I have a girl friend that I love but she takes me away from all my friend and hate when she does that but yet she could be with her friends and I cant I dont know Ilove her but she's just to bossy!!!!!!
2007-10-17 03:50:19 · 7 answers · asked by blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry buddy, but that's the way most women are --consolidate and defend the territory....
2007-10-17 03:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not fair for you not to be able to hang out with your friends but okay for her. Every relationship should be equal on both people and you and her both need time for yourselves away from the relationship. That is what makes it stronger. If these are friends you have had far before she came along then you just need to start putting your foot down. That is not fair to you and she is trying to control you.
Friends are a lifetime and men and women come and go so don't stop hanging out with your friends because she says she doesn't want you to and do not stop talking to them either.
2007-10-17 10:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by spleefarella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bossy and selfish is not a good thing in a relationship. I would suggerst talking to her about these things. She should have respect for you and give you equal freedom to be with your friends. You will not be happy in the long run with her acting this way.
Good luck with whatever decision you make.
2007-10-17 11:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the many reasons why feminism is overrated. Girls want all the goods for themselves, but guys aren't allowed to get what they want, as long as you're together. Only sex. Sex is your "gift" but your friends are clearly expendable in the face of getting off. Ideally, you should both have your own friends, hang out with them on your own, separately, and sometimes, as a couple. BOTH WAYS. If the girl is crazy dump her (most of them really are crazy!).
2007-10-17 10:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by runnerguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love her so much then maybe you can talk to her and she can try to change a little bit for you...tell her that you want to be able to go out with your friends without it being a problem for her considering she goes out with hers.. but then again sometimes girls like that end up being the ones you cant trust.. they make it seem like they are so perfect for you but what they are really doing is going out flirting with a bunch of dudes while your sitting home doing nothing.. choose your women wisely... they are very deceiving.
2007-10-17 10:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a selfish girlfriend. If you're willing to give up all your friends, then keep her. If not, then let her go. If she really loves you, why won't she let you have a good time with your friends ? Think about it.
2007-10-17 10:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by JustANiceGuyHere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 2 questions you must ask yourself 1. do you love her? and 2. does she love you? if the answer to both is yes then stay, no problem is too big when love is concerned, just try talking to her about it. if the answer to even one is no then move on.
2007-10-17 10:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋