hey ladies , need an honest answers , me and my gf just had sex for the first time yesterday and was amazing , she feels the same way coz she called me at work and told me today that she would love to do it again ...... the question is she left me clueless that when does she want me to do it ? I mean she clearly wants me to take the initiative , but overdoing it shouldnt harm the relationship for which i have invested 3 months of my life ? but I really want to make her happy ... so suggestions on how many times a week would be perfect ?
2007-10-17 08:07:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on you and her. Everyone has different preferences on how much or how little they would like it. Remember, women get sore with too much action and then sex becomes uncomfortable and can even be really painful at times. It just depends on the two of you. You take the initiative, and let her lead sometimes as well. You will know the signs. It should not be a planned thing, and you should not ask her when the next time she wants it will be. Just let it happen naturally. You will both be more comfortable with it than you would if you planned it....it just is not something that should be planned. Just pay attention to how she acts when she does want it, and go on that. If she turns you down if you misread her actions, do not get offended bc there are many factors that it could be, and it is not likely that it would be anyth ing about you. For example, it could be feminine problems, soreness, she may not feel well, or she may be too stressed. Things like this play a major role in bringing you down to where you do not want to have sex. Congrats on it being amazing! And no, it is not likely that you trying too much will harm the relationship unless you come across as that is all that you are worried about. Don't stress so much about it.
2007-10-17 08:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The second you two meet initiate it. If you are passionate about her then show it, I'm sure she is just as ready to get things going. Ive had sex 3-5 times a day for months on end. There is no limit. Have fun!
2007-10-17 08:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's the suggestion....
ASK HER!
Since both of you feel the same way about this subject, this is a perfect opportunity to discuss how, when, and how often. Having a close relationship is more than just sex... it's an ability and open-ness to be able to talk about everything.
Don't go by your idea alone or worse, someone elses's idea. Her's might be completely different.
2007-10-17 08:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Many Girls of course like sex but, they don't want to feel like their guy is taking advantage of them I read many "chick magazines" and lots of the polls say that I best amount Is four times a week.
2007-10-17 08:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by lady 16 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is likely that she wants it again very soon. However, make sure that you do spend quality time together without having sex. The non sexual intimacy is just as important. Good luck and Congrats. :-)
2007-10-17 08:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by THE RESCUE LLAMA!!! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
properly, thats the place i'm with my guy, we even stay at the same time, and it relatively is not what proportion situations a week, greater... what proportion situations an afternoon! i assume it extremely relies upon on the two human beings and their life.
2016-10-07 02:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time to go slow. Make her understand its she who has to be comfy. Men go wrong. As a woman I say just lead her slow and make her decide.
2007-10-17 08:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ASAP is the best answer! New relationships start off with tons of sex!
2007-10-17 08:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by billgoats79 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look at you, lucky guy! Do as much as you can, cause time is running and you are getting older. Age don't help.
2007-10-17 08:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by tom c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well in the beginning you will be doing it like every day and then it should go to like 5 times /week
2007-10-17 08:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by Amy Leigh 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋