your mother's co employee for now till matters get settled down. If it offers you a peace of brain, the babysitter i exploit isn't certified, or first support licensed however had like 7 youngsters and 19 grandbabies so i believe that she is aware of what she is doing. She additionally has her grand daughter who's approximately 20 or 21 come over and support out. I love having him there and he's the one one on the condo so he will get all of the awareness. But as for social offerings, i do not know the way fortunate you are going to be with getting understanding out of them approximately the predicament. They won't particularly be inclined to unlock plenty of information approximately why she used to be closed till there's a court docket listening to and a extra forged determination is made along side a research. An preliminary research needed to be made earlier than remaining down her daycare, in order that they ought to have observed what the kids or dad and mom are pronouncing to be rather real with a view to near down a daycare certainly considering that they oversee plenty of day cares. might be that they had suspicion. But with a bit of luck they're doing this as a precaution and all shall be exceptional. I am pleased that they made one of these fast court docket date so hopfully it is going to all be resolved. If you believe comfy adequate, i might name you sitter and as her the rationale that DSS gave to near her down. I might sound sympathetic, and worried no longer competitive and blaming. Maybe she shall be inclined to let you know when you consider that it sounds as even though you could have a well dating. Good good fortune. It shall be to dangerous if she closes however might be a few unhappy person con-ed their kids to make fake accusations to check out and get cash, which is simply horrable and fallacious in all approaches. Until then i'm certain you little sweetie shall be adored to loss of life at her new sitters condo.
2016-09-05 12:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by shannonhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your last statement. If he was seeing her as a therapist, you have an ethics violation and she could lose her license.
2007-10-17 04:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋