kissed a boy before?
i have never kissed a boy before or even had a boyfriend well not a proper teenage one and i am 16!! YES 16!! well i have to admit i REALLLY wasnt looking for one beofre because i just really wasnt that sort of person or maybe at the time i didnt see myself as "that sorta person." but in the past 2 years or so i have wanted one and I have found NO ONE I LIKE or anyone that LIKES ME!!
Do boys see me as weird and really unattractive? Will I ever find true love (lol-joking aside this is a serious matter coz its really fustrating me)
Your views please:
2007-10-17 08:08:24 · 13 answers · asked by g 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wy do people say that there is probably a boy who is head over heels for you when thats probably not true? not saying that theres anything wrong with you sayin that but how likely is that?
2007-10-17 08:42:59 · update #1
You are a young woman. You will be fighting men away for the next 30+ years. TRUST ME! I know that your world seems real and you are stressing over the "soap opera" of high school drama but believe me, 5 years from now, you will look back at this and laugh. Five years from now, you won't care. You are still growing. I know a lot of girls who were ducks in high school who are dimes now. Dimes in high school, ducks now. You will get your kiss in due time.
2007-10-17 08:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by ScottieBoi3000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have an 18 year old daughter who hasn't had a real boyfriend. Except some idiot she met on line who feeds her a bunch of bull. So I see nothing wrong with you being 16 and not having met the right guy for you. I'm going to tell you what I tell my daughter. It's best not to rush these things than to end up with a loser. You and her are just 16 and 18. You have your whole life ahead of you. It's not like your thirty. Give it time. Go to school dances and if you have friends with brothers. Ask them to introduce you.
2007-10-17 15:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first kiss when i was 17 and it wasn't with a boy I liked coz i just wanted to try everything so fast... I wish I had waited actually even longer coz theres nothing nice to remember about... I think it's better later but with love than early and thinking just about that all your friends do that...
2007-10-17 15:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by worra_pianiste 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see yourself as weird and unattractive..
And you're probably super-model beautiful...
Once you gain some self-confidence, things will happen..
and , you may not believe this, but there is a boy that you know, that is head-over-heels in love with you right now.....
2007-10-17 15:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young to be worrying about something like this. There is nothing wrong with not being kissed at 16..in fact it's admirable.
2007-10-17 15:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by typerchic34 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a big deal babe, guys dont have a problem teaching you how. Theres no need for verbal commands or anything, just press you face to his and try to go along with what happens.
2007-10-17 15:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by billgoats79 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First calm down. Second its not that big of a deal I was 17 before I had my first kiss and my first bf. I just wasn't interested in them before then. Don't rush anything!
2007-10-17 15:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by NyNy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are still young, trust me there's no read to stress about this right now. Guys will come in and out of your life when the time is right..if you don't like any one then you don't like any one! don't force yourself to like someone just to kiss them! it won't mean anything. Once that person comes around that you like it will change your outlook on things...but trust me, you have time...like 80 years worth =P focus on schools and goin to college soon...that gets u far in life not guys
2007-10-17 15:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by melly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you just haven't found the right one yet and when you do you will know. Don't worry your young you have plenty of time on your hands don't let that distract you now you have other things to focus on like SCHOOL or WORK or FAMILY just keep moving forward.....
2007-10-17 15:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your time will come, you'll see. and i dont think boys will find that unnatractive. besides, i'm 16 also, NEVER had a boyfriend. and still waiting for the day....
2007-10-17 15:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Kiki 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋