My husband been in jail for 2 years 1/2 hes almost out in like 2 weeks..but i cheated on him with 5 different guys so i was doubting my love for my husband..but i feel so guilty when i go see my husband so i dont if i should tell him or no??But im afraid to loose him if i tell him the truth...What should i do???
2007-10-17 07:49:07 · 27 answers · asked by mz_virgo_818@att.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He already knows, sweetie.
2007-10-17 07:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
He SHOULD dump you. Although he's been in jail YOU have been a whore. What happens if you don't tell him the truth and you contracted an STD or HIV or HPV from one of those guys you phucked around with? He will THEN find out the truth and because you didn't TELL him to begin with he CAN sue you for putting HIM in danger by contracting them from YOU. You should have thought about how "afraid" you were to lose him BEFORE you decided to be a whore.
2007-10-17 10:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
After messing with 5 different men while he was locked up, I think that even you are aware that you deserve to lose him. The facts of your life are that you don't hold enough love for him to keep your cloths on when he is gone. So why should he stay? I personally vote for telling him everything and taking your lumps in this case. I mean its better than him finding out on his own isnt it? Believe me, If in fact you HAVE messed with 5 different guys..... He IS going to find out sooner or later. Then what will you do? Lie? Even though he was locked up, you owe him more than that.
2007-10-17 08:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Verbal abuse often escalates to actual abuse...throwing a distant could be a preview of issues to return. Do i think of calling the police over a distant is physically powerful? nicely, according to danger, reckoning on how hectic you felt yet i could have quicker basically left him.
2016-10-09 10:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear me! 5 different guys??
What was that for? Sex? or comfort? what?
I think that if it's really making you feel that bad, it's better tell him straight away and get it done with, so that you know whether to start afresh, or if you two can put the past behind you, and start afresh together.
He can't be an angel himself, otherwise he wouldn't have been put in prison for so long.
So, basically, you both need a clean slate, the question is whether you want to part or stick together and do something good together, that's the way, I'd present it to him.
Good luck.
2007-10-17 07:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
You are afraid you will lose him because he has been in jail and you have been cheating on him left and right. You just want your cake and eat it too. Do you think it is right to led your husband on like this??? You need to come clean, divorce the poor guy.
P.S. you don't "love" your husband. If you did, you would not be spreding yourself around
2007-10-17 07:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
honestley honey...u've cheated on him, hes probibly cheated on u....he might be playing on the other fence because he hasnt had any in a very long time. Its really sad to think of your husband in that light, but think its also hard for him to think of you in that light also. You need to be honest with him and you both need to be tested f0r all std's.See and what you also need to realize is that if you were woman enough to sleep with s0me0ne else n0t once not twice noth three times but five tiimes, you are woman enough to face all consequences
2007-10-17 08:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you are feeling that guilty then don't tell him, why make him feel bad too. Just make yourself a personal promise to be faithful now that he is out.
If he asks you if you were faithful to him then tell him that he is the only man you have ever loved.
Good luck to you.
2007-10-17 08:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by mn lady 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Does marriage vows mean nothing to you? It's bad enough you couldn't wait two years for a man that you are supposed to be committed to, but 5 different men????
Tell him and then deal with it -
2007-10-17 08:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well I could MABEY see if it happend once but 5 times is unforgivable. If you really loved him you would have waited for him. You should be guilty, I would let him know what happened & pray to god that he forgives you!
Good Luck, but in my opinion he should leave you when he gets out! Sorry but thats what I think about it!
2007-10-17 07:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
What was he in jail for? What is it you really want? By not telling him, it could come back and bite you in the ***. But if you tell him, he just might beat the crap out of you. You need to run while you can. I see domestic abuse rearing it's ugly head.
2007-10-17 07:55:09 · answer #11 · answered by cooter726 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋