oh so have you ever found someone who is perfect for you in every way and you have so much fun together and you have your differences at the same time? well i found someone like that and i love hanging out with him and we have so much fun together and we work together also but things between us are so awsome and him compared to my ex he treats me like a queen its so awsome and ive known him for a couple of weeks and we dont even do anything sexually together and he we love just spending time together ok so heres where i need help what do i do he is 34 and im 18 my family would not be happy with me!!!!! then again think about what if you found "the one" and you got married and four years later you find out thier 10 yrs older or more would you give it up then?
2007-10-17 04:02:30 · 4 answers · asked by BrownEyEdbeautI 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me that borders on child molestation.
2007-10-17 04:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by bikinkawboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun with him, there's a lot you can learn from an older man, but don't even think about a long term relationship or marraige. People change a lot, they keep growing emotionally and intellectually between the ages of 18 and 30. Don't plan to settle down with anyone until you're at least in your late 20s.
2007-10-17 11:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dendronbat Crocoduck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know someone who just got married and her husband was 21yrs older than her. My caution is your age for any marriage. If he is the one he will continue to be so in a few years. Get some education...career...grow in who you are first. I speak as someone who married at 18...trust me...grow in who you are first, if he is all you say, and he will be there to support you.
2007-10-21 11:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's almost 40 and you are still a kid. He is going to die while you are in your 50 and you will be left alone and have to start your life all over.
2007-10-17 11:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by Stefani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋