If a girl has been with her bf for lets say 2 years plus, and he has done nothing wrong to her...would it still possible for her to fall in love, like or be interested in another guy? What's the likelihood of her leaving him for the new dude? Is it really possible? What would it take?
Someone once told me this only happens with girls who are young and don't know what they want.
2007-10-17 07:36:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it can happen without their being a reason (i.e. being treated badly). Nothing to do with maturity really.
2007-10-17 07:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even women who have been married for 20 years fall into this trap. Sometimes women just get bored with the same old face around and when somebody new pays them some attention, it can make her feel a lot better about herself. Not saying that the man she's been with has done anything wrong or anything, it's just like a boost of confidence. Maybe the new guy is giving her the feelings that she felt in the beginning of the current relationship (you know, when they first started going out-getting complimented, laughing about stories she hasn't heard already, possibly a different style in kissing, etc). It's probably just the excitement of being with somebody new's company. So it all really depends on how the relationship is with the current guy. She'll probably want to weigh out her options or pros/cons. Personally, this happened to me more than once. And usually it was just like I said. The one that sticks in my head the most was just something fun, but I never stopped thinking about my man at home. That's why I didn't let anything happen, wouldn't kiss him goodnight, or any of that. Luckily I had my good man waiting for me and I did admit what I was doing and we talked about what made me feel that I needed someone else to make me feel better. So like most relationship issues, the couple just needs to communicate and discuss where the underlying issues are. Best of luck to you or your friend!!!
2007-10-17 14:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lexus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy is perfect for her, so I don't see a reason why the girl shouldn't atleast somewhat love him.
..Unless all the girl cares about are looks and the other guy is better dressed or has a "perfect face", then yes, there's a possibility that she might leave for the new guy.
It's not immature or mature, it's just what the girl is thinking from her point of view. But she might not find a guy like her old boyfriend ever again.
2007-10-17 14:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Keah0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things always change. That is not immaturity. It is how one handles those changes that denotes the level of maturity.
2007-10-17 14:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋