him I found him on myspace and sent a message, and everyday I am obessed to know if he cheaked his messages? I was 14 when I dated him now I am 26years old it was so long ago do you think deep down inside I still love him and not admiting it to myself? PLease help/ I do love my boyfriend very much though this is just to confusing?
2007-10-17 05:26:06 · 12 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be simply that you have unresolved issues with this ex. Thinking about him while you have a boyfriend may disturb you but there's not necessarily anything wrong there. If you spoke with him or communicated with him it might help resolve whatever is going on with you. If you think it would go further and lead to something more then you might be opening the door to problems with your current BF. It might be best to just let it go. When you were with the ex you were so young and it was long ago. He's certainly not the same person he was as you aren't the same person either. The thoughts you are having about him are connected to the past and not the present. Some things are better left in the past.
2007-10-17 05:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 12 years he may not even remember who you are. It is natural to wonder what is going on with someone you knew as a child. It is also natural to think that being a boyfriend/girlfriend at 14 is something real. If he doesn't answer you it is because he doesn't want to, let it go. And just maybe you might begin to think just how much you really love your current boyfriend cause this could be an indication you feel something is missing from that relationship.
2007-10-17 05:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could just be curiosity and no need for alarm. It's pretty interesting to wonder how a relationship could be from so long ago. I think this is a situation that needs to be waited out.
You have two options: If you want to start a new relationship, keep talking to this guy and see where it takes you, but do realize that this could seriously jeprodize your current relationship.
Or, if you don't want to ruin what you have now, you're going to need to stop talking to your old boyfriend immediately. It's too risky. If you want to be friends with the old boyfriend, you're going to have to commit yourself to your current boyfriend and make sure that you don't let it go any further.
Risky business, but time will surely give you an answer.
2007-10-17 05:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by melancholycoffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get your head out of the past, you may have had a thing for this boy at 14 but you have no idea who he is today. I too have looked in the past and wondered what could have been, and when the opertunity presented itself, i was always let down on who they became, i wouldn't risk a sure thing on a crush from your childhood!
2007-10-17 05:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by ICthruU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try to focus on your boyfriend and not worry about the past that why its in the past. You was 14 get over it. Why are u even writing him your in the wrong you must not be happy or something.
2007-10-17 05:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend why are you running back to your ex. You may still have feelings for your ex, but if you want the relationship that you have now to last, then you must let your ex go.
2007-10-17 05:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily, i could say you're no longer emotionally mature sufficient for that relationship yet (no longer attempting to be rude). i'm no longer asserting which you're no longer mature sufficient for any relationship, basically that one. this is stressful to enable circulate now and lower back, yet we could, extremely for the individuals we adore. As time is going on, according to danger you will learn that retaining grudges will consume your life in case you don't get a manage on issues. anyone makes blunders and merits a 2nd danger.
2016-10-09 10:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are assuming you can only be in Love with one person at a time.
Im guessing he left you and you feel many unresolved issues there. You will probably have to choose. Make a good choice.
2007-10-17 05:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be careful. Don't think your in love though. Remember...the grass is always greener on the other side. Don't make a mistake based on old flings.
2007-10-17 05:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by tcjstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you do still have feelings for him, for one reason or another ,it could be something he did with you in the past or he was your first love... Whatever the reason,our past is what helps make what we are today, and its what we do today that makes our futcher tomorrows ,
2007-10-17 05:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by handymanny4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋