a mate of mine recently split with his girlfriend after a year hes findin it hard, got any advice for him? ive tried helping him but its not enough :(
2007-10-17 07:36:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
time really is the main factor in healing a heart. Other than that, its best to keep busy. Take him out to be around people and meet new people. He should go and do things that interest him, be around friends, try new things. Anything to keep his mind off the breakup. In a few months, the pain will dull and he'll start feeling better. Its good for him to have good friends like you!
2007-10-17 07:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough. Once a girl broke my heart, it took about a year to really get back on track, I still felt the effects for about 5 years, seriously. here it is about 17-18 years later and I still feel the scars left...they say time heals all wounds...for some the clock runs slower. Keep your mate busy with distractions. Stay off of romatic topics, don't suggest dating another. Be supportive and look for distractions. Overnight, weekend trips, trip to the big city if your from the country (or vice versa). Maybe get him to take up writing or music, or acting in the theatre...all are a great outlet for emptying out emotion! Good luck, keep me posted. I hate to see anyone go through a situation this penetrating to their soul.
2007-10-17 07:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by byrnechas 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you could introduce him to some new friends and things to do?? Maybe set him up on a blind date-or a double date to take his mind off the pain? Compliment him a lot, (but stay close to the truth-bring up his good points-don't get too far out with it, know what I mean?) if this does not work he will have to heal on his own time. Though giving him a shove in the right direction may work, and he can take it from there.
2007-10-17 07:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dumped her. Aparently you probably did no longer desire her, and he did. He did no longer do something incorrect. that's different from he stole her. He would not have stored it from you, yet i'm particular he in common terms did it via fact he did no longer desire you to experience uncomfortable or harm. you will possibly be mad in case you desire to, yet do no longer permit the friendship circulate basically via this. that could be stupid on your section via fact that he in common terms took in what you permit in the past a month later.
2016-10-07 02:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get out of the house and not soak in his misery. Don't call her or try to contact her. Remember why you broke up in the first place.
2007-10-17 07:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by lavendercat84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell hem to go find somebody hotter then the first in act like you really in love wit that girl in the one that split wit you goin to end up wont in you back it works try it!
2007-10-17 07:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.LaBoard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That not unusual,when i go without female company,i often find it hard,then i usually retire to my bedroom with a tissue.
2007-10-17 07:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by havanadig 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time and a change of rutine maybe nobody can really help he needs to heal on his own in his own way
2007-10-17 07:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah -- only time will help. Sorry.....there's no quick cure and he seems to be taking a long time getting over her as it is.......
2007-10-17 07:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she wasnt meant for him.. he could always find someone better off.. leave him alone for sometime too.. trying to get him back on would give wrong hints.
2007-10-17 07:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by suga498 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋