She's always been popular and has had lots of men friends, white, black ,brown, old and young. Normally she is careful but has slipped up. She wants to keep the baby because of the benefits she will be able to get. Regarding the dad is the problem she wants to choose one she likes but I'e told her to go for the one with the biggest bank balance.
2007-10-17 07:43:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well Micky, Bernie Ecclestone has got more money than 100 people could spend in one lifetime, tell her to go for him. she could buy him a stepladder and stick a bag over his head and he would be fine.
2007-10-17 11:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by val f1 nutter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off...just keeping a baby for benefits is wrong. That's is just...well leaves me speechless to be quite frank. And honestly what type of benefits.....free govt. mac-n-cheese, powdered milk big whoop. Coupons for formula and diapers which only last a year. That's it...she doesn't get anything else. No money and she has bills on top of all of that and a screaming kid that wakes up every 2 hrs to be fed and changed. When the benefits run out what is she going to do? Toss the kid aside?
Choosing a dad? You can't just choose a dad. Whoever the sperm belonged to that got to the egg first is the dad. She has to inform those that she has chosen to sleep with and then have a DNA test performed when the baby arrives.
I wish you and your family all the luck in the world, but you guys need a reality check. To be quite honest I have a hard time believing that a father would even post a question like this and blow it off as if it is a joke.
2007-10-17 07:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by mamabee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She wants to keep the baby because of the benefits? That's just wrong! Also, any guy that she "picks" to be the dad will most likely request a DNA test... Oh, and if she "picks" a white guy to be the dad, and ends up with a black kid - you've got problems! Get a DNA test after the baby is born and go from there...
2007-10-17 07:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell of a good Idea Mick-ol-boy. But why go for the one with the biggest bank account? He may choose to hire a lawyer, so he can learn how to be a dead beat dad! Don't hassle with the white, black, brown young and old's....to much hassle!!
Just have her sell the kid on the black market! It should fetch a good amount no matter what color! Make sure you get your cut! that way niether of yous got to spend time in the welfare lines! Hows that for a smart- @ss answer to a smart-@ss question!!
2007-10-17 08:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by david 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sat down and talk with your daughter with some common sense. There are too many diseases out there for her to have this kind of lifestyle. She need to get a dna test done to determine who her child's father is and go from there. If by any chance she can not find the father, she need to be careful about who she involves not only herself with but also her child. To tell her to go for the one with the biggest bank account is not the solution. The one with the big bank account could be an abuser, rapist, child molester, murderer, drug addict, alcoholic, you name it. And you are telling your daughter to go for the one with the most money. That's not healthy for her or the baby. Sounds like you and your daughter is not concerned about the well being of the child. You two just want money. Tell her to have the child and then turn the little one over to an adoption agency so that it can get the love and attention that it needs. I know it takes money to provide for a child but it takes love to raise a child properly.
2007-10-17 08:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by PRECIANA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many things wrong with this question.
1- She needs an abortion. Plain and simple.
2- She wants to have the kid because of the benefits? WTF?!
3- YOU as her father are supporting this desicion?!
I HATE kids. I know I do, and will never have one. I would abort if I EVER became pregnant. If you want a child for any reason other than your love for kids you have no business having one. Like others said, I'm exhausted with paying taxes to support lazy, no good leeches of society like your daughter (and my guess would be the rest of your family). As a hardworking 4.0 college student with 2 jobs, I can't even get any financial aid!
I really, really hope this question is a joke.
2007-10-17 07:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by justme 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your right and she is lucky to have such a clever reasonable man as a dad. tell her to pick whoever has the most dosh. It is bettter that she has 4 or more children then the big benefits realy kick in. She can easily get a 4 bedroom council hose too. I have 5 kids and I've never worked a day in my life and I have enough money to drive an mpv and i go to the pub at tleast 4 nights a week. but i am lucky my kids dont like all that fancy fruit and veg stuff. they like chips and chip butties best/
2007-10-17 08:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by ??? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
perhaps you should teach her to keep her legs closed. Another baby the taxpayer has to support. If getting benefits is the only reason she wants it, it would be better off adopted.
If she needs money why dont you stand her on the street corner so she can get paid for being a slapper
2007-10-17 08:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding me, benefits, and bank balances, thats what being pregnant and having a child has come to. What about loving and caring for the child, thats secondary, its a sad, sad world.
2007-10-17 07:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by Nurse Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the same daughter who wants to have sex with a married man, the daughter who wants a white wedding, but who will look silly, or the daughter who broke off her engagement because her fiance had sex with her sister? Do keep us posted on the next instament.
2007-10-17 11:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by steffi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's after a big bank account a dna test will be in order.
This child will not be happy knowing it is only alive so mommy can get a check.
2007-10-17 08:22:14 · answer #11 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋