okay i like this boy in my civics class his name is Thomas S. he sits behind me and i love it. okay first off i passed him the text books and he and i made major eye contact then he blushed so i turned away than all of a sudden he drops them all on the floor. then the next day he insists i dropped them so when i passed him the text books the next time i said don't drop them and i trew them at him but he caught them all i giggled. okay he also puts his feet on the back of my chair and tapps out a beat and starts beat boxing on one i herd him singing under his breath "Sarah" by thin lizzy http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c5AWfX8vc0o&mode=related&search= and my name is Sarah and he tas tapping on the back of my chair then the girl beside him threw his pencil on the floor and she wouldn't pick it up so he asked me to and i did and he said oh well at least you are nice to me?? and he smiled so i smiled back and turned around and did my work ?? does he like me or am i crazy ???????
2007-10-17 08:09:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what should i talk about how should i flirt can you gide me through this i have never had a boyfriend before what do i do ???? help ????
2007-10-17 08:10:17 · update #1
It sounds like he has a little crush on you, for sure! Just try and make small talk with him in class, or catch up with him at his locker. Or tell him you love that song he's singing.
Don't come on too strong though, make a move like asking to borrow his notes, or what his plans are for the weekend. If he responds well, flirt with him a bit and see where he goes from there. In my experience with boys, relationships work out best where the boy chases you, not the other way around. If you try to warm up to him and he doesn't respond, then he's not worth your time!
2007-10-17 08:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was that girl, and I didn't go for it right away, and I regret it! Flirt tastefully. Don't show too much skin, and surely don't rush into anything that makes you uncomfortable. Ask him out, if he says no or gets shy, say something quick, like an unofficial official first date, the one before the date? Something kinda corney to lighten the mood and break the ice, then offer to pick him up with you horse and buggy, and set a time! (trust me, the more you do this now, the better you will get, Rejection is a part of life, it makes you who you are. Sometimes, you have to take one on the chin, but when you get to do the swinging, and you make a good contact, there is nothing more satisfying than a win!)
2007-10-17 08:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well "Sarah" he does like you of course. That whole textbook thing is really textbook unexperienced flirting. All that "trash-love talking" is also a sign he is flirting. Just be cool and ask him out. Not in class of course. Wait till class is over, wait for him to go out to the hallway and just say "hey (tom,thomas, tommy, whatever) i was thinking if you want to hangout this weekend" When he says "yeah sure" just say "meet me at..." The movies is always a great place to go on a first date.
2007-10-19 15:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, He definatly likes you... I think you should flirt back with him and i see that you asked how to flirt back with him... Well, why dont you see if he wants to hang out?? doesnt have to be just the two of you because I can see how that may be awkward at first. Have a group thing... like your friends and his freinds kind a thing... have everyone get together and go to east one night...From there you can tell how he is outside of school and you will definatly know where the 2 of you stand.
2007-10-17 08:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there's a pretty good chance that he likes you.
If you want to let him know that you're interested without going "out on a limb" too much, try telling him that you like it when he sings that song. That will help boost his confidence, but it doesn't expose you too much if it turns out he's not really interested. And maybe the song will give you something to start a discussion about music and you can get to know each other better. Gotta start somewhere ;)
Good luck!
2007-10-17 08:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Scott B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes ya. He wouldn't give you the time of day if he didn't. Maybe enjoy the flirting a while longer just to make sure, then maybe you can ask him out AFTER class or at least somewhere not IN class.
2007-10-17 08:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by johnstonluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all he could just like you as a friend so try not to get too excited about him. it sounds like this guy is a typical ladies man and he could be flirting, or he might just do this to every girl. but then again if he does like you then play him at his own game, flirt back. Laugh at any jokes he makes, compliment him, turn round and give him the odd quick little smile, just whatever he does, do it back. If he carries on flirting or he does it more he probabaly likes you and will want to get to know you better. if you get any time for a quick chat turn round and ask him somthing simple like "how much have you written" i mean talking about your work. just simple things like this might get him interested in talking to you more. Im no expert as iv never had a boyfriend myself but im about in the same situation, i sit next to a lad in english and he flirts a little but i dont know if it means he likes me. all im doing is waiting to see how things go and i suggest you do the same, you never know, given enough time to get to know you he might just be tempted to ask you out! good luck!
xx
2007-10-17 08:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he likes you, he's just waiting for u to make the first move. He isn't sure if u like him, so don't be afraid to ask him out to the movies or something. Get a piece of paper and ask him out . Make a box for him to check yes or no, drop it near his chair and say you dropped something and wait for his answer...
2007-10-17 08:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by ttp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, just be cool and try not to flirt so much with him. Let him chase you a little bit. Guys like things they cant have but eventually get.
The less you pay attention to him, the more he is going to want you. Dont be rude to him or anything still answer his questions but dont iniate anything.
Good luck I hope you guys get married. that would be cute
2007-10-17 08:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by Amy Leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 02:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋