i've been seeing this guy for about 3 years but we only started getting serious 2 years ago, now he tells he has a 2 year old child an dthat he was scared of tellin me all this tym coz he thinks i was going to be angry at him. Now i am angry at him for not telling me the truth. i really dont know what to do. how am going to trust this guy after this? what other secretes is he keeping from me? We don't even stay in the same province i only c him 4 lyk 2 months in 12 months.
2007-10-17 00:16:47 · 11 answers · asked by wa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GET AWAY FROM HIM!!
2007-10-17 00:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love and friendship should be unconditional and all relationships requires sacrifice and compromise .... like you say you only meet a couple of times a year . So it sounds more like friendship than a serious relationship ! We all make mistakes and sometimes we don't always open up with someone about the intricate mysteries of our life until we trust them and feel it is worth it . This guy has opened up to you respect him for that at least . Trust ... ! will come in time when you both know what you want from each other . If you feel angry with him for spilling the beans so to speak he won't be able to confide in you again and will hold secrets to avoid upsetting you ...so how you handle it is very important to him too . ..and for the outcome of your relationship !
2007-10-17 00:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Peanuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wa
what icant under stand is all this time you have been seeing him how come not one time have you ever seen this child ok 3 years now wow in now he is telling you about this kid he has maybe just maybe he is married to what you need to do behind his back is get his full name in bithdate in where he come from do a back ground check on him go to the nearest police station in check it out cause there are alot of guys out here in the world that will lie out of there teeth to have sex with you in live a double life be married in have 2 children in a good job in be cheating on his own wife just to lie to you about not being married at all are even having children it is wierd that all of the sudden he has a daughter in the picture that is just plain nuts just do the back ground check on him in the cops will give you the correct address where he lives
2007-10-17 00:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U seem to like him but worried about his kid. Get to know all about the kid and how he got it, if he opens up to the truth, trust him but I doubt coz he was not transparent at first. Just make your mature decision if u can shoulder him the way he is or ditch him if u have better alternative.
2007-10-17 00:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by nelwes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the bum
how many MORE kids does he have?
do you eally need the baggage of a kid that isn't yours? What about the kids mom? you ready to deal with that.
Get a dog and teach it to bite they guy in the nuggets. tell him good bye, once and for all, and move on.
GO ROCKIES!
2007-10-17 00:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is better to forget untrustworthy friends like a bad dream.
2007-10-17 00:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you need to take a break from him, until you decide what you want to do.
2007-10-17 00:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by bambi10 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on man.. he is married man.. give it up. u will run in to lot of trouble.
2007-10-17 00:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kaushal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well than he cheated. get out of it know
2007-10-17 00:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by sissy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how else has he been with you cant trust him
2007-10-17 00:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋